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Hi All I Am Returning To This Forum After A Very Long Time

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Hi all I am returning to this forum after a very long time. Thanks to everyone here who heard my problems and gave great advices. So far my life has been good I have no complains. I want to continue this peaceful life hence I am here to get some advice so that I don't end up ruining what I have.

I have never been tactful in handling my in laws or my hubby . My hubby knows my outspoken nature so he handles me well. I have changed a lot during past couple of months to avoid hurting my in laws or my hubby with my bad mouth.

There some things that bother me still but I don't want to ask my hubby as its money related. My in laws are not greedy people (as of yet because both of us are not fully earning) they are not the ones who says to give them all the money and they will handle expenses. Here is where I need help on how to handle situations?

1. We will be going to India for my sons ceremony there my husband said that he will like to bear the expenses as its our sons ceremony . Now I am afraid my PIL will go over board in which they would want us to give my SIL, BIL and their son, expensive stuff which I am totally against but I don't want to tell this to my DH as its his sister.

2. In India , should I just let my hubby take care of all the expenses with out knowing the amount and take my part of money that I want to spend on myself. I am afraid that if my DH will tell me how much he is spending on everyone I will get very upset. I don't know if this is a wrong behavior on my part??

3. Currently my PIL are staying with us in US, they will be going back soon. However they are getting gifts for there relatives which I am paying for.. Everyday they ask my SIL son of what he wants , he has list of gifts that he wants from them and that too we will paying for. I don't know how to say that he doesn't need all those gifts? How is the best way to approach this without hurting there feelings??

Please help me get tactful here!!!!
 
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