Is second Child really important these days ??

[pumpkin]

Just want to see different perspectives of having or not having second child ??

 

My opinion is having one kid ..because u can invest/energy  everything u have on the kid to make sure he becomes better human being 

[mtkr]

prema suggestions..

pelli decisions...

ippudu pillala births  gurinchi kuda db involvements Aa!!! 

[Tyrion_Lannister]

single child ayte he/she will miss sibling love and support

so second child is very important

[mastercheif]

6 minutes ago, pumpkin said:

Just want to see different perspectives of having or not having second child ??

 

My opinion is having one kid ..because u can invest/energy  everything u have on the kid to make sure he becomes better human being 

avasaram unnappudu second child rent ki tecchuko man .

[pumpkin]

Just now, Tyrion_Lannister said:

single child ayte he/she will miss sibling love and support

so second child is very important

in US to raise the kid till 18 it costs 250K on an average 

[pumpkin]

Just now, mastercheif said:

avasaram unnappudu second child rent ki tecchuko man .

u mean dadathu ??

[mastercheif]

1 minute ago, pumpkin said:

u mean dadathu ??

no man... 1 day ,2 day rent ki.

[lucky7]

6 minutes ago, pumpkin said:

Just want to see different perspectives of having or not having second child ??

 

My opinion is having one kid ..because u can invest/energy  everything u have on the kid to make sure he becomes better human being 

india lo ayithe yes u need 2nd kid. ikkada ayithe inka depends on case by case basis.

if you are married and both are working FT jobs, staying in same location Then you can go ahead with 2nd kid

if both are contractors and dont know about future ==> Big No

If you have good fT stable job ==> Yes. 

Rest all Big No 

[lucky7]

5 minutes ago, Tyrion_Lannister said:

single child ayte he/she will miss sibling love and support

so second child is very important

siblings love and support thats bullshit, siblings chippandu baga nne untarru after they got married, then you will come to know their true faces. 

[Arya2]

29 minutes ago, pumpkin said:

Just want to see different perspectives of having or not having second child ??

 

My opinion is having one kid ..because u can invest/energy  everything u have on the kid to make sure he becomes better human being 

one or two doesn't matter. what matters here is taking care of them. current generation lo kids caring aus/us lo better than in india. naaku chala mandi nieces/nephews unnaru. some in australia, usa and some in india. villaki difference just not only culture but also caring, maturity which were not properly taken care by their parents. 

Aus kid-- he talks about everything. he doesn't fight with others, always like to play with others, analyzing the things. too much caring about the family. 

Ind-- don't care anyone, no proper communication. for example. veeedu valla sister ni chinna cycle thokkutu hit chesadu but not even caring her. kottesi vellipotunadu anthe. akada paapa padipothe chusi navvutunadu. same situation aus kid vachi papani console cheyataniki try chesadu. Us kid sitting on couch playing some game and behaving like not happening anything around him.

Us kid. no interaction with others. only with people who ever can talk some english and make him comfortable. usually more on video games. 

manam gadgets encourage chesthe vallu deniki paniki raaru. also we have to spend more time with them. also we have to speak only good things and always we should encourage them. chedu nuvu ee tharaha lo ayina matladina adi manchidi kaadu. chala bad impacts untayi. americans la only correct content ee valla mundu matladali. ivanni mind lo unte manchi parent avutaru. otherwise you'll end up in sheep race.

[Tyrion_Lannister]

5 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

siblings love and support thats bullshit, siblings chippandu baga nne untarru after they got married, then you will come to know their true faces. 

me siblings ala unaremo....

ma siblings nenu chusinavalandari siblings bane unaru

[mastercheif]

5 minutes ago, lucky7 said:

siblings love and support thats bullshit, siblings chippandu baga nne untarru after they got married, then you will come to know their true faces. 

aapice lo tella aunty said its reverse .

they used to hate when kids anta , pedda ayyaka they got super close.

[Edo_Okati]

12 minutes ago, pumpkin said:

in US to raise the kid till 18 it costs 250K on an average 

Marriage and family are also expensive bro.. why did you get married in the first place?

[Heroin]

One is enough

[Vaampire]

It depends from case to case.

Sibling love is very imp. At the same time u should be in a position to handle both the kids emotionally & financially.