former Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said: Hi bros, Need your suggestions I'm in complete dilemma...Father expired recently mother asking me to come back to India..H1 validity 2021 varaku undi financial ga antha super em kaadu and married last year.Heart lo India move avvali ani undi to support my mother but india velthe em cheyyalo telidu o 2-3 years mother ni evry year 6 months ekkadiki teskochi manage cheyyala ?? Or nenu move avvala em ardam kavatle... First, mee wife ok na India ki move avvtaniki? Finanical ga settle ayyinaka vellatam ante inka nevu velle pani ledu le. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
former Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said: Antha strong kaadu bhayya middle class anuko Finanical ga eppatiki strong avaalevu. nevu ikkada ekkuva kalam spend chesthe mee wife ki mood maripothadi or nee mind ayina change ayidi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psycopk Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said: Antha strong kaadu bhayya middle class anuko 40 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said: Me mother ni ikkadiki pilipinchuko +1 ippudu inida ante wife anta supportive ga kuda undadu... iddaru working aaite.. asalu india povatam waste.. first get kids.. vallaki citizenship vastadi... ee time lopu mom ni every 6months ki oka sari tepinchuko... aa tarwata chudodu... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandit Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 @ambatirayudu Work cup lo Yo-Yo test fail kaku ra bhai. Love da lo lolli untadi malli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subbu234 Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 better plan and move carefully.. tondaralo velte takkuva salary ki convince avalsi vastundi.. jagrattaga ikada companies off-shore kani product based (wells fargo type) velte manchi pay vastundi..depending on exp ofcos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JavaBava Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 Ornee eshalooo ..india lo jobs cheyyatleda ..batakatleda manusgulu .. there is no definition to settlement .. india poyi cheroka job cheskunna u can live happily .. dont gwt confused between a happy life and comfortable life. First one is in your hands .. if u learn to live that way. Ikkadunna okkadu kuda saripoyinanni dabbulu unnayani oppukoleru enni yrs tarvata anna ... evafu help cheyyadu ..ani vanda cgeptaru ..nuv manchigunte manchollu untaru nee chuttu .. okka 6 months pilipimchu .. and then oka 2-3 months undu .. or max 1 yr lo vellipovadaniki plan chesko .. learn techs . Mee wife support chestaremo adugu .. iddaru kalisi trainings teeskuni confidence to india ellipo. Save something in this 1 yr. Emanna teda ayite lifelong regret avvali .. time bagunte malli ravochu .. germany povachu or australia ..or. anada ..nee opika adi later. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 4 hours ago, Mitron said: mother ontari ga untunnara.. tanu pilustunte velladame better 3 hours ago, Pumpuhaar said: your mother needs you. mee father expired kaabati ee time lo nuvvu mee Mom pakkana undaale man...Dont think....ikkada lathkor gaalu paisal paisal ani cheptunaaru but these are hard times that needs your support....Malli raavochu US ki future lo. 3 hours ago, former said: First, mee wife ok na India ki move avvtaniki? Finanical ga settle ayyinaka vellatam ante inka nevu velle pani ledu le. 17 minutes ago, JavaBava said: Ornee eshalooo ..india lo jobs cheyyatleda ..batakatleda manusgulu .. there is no definition to settlement .. india poyi cheroka job cheskunna u can live happily .. dont gwt confused between a happy life and comfortable life. First one is in your hands .. if u learn to live that way. Ikkadunna okkadu kuda saripoyinanni dabbulu unnayani oppukoleru enni yrs tarvata anna ... evafu help cheyyadu ..ani vanda cgeptaru ..nuv manchigunte manchollu untaru nee chuttu .. okka 6 months pilipimchu .. and then oka 2-3 months undu .. or max 1 yr lo vellipovadaniki plan chesko .. learn techs . Mee wife support chestaremo adugu .. iddaru kalisi trainings teeskuni confidence to india ellipo. Save something in this 1 yr. Emanna teda ayite lifelong regret avvali .. time bagunte malli ravochu .. germany povachu or australia ..or. anada ..nee opika adi later. good comments Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 Ts idhi nu ikkada addigey question kadu u know u r mom n wife better u take the decision dont even see this thread inka dabbu bank lo matrame untadi manushulu undali heart lo ask u r mom what she want u to do avida chepinattu chey. 2021 tarvatha ra ante apudu vellu ledante ipdu vellu u can come back. first discuss within family.If i were u i will do this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted October 22, 2018 Report Share Posted October 22, 2018 India or usa mind or heart anywhere u have to wash u r own aaasss inthak mundu india lo mug lo water isthunde ipudu adi kuda iyatle ani @kiladi bullodu tolded Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Merabharathmahan Posted October 23, 2018 Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rushabhi Posted October 23, 2018 Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 I am seeing a lot of cases where bringing parents here is causing their health to degenerate.Think about that. If your mom is generally healthy you can bring her here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ennnna chata Posted October 23, 2018 Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 5 hours ago, ambatirayudu said: Hi bros, Need your suggestions I'm in complete dilemma...Father expired recently mother asking me to come back to India..H1 validity 2021 varaku undi financial ga antha super em kaadu and married last year.Heart lo India move avvali ani undi to support my mother but india velthe em cheyyalo telidu o 2-3 years mother ni evry year 6 months ekkadiki teskochi manage cheyyala ?? Or nenu move avvala em ardam kavatle... Bring your mom here and spend more time with her like work from home and take her for walks every evening and temples. After 6 months see if your grandparents or anyone close can stay with her for few months and make plans for return in this 1 year based on how your mother is reacting to the situations First parents and next anything so instead of returning on day 1 stay with mother and slowly evaluate what you both neeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samaja_varagamana Posted October 23, 2018 Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 49 minutes ago, Merabharathmahan said: TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. harsh ga chepina baa cheppav chinnapudu naku nyt jwaram osthe nannu ethukuni ma amma midnyt tarvatha hospital ki vellina rojulu gurthochai. I love my mom whatever it is.If she asks i will leave everything and go to her . Kani she is not asking.(ENTHA AYNA AMMA AMMA EY BHAYYA).ILanti selfless amma lu future lo untaro undaro kuda dbt ey. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ambatirayudu Posted October 23, 2018 Author Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 3 hours ago, Merabharathmahan said: TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. 3 months velli vacha appudu normal gane unnaru but nenu ekkadiki vachaka things changed...liked your words but lopala india velthe em cheyyalo telika o bayam tho post vesina bro Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peddayana Posted October 23, 2018 Report Share Posted October 23, 2018 bring your mom here , check and see if she recovers in next 6 months , baga attention pay cheyi , she may be in depression or feeling really low , 6 months aithe change avvochu , decide after that whether you want to go or not 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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