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1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said:

Hi bros,

Need your suggestions I'm in complete dilemma...Father expired recently mother asking me to come back to India..H1 validity 2021 varaku undi financial ga antha super em kaadu and married last year.Heart lo India move avvali ani undi to support my mother but india velthe em cheyyalo telidu o 2-3 years mother ni evry year 6 months ekkadiki teskochi manage cheyyala ?? Or nenu move avvala em ardam kavatle...

First, mee wife ok na India ki move avvtaniki?

Finanical ga settle ayyinaka vellatam ante inka nevu velle pani ledu le.

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1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said:

Antha strong kaadu bhayya middle class anuko

Finanical ga eppatiki strong avaalevu. nevu ikkada ekkuva kalam spend chesthe mee wife ki mood maripothadi or nee mind ayina change ayidi.

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1 hour ago, ambatirayudu said:

Antha strong kaadu bhayya middle class anuko

 

40 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

Me mother ni ikkadiki pilipinchuko

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ippudu inida ante wife anta supportive ga kuda undadu... iddaru working aaite.. asalu india povatam waste..

first get kids.. vallaki citizenship vastadi... ee time lopu mom ni every 6months ki oka sari tepinchuko... aa tarwata chudodu... 

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better plan and move carefully.. tondaralo velte takkuva salary ki convince avalsi vastundi.. jagrattaga ikada companies off-shore kani product based (wells fargo type) velte manchi pay vastundi..depending on exp ofcos

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Ornee eshalooo ..india lo jobs cheyyatleda ..batakatleda manusgulu .. there is no definition to settlement  .. india poyi cheroka job cheskunna u can live happily .. dont gwt confused between a happy life and comfortable life. First one is in your hands .. if u learn to live that way. Ikkadunna okkadu kuda saripoyinanni dabbulu unnayani oppukoleru enni yrs tarvata anna ... evafu help cheyyadu ..ani vanda cgeptaru ..nuv manchigunte manchollu untaru nee chuttu .. okka 6 months pilipimchu .. and then oka 2-3 months undu .. or max 1 yr lo vellipovadaniki plan chesko .. learn techs 

. Mee wife support chestaremo adugu .. iddaru kalisi trainings teeskuni confidence to india ellipo. Save something in this 1 yr. Emanna teda ayite lifelong regret avvali .. time bagunte malli ravochu .. germany povachu or australia ..or. anada ..nee opika adi later.

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4 hours ago, Mitron said:

mother ontari ga untunnara.. tanu pilustunte velladame better

 

3 hours ago, Pumpuhaar said:

your mother needs you. mee father expired kaabati ee time lo nuvvu mee Mom pakkana undaale man...Dont think....ikkada lathkor gaalu paisal paisal ani cheptunaaru but these are hard times that needs your support....Malli raavochu US ki future lo.

 

3 hours ago, former said:

First, mee wife ok na India ki move avvtaniki?

Finanical ga settle ayyinaka vellatam ante inka nevu velle pani ledu le.

 

17 minutes ago, JavaBava said:

Ornee eshalooo ..india lo jobs cheyyatleda ..batakatleda manusgulu .. there is no definition to settlement  .. india poyi cheroka job cheskunna u can live happily .. dont gwt confused between a happy life and comfortable life. First one is in your hands .. if u learn to live that way. Ikkadunna okkadu kuda saripoyinanni dabbulu unnayani oppukoleru enni yrs tarvata anna ... evafu help cheyyadu ..ani vanda cgeptaru ..nuv manchigunte manchollu untaru nee chuttu .. okka 6 months pilipimchu .. and then oka 2-3 months undu .. or max 1 yr lo vellipovadaniki plan chesko .. learn techs 

. Mee wife support chestaremo adugu .. iddaru kalisi trainings teeskuni confidence to india ellipo. Save something in this 1 yr. Emanna teda ayite lifelong regret avvali .. time bagunte malli ravochu .. germany povachu or australia ..or. anada ..nee opika adi later.

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Ts idhi nu ikkada addigey question kadu

u know u r mom n wife better

u take the decision dont even see this thread inka

dabbu bank lo matrame untadi manushulu undali heart lo

ask u r mom what she want u to do

avida chepinattu chey. 2021 tarvatha ra ante apudu vellu ledante ipdu vellu 

u can come back.

first discuss within family.If i were u i will do this

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TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? 

Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. 

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5 hours ago, ambatirayudu said:

Hi bros,

Need your suggestions I'm in complete dilemma...Father expired recently mother asking me to come back to India..H1 validity 2021 varaku undi financial ga antha super em kaadu and married last year.Heart lo India move avvali ani undi to support my mother but india velthe em cheyyalo telidu o 2-3 years mother ni evry year 6 months ekkadiki teskochi manage cheyyala ?? Or nenu move avvala em ardam kavatle...

Bring your mom here and spend more time with her like work from home and take her for walks every evening and temples. After 6 months see if your grandparents or anyone close can stay with her for few months and make plans for return in this 1 year  based on how your mother is reacting to the situations 

First parents and next anything so instead of returning on day 1 stay with mother and slowly evaluate what you both neeed 

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49 minutes ago, Merabharathmahan said:

TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? 

Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. 

harsh ga chepina baa cheppav

chinnapudu naku nyt jwaram osthe nannu ethukuni ma amma midnyt tarvatha hospital ki vellina rojulu gurthochai.

I love my mom whatever it is.If she asks i will leave everything and go to her . Kani she is not asking.(ENTHA AYNA AMMA AMMA EY BHAYYA).ILanti selfless amma lu future lo untaro undaro kuda dbt ey.

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3 hours ago, Merabharathmahan said:

TS, mee amma kooda ninnu kane mundu thana health and thana life ani selfish ga think chesi unte nuvvu ee bhoomi meedike vache vadivi kadu. nuvvu next 5-10 years lo untavo paiki potavo kooda guarantee ledu and mee amma gari health kooda ela untado teliyadu. Repu ame health padayyi bed meeda padithe nuvvu future lo badha padina labham ledu. First priority is parents and ur wife and kids then job and money. Mee nanna chanipothe vellinava leka visa issues ayitayani poleda? 

Thalliki seva chey, future lo kotlu sampadistav ekkadunna ame aashirvadhalu unte. Kanipinchani devudiki evevo chesta antaru but ninnu create chesina thalli kosam ee matram cheyaleva. 

3 months velli vacha appudu normal gane unnaru but nenu ekkadiki vachaka things changed...liked your words but lopala india velthe em cheyyalo telika o bayam tho post vesina bro

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bring your mom here , check and see if she recovers in next 6 months , baga attention pay cheyi , she may be in depression or feeling really low , 6 months aithe change avvochu , decide after that whether you want to go or not

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