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2 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Love marriages lo girls are making a mistake of marrying friends who are incompetent just by looking at attractiveness ani kooda cheppukovachchu.

That’s calculated love marriage . Caste , wealth etc telusu koni proceed avtharu  .

its phony love marriage 

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8 minutes ago, throwawayafdb said:

Perhaps true , choosing your own partner on your own might minimize family troubles . Sadly our culture does not make us ready for that when the time comes . 

If they are not competent then parents are making a mistake of marrying kids to strangers who are incompetent. By just looking at wealth . -- Agreed, because parents are deciding it

Today's lo even in arranged marriage, both parties are giving ample freedom to bride and groom to make the final call. I think its not the arrange marriage system is to be blamed. 

1. Its the criteria that a person has in mind for selecting a partner.

2. Not completely knowing about themselves and what they want in a partner is to be blamed. 

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1 minute ago, throwawayafdb said:

That’s calculated love marriage . Caste , wealth etc telusu koni proceed avtharu  .

its phony love marriage 

Most love marriages are not like that. In fact, love marriages result in poorer outcomes for the bride for the most part. 

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2 minutes ago, Scada said:

Today's lo even in arranged marriage, both parties are giving ample freedom to bride and groom to make the final call. I think its not the arrange marriage system is to be blamed. 

1. Its the criteria that a person has in mind for selecting a partner.

2. Not completely knowing about themselves and what they want in a partner is to be blamed. 

Ne post ni dummy fellow like chesaadu roooo.. Pandaga chesko.. 

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2 minutes ago, DummyVariable said:

Most love marriages are not like that. In fact, love marriages result in poorer outcomes for the bride for the most part. 

Endhi nee tone  maruthondhi emadhya 🤭 love lo paddava? 

CITI_c$y

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13 minutes ago, throwawayafdb said:

Perhaps true , choosing your own partner on your own might minimize family troubles . Sadly our culture does not make us ready for that when the time comes . 

If they are not competent then parents are making a mistake of marrying kids to strangers who are incompetent. By just looking at wealth . 

 

Sometimes people are not capable enough to choose the perfect partner like ammayi baavundi ani love. Or similar interests like u watch marvel, I watch game of thrones type. These are not the qualities that sustain the relationship in longterm. 

Easy going persons unte life cool ani @Amy99quoted

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3 minutes ago, Scada said:

Today's lo even in arranged marriage, both parties are giving ample freedom to bride and groom to make the final call. I think its not the arrange marriage system is to be blamed. 

1. Its the criteria that a person has in mind for selecting a partner.

2. Not completely knowing about themselves and what they want in a partner is to be blamed. 

in urban places parents give enough freedom to interact in person. but it's not same in town and villages 

both girl and boy have absolutely no idea of what they want because they have never been with other gender in their life. 

you may not realize but some people are a generation behind with their regressive thoughts

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