Unmarried , commit kaani singles

[Amrita]

11 minutes ago, meri_zindagi said:

Hehe... you jus donno the other side anthe... girls are judged too. And intlo valla pressure antha intha kadu. Vadu enduku voddu, veedu enduku Nachaledu, veellakem takkuva. Evaraina ala stress chesthe inka adamant avtaru. Poni porapatuna evaraina nacharu antey, maku asalu nachaledu antaru. Most of decisions were biased to impress everyone in family. And already family lo goppa cousins untaru who gets married against everyone’s will. Valla la cheyakodadu ani untundi. It takes time to get to a realization ivanni kadu ra babu we need to think about ourselves first ani. And seriously career can’t be put aside. Annitiki equal importance ivvali. It’s always the process of learning to live the life. Today marriage might be a hurdle, repu inkoti, aa tarvata inkoti. I believe One should have enough courage and zeal towards life. Nothing else matters.

Very well said. Pelli is not destiny or route to happiness. If we don't love ourselves and have enthu towards our own life how can we love anyone ?

[Biskot2]

3 hours ago, Everydayrunner said:

So everyone in my friend circle are married sometime between 27-30. 

 

Only four people are still notmarried..and they are my seniors..all of them are girls in 32-36 age range now.. 

 

They rejected so many proposals when they are in range of 24-28 age ..from 28 their proposals went down..now they are 32s-34s.

 

Girls if you are above 25 focus on getting married..career will come for women at any time of their life...unlike men who has to earn at all times..

 

Marriage gives more stability to women than men. All the best

True 

[No_body_friends]

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Very well said. Pelli is not destiny or route to happiness. If we don't love ourselves and have enthu towards our own life how can we love anyone ?

pelli is destiny ani anatledhu ee thread lo

why do a subset of girls not getting married ani TS kochen

 

everyone want to have a loving companion unless they are asexual and anti-social. 

why do some girls are not able to find a companion till 30+ . thesithe cheppu 

[meri_zindagi]

14 minutes ago, No_body_friends said:

this is what i noticed with girls :

scenario 1 : girl looks decent, but with half knowledge. 
- expectations high on money and looks
- boys pool limited due to caste and language. 

scenario 2: girl looks no decent, full banda or chubby. 
- half knowledge scenario, expectations high on money or looks 

scenario 3 : girl looks decent, full knowledge
- reasonable expectations, open for connection
- boys pool limited due to caste etc etc

All scenarios : 
- no work putting to expand marriage pool ( either to improve looks or reduce filters )
- no compromise no marriage
 

 

This is silly.. 

 

[No_body_friends]

Just now, meri_zindagi said:

This is silly.. 

 

na observation lo adhe kanapadindhi

most of telugu girls are not groomed in terms of looks compared to other desi or non desi girls. still they look for 6 feet and 8 pack. 

abbayi 6 feet and slim unte endhuku aaguthadu? full time and decent life unte why would they settle for half knowledge ungroomed telugu same caste girl?

i observed lot of guys marring non telugu and non indian girls recently solely because of this reason

[Amrita]

4 minutes ago, No_body_friends said:

pelli is destiny ani anatledhu ee thread lo

why do a subset of girls not getting married ani TS kochen

 

everyone want to have a loving companion unless they are asexual and anti-social. 

why do some girls are not able to find a companion till 30+ . thesithe cheppu 

WHy men are not able to find a companion ?  Nachute chesukuntaru nachakapote chesukoru some ppl doesnt like getting married too. Sometimes you dont meet right person why anedaniki answer undadu. Age batti kakunda manishi batti chesukune vallu untaru. Every person is different their fate is different circumstances different.Evaro edo chesaru ani manam cheyalem ga ? We do what is right for us. Deni mida pustakam rayachu but @Rushabhi already said it in prev page.

[No_body_friends]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

WHy men are not able to find a companion ?  Nachute chesukuntaru nachakapote chesukoru some ppl doesnt like getting married too. Sometimes you dont meet right person why anedaniki answer undadu. Age batti kakunda manishi batti chesukune vallu untaru. Every person is different their fate is different circumstances different. Deni mida pustakam rayachu but @Rushabhi already said it in prev page.

adhe chepthunna 

 unless they are asexual and anti-social. 

 

but marriage avvali ani 10 years nunchi search chese ammayila sangathi enti? 

can they change their filters and consider with more people?

[MagaMaharaju]

1 minute ago, No_body_friends said:

pelli is destiny ani anatledhu ee thread lo

why do a subset of girls not getting married ani TS kochen

 

everyone want to have a loving companion unless they are asexual and anti-social. 

why do some girls are not able to find a companion till 30+ . thesithe cheppu 

time anthe. Investing a lot of time on relationships that lead you no where.

It is not easy to find an emotionally intelligent partner,

who is less intimidating, more like a best friend, easy going 

and thelika thappu chesina or kopam lo oka maata thoolina who forgives quick and not hold anything against you.

Veeti annitiki minchi that person should be willing to marry you.

It's not about looks or more money

That sense of belonging and sense of security aa feel andaru ivvaleru.

[Amrita]

13 minutes ago, No_body_friends said:

adhe chepthunna 

 unless they are asexual and anti-social. 

 

but marriage avvali ani 10 years nunchi search chese ammayila sangathi enti? 

can they change their filters and consider with more people?

Wrong cheptunnav ane cheptunna its not about filters.  10 years nunchi right person dorakaledemo ? How do u know what they are going through? Manishi santa lo dorike alugadda pachi marchi kothimeera kadu ga ?  Valla life ki vallakem kavalo vallaki teleda? FIlters change chesukondi ani cheppala ? Isnt it their life ? Who will be more concerned about their life if not them.valla kanna bayatavallu intelligent and alochistara?  We never know somethings.   

10 yrs nunchi nijam ga chustunte they know better than anyone evaru em cheppakkarledu. No one is dumb they know how to handle their life. Opportunities andariki same undav luck kuda same undadu. Some people are blessed and some ppl have hard times in early life. Em telekunda easy edaina aneyadam.

Right wrong anedi undadu anukunna any woman want to believe he is right for her and like the guy at least when tying the knot. Appudu kuda nachaledu ante there is no point.

[Tyler_durden]

Unmarried females biggest reason for not getting married is - They didnt find the right guy. 

Adedo marriage aina vallandarki right guy dorkinattu. 

[meri_zindagi]

11 minutes ago, No_body_friends said:

good attitude

courage choopinchi ne pool ni penchuko

alanti zeal unna person dorakochu

Hehe.., there will be always someone to counter what we say or do. Am afraid antey, be brave antaru. Am sad antey, everything will be fine antaru. Am fine antey, ee pogare voddu antaru. 

[Raazu]

[No_body_friends]

2 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

time anthe. Investing a lot of time on relationships that lead you no where.

It is not easy to find an emotionally intelligent partner,

who is less intimidating, more like a best friend, easy going 

and thelika thappu chesina or kopam lo oka maata thoolina who forgives quick and not hold anything against you.

Veeti annitiki minchi that person should be willing to marry you.

It's not about looks or more money

That sense of belonging and sense of security aa feel andaru ivvaleru.

 

2 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Wrong cheptunnav ane cheptunna its not about filters.  10 years nunchi right person dorakaledemo ? How do u know what they are going through?

it is all about how to minimize the time to reach the right partner

 

if you talk with 5 people per year, it may take 10 years

if you talk to 500 people per year, it may take 1 year ( definitely less than 10 years )

catch enti ante, looks, caste, horoscope, language, region ani confine aithe aa 5 ye untaru pool lo to consider.

 

naku thelisi there are only two possibilities, break the filters and talk with many 

or compromise after certain age ( either with wrong partner or no marriage )

 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, No_body_friends said:

 

it is all about how to minimize the time to reach the right partner

 

if you talk with 5 people per year, it may take 10 years

if you talk to 500 people per year, it may take 1 year ( definitely less than 10 years )

catch enti ante, looks, caste, horoscope, language, region ani confine aithe aa 5 ye untaru pool lo to consider.

 

naku thelisi there are only two possibilities, break the filters and talk with many 

or compromise after certain age ( either with wrong partner or no marriage )

 

This is all your perspective every person is not @No_body_friends .  

500 ppl an year ah ? 365 days lo 500 ppl to matladali ante  ok let me stop here i dont want to comment. Idi job interview kadu to post resume to every  guy out there. 

[No_body_friends]

1 minute ago, Amrita said:

This is all your perspective every person is not @No_body_friends .  

me perspective kooda vinalane asking 

tell no

what is it stopping girls to not consider more people ?