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41 minutes ago, jiggubhai said:

Ilanti pralobhalaku talogga kudadu. it's in the hands of vuncles whether they want to get married or not.

monna maa attha varusa evaro adigaru nannu.. neeku 30 yrs kada why still not married, facing any issues ani? Naa respsone entante, meeku antha itching ga unte mee kuturni ivvandi cheskunta ani.. G muskuni silent ayipoyaru. Alane treat cheyali relatives batch ni. Ekkadikakkada thokal cut chesi thokkesi pettali

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1 hour ago, DesiPokiri said:

Mari BBWs ni chesukunna desi uncles lives inka worst aa mama aa lekkana

Vaalla bratuku daarunam, No food because BBW is always on diet, No Bed until and unless you have long and strong duck because BBW puvvu chaala skin deep lo untundi, BBW thana inferiority complex tho uncle ni torture pettochu, too much spying because BBW is insecure.

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11 hours ago, Picheshwar said:

Nen epudo cheppa, pani paata lenattu pellillu cheskokandi haayiga enjoy life and do something worthwhile with your career ani. Edo Pelli/pillal  lekapote life waste feeling lo untaru valla swayamkruta aparadham adi, em chestam. 

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Not only NRI, India lo unde uncles life is no good, too much family politics, either in laws Toni edoka godava. Same for aunties also, neither of them is happy with each other. Parents ni vadilesi intha torture avasarama, live single and take care of your parents don’t waste your life on stupid things like marriage and kids. 

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11 hours ago, Yaman02 said:

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Poor Eating Habits

It is a very common practice that both NRI spouses work, and usually they will cook meals for two or more days at a time , store it in a refrigerator. And then eat those curries, chicken, rice etc by heating it in a microwave oven. It sounds very practical and a majority of Americans live such a life. But there is something more to it.

Race for Money
Unlike India, one simply cannot afford to have a full-time housemaid in the USA unless they are a billionaire, or multi-millionaire. When both husband and wife are working, they need to do all the household work in a team. Husband takes care of the dishes and laundry, while wife vacuums the floor. If they have kids, everything really requires a great team work. Their weekends are usually spent in grocery shopping, and getting other things done. And these types of NRI folks usually complain that life is very busy and hectic here in the USA.

 

Kids gone out of Control
If you ask any rich NRI parents whose kids have gone out of control that would you prefer the 1 Million Dollar money in next 1 year or your kids to get back on track. I am dead sure many of them would prefer to have their kids back. Here is a list of few expectations what every NRI parents desperately have from t heir children.

NRI Kid out of control from their parent

  • Kids that won’t say to their parents – ” That’s my life, that is none of your business“.
  • Teen-age daughter who won’t tell her Indian dad –“Joe is black guy, so what ? Look at his body, he looks like your “Salman Khan”, I would love to go out with him.”
  • Kids that won’t say to their parents –“You are asking too many personal questions.”
  • Kids who simply love going to temple/Gurudwara accompanying their parents. And won’t consider it as a waste of time or just freaks out when they put tikka on their forehead.”
  • Kids who do not get in to endless arguments like this “You asked me to come with you at the temple, when I asked significance of the murti ( the statue of God) , the clothing on Murti etc.. even you were at loss of words. I am not convinced, sorry I would stay at home, you guys go to the temple , Satnarayan Puja whatever..
  • Kids who will not keep attacking the Indian religious beliefs and value by saying something like “I don’t get any clue what they are saying in that Pooja Ceremony and still you want me to seat 2 hours there. This is a torture.“
  • Kids who love their parents’ friend/family members and just enjoy talking everything about India and being an Indian or having the Indian friends and will never say something like “Mom & Dad, I hate your friends/family members they just talk everything about India and being an Indian.”
  • Financially these NRIs would be rich, but mentally broken as they have lots of money but no one actually cares about those hard earned money ! Is it not true that they earn so much for their kids to give them all the comforts by sacrificing all the quality time whey would have spent with their kids, but they treat them like an ATM machine ! They come near to them when they need infrastructure /money otherwise who cares !!
    These NRIs can not even admit it publicly because they are the ones who have drawn really rosy picture to their friends in-person and on Facebook virtually !

intha suthi chepinav...mari indiaaa la emaina aathull ayithundhaaaa??

it is nothing to do  with NRI'ss and indiaann working etc myaan...its something to do with individuals and their familiess...relationshipsss

marriageee is a choice and that choice is subjective...sarey anni alochinchi as per books manchi ammayi ni chesukunna ...no guarantee that the woman wont change in later course of life...

indiannn villages la ney vinatam ledhu vauntiess uncless ki...nris vauntiess full respect and gratitude tho husbandd tho manchi life lead chesey vaallu unaaru...

stopp this boooolshiiittt theories.....of late marital relationship la tolerance levels taggipothunai...thats for sure...## but it doesnt mean nriss have bad marital life and indiannn married coupless have great relationshippsss and vice versaa

also i agree kondharu marriage ni social/peer/family pressures tho chesukuntunaaru....this is not a choice it becomes rat race if someone marry like this...

Also most importantly...pelli ki mundhu chaala mandiri abadhaalu cheppi chesukuntaaru...idhi chaala mandiri patinchukovatam ledhu... ..example : amai ki pelli ki mundhu chaala kathalu naidipi pelli chesukoni vomerica pothaadhi then her husband knows abt her past....here comes the struggle...ee relationship evaru bayatiki cheppadu...but manam nri uncles quota la eseysthaam...

naaku thelsina amai hubby 4ki IT job ledhu...vaadu ms ayaaka edho kaathal mingi.....some non techie jobs and odd jobs chesthaadu...fake chesi pelli chesukundu...aa mai naathi...anna em cheyaali anna divorce theesukona antaadhi...nenu ayithey pelli ayindhi manchi chedo continue and ippudu kooda ilaagey fake stuff isthuntey better leave him ani cheppina....but that guy seems to be ok apart from job...good husband....itla chaala untai bro...

inkoti enti antey indiaa..and telugu states ghoraimaina lives lead chesey vallu unaaaru

 

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12 hours ago, huma said:

Oka vaipu VISA tensions maro vaipu ageing parents tension inkoka vaipu pellam tho baadhalu. Most of the uncles I spoke to want to go back to India and live happily with their parents with whatever they made in USA but Aunties are stopping them by putting forward kids and other problems. Aunties wants show off and luxury at the cost of unhappiness of the husbands. Uncles are crushed between parents and in laws. Parents who once loved uncles unconditionally now turned indifferent. Uncles cant go against the will of selfish Aunties. What uncles get after all their sacrifice is some money and some home cooked food, they can't spend the money they earned as per their wish. I see uncles in the office doing so much politics just to survive so that they cant satisfy parents, in laws and aunties. I even saw one uncle crying in solitude. I stopped making fun of my colleague uncle after hearing his personal problems. Em life vayya idi.

Lunchtime, sc, lv life enjoyments tho compensating vuncles....

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1 minute ago, kitkat said:

bhayya , we are not living in perfect world! life in India is not perfect and so is in USA.

either in India or US, one has to marry and make kids---Can't escape from this trap

if you escape from marriage--very soon you feel you are left alone (unless you find aged bachelor friends that think like you, which don't exist)

I recently returned from India, people thinking changed, especially women, most relatives i meet want more money, more gold ..more of everything...they are suffering with greed and uncles are also suffering to satisfy them. I see none are happy there. Now you are saying uncles in US not happy.. 

Conclusion: Happiness, satisfaction depends on YOU (not place or marriage). Human's can NOT escape from aging. life of today uncles is much better than life of tomorrow's uncle s!

 

 

Nuvvu satisfy avvalsindi / satisfy cheyyalsindi ranch lo....

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1 minute ago, kitkat said:

bhayya , we are not living in perfect world! life in India is not perfect and so is in USA.

either in India or US, one has to marry and make kids---Can't escape from this trap

if you escape from marriage--very soon you feel you are left alone (unless you find aged bachelor friends that think like you, which don't exist)

I recently returned from India, people thinking changed, especially women, most relatives i meet want more money, more gold ..more of everything...they are suffering with greed and uncles are also suffering to satisfy them. I see none are happy there. Now you are saying uncles in US not happy.. 

Conclusion: Happiness, satisfaction depends on YOU (not place or marriage). Human's can NOT escape from aging. life of today uncles is much better than life of tomorrow's uncle s!

 

 

India visit tho vyragyam vachindi ani ma aavdida saying. Iam not arguing about it

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1 hour ago, Ellen said:

Not only NRI, India lo unde uncles life is no good, too much family politics, either in laws Toni edoka godava. Same for aunties also, neither of them is happy with each other. Parents ni vadilesi intha torture avasarama, live single and take care of your parents don’t waste your life on stupid things like marriage and kids. 

If Aunties have capability (like job or supportive parents) and are unhappy they will divorce easily. For some reaons vuncles having both still dont divorce easily. Not all but many.

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On 9/15/2021 at 11:46 PM, Ellen said:

Not only NRI, India lo unde uncles life is no good, too much family politics, either in laws Toni edoka godava. Same for aunties also, neither of them is happy with each other. Parents ni vadilesi intha torture avasarama, live single and take care of your parents don’t waste your life on stupid things like marriage and kids. 

Meeru cheppedi correct e gaani SC rates kuda perigipoyayi kada, maa aakali ela teerutundi

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On 9/16/2021 at 12:12 AM, RedThupaki said:

intha suthi chepinav...mari indiaaa la emaina aathull ayithundhaaaa??

it is nothing to do  with NRI'ss and indiaann working etc myaan...its something to do with individuals and their familiess...relationshipsss

marriageee is a choice and that choice is subjective...sarey anni alochinchi as per books manchi ammayi ni chesukunna ...no guarantee that the woman wont change in later course of life...

indiannn villages la ney vinatam ledhu vauntiess uncless ki...nris vauntiess full respect and gratitude tho husbandd tho manchi life lead chesey vaallu unaaru...

stopp this boooolshiiittt theories.....of late marital relationship la tolerance levels taggipothunai...thats for sure...## but it doesnt mean nriss have bad marital life and indiannn married coupless have great relationshippsss and vice versaa

also i agree kondharu marriage ni social/peer/family pressures tho chesukuntunaaru....this is not a choice it becomes rat race if someone marry like this...

Also most importantly...pelli ki mundhu chaala mandiri abadhaalu cheppi chesukuntaaru...idhi chaala mandiri patinchukovatam ledhu... ..example : amai ki pelli ki mundhu chaala kathalu naidipi pelli chesukoni vomerica pothaadhi then her husband knows abt her past....here comes the struggle...ee relationship evaru bayatiki cheppadu...but manam nri uncles quota la eseysthaam...

naaku thelsina amai hubby 4ki IT job ledhu...vaadu ms ayaaka edho kaathal mingi.....some non techie jobs and odd jobs chesthaadu...fake chesi pelli chesukundu...aa mai naathi...anna em cheyaali anna divorce theesukona antaadhi...nenu ayithey pelli ayindhi manchi chedo continue and ippudu kooda ilaagey fake stuff isthuntey better leave him ani cheppina....but that guy seems to be ok apart from job...good husband....itla chaala untai bro...

inkoti enti antey indiaa..and telugu states ghoraimaina lives lead chesey vallu unaaaru

 

Chaala baaga cheppav

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