Why divorce rates are so high in love marriages?

[pakeer_saab]

17 hours ago, Pulkapresident said:

It seems love marriages have high divorce rates, even middle class families lo, inka inter caste, inter religion, inter racial stats chuste, marriage is bound to fail. Why is it so? 

same of better degree of love can found with someone else, its a matter of time one of the partners find a better option

thigh relationship 90 yrs guarantee was in age of 80's and 90's, thigh relationship every 90 days is in 2015 and beyond

[Raven_Rayes]

Just now, pakeer_saab said:

same of better degree of love can found with someone else, its a matter of time one of the partners find a better option

thigh relationship 90 yrs guarantee was in age of 80's and 90's, thigh relationship every 90 days is in 2015 and beyond

that's why modiji remained a bachelor.

[pakeer_saab]

9 hours ago, futureofandhra said:

maajority of the divorces are due to fingering

not really, fully grown up individuals do not get fingered buy others

love lo imaginary creativity untadi marriage ayyaka telustadi evaru elanti vallo, mostly garals chweet and cuteness wont work after marriage.. Love is like getting a ***** and land up in job, marriage is a day 1 of job, reality strikes hard

[pakeer_saab]

2 minutes ago, Raven_Rayes said:

that's why modiji remained a bachelor.

not really that kind, i was referring to M marrying A at 6 yrs old age and then leaving here in the desert kind of summary

[Ellen]

14 hours ago, Hungry_Dino said:

Love marriages or arranged marriages aina oka understanding, sacrifice, compromise adjustment lekunte any bond will break.. marriage is not for people who wants to win  all the time unless the partner compromises and if he or she doesn’t, then the other person must compromise.. asalu wife and husband ki manchi understanding and adjusting nature untey society and families tho pani ledhu post marriage.. they can stay in the bond and live happily 

10-12 years down the line compromise understanding sollu antha is waste. It gets boring dude. We can't even live with our own parents continuously, we need a break anipistadi.  People just stay together because either they are always about "log Kya kahenge" or they just got used to their partner so much they can't tolerate new people anthe. Most of the nasty Telugu uncles used to have second homes back in the day, now they are just compromising with pictures on internet. Women get used to taming kids and all, so they don't care for divorce and second marriage, plus a lot of women lose sexual desire once they grow old as 35+ women will start to lose their beauty(except Korean women, they are gorgeous even at 40+). Men grow more beautiful when they are 40+ and able to maintain good body. That's why peddalu wife n husband godavalu anagane, make kids ani uchita salaha padestaru because even if you hate your partner to the core, u stay together for the sake of kids ani. But this kind of system is cruel and unfair, ivala rep Chala mandi close avdam ani kids ni kani, marriage dissatisfaction toh kids ni gaali ki vadilesina couples ni Chala mandi ni chustunna. If you hate your partner , don't make kids to get close to them, it's the worst thing to do to yourself, your partner and your kids as well. Worst solution asal.

Personally I feel  it takes a lot of  work to go for second marriage inviting new people in life and all, pedda time waste. but everyone has their own preferences, kothadanam kavalante evaru aaputaru, I don't judge them or anything. 

[Raven_Rayes]

2 minutes ago, Ellen said:

10-12 years down the line compromise understanding sollu antha is waste. It gets boring dude. We can't even live with our own parents continuously, we need a break anipistadi.  People just stay together because either they are always about "log Kya kahenge" or they just got used to their partner so much they can't tolerate new people anthe. Most of the nasty Telugu uncles used to have second homes back in the day, now they are just compromising with pictures on internet. Women get used to taming kids and all, so they don't care for divorce and second marriage. That's why peddalu wife n husband godavalu anagane, make kids ani uchita salaha padestaru because even if you hate your partner to the core, u stay together for the sake of kids ani. But this kind of system is cruel and unfair, ivala rep Chala mandi close avdam ani kids ni kani, marriage dissatisfaction toh kids ni gaali ki vadilesina couples ni Chala mandi ni chustunna. If you hate your partner , don't make kids to get close to them, it's the worst thing to do to yourself, your partner and your kids as well. Worst solution asal.

Personally I feel  it takes a lot of  work to go for second marriage inviting new people in life and all, pedda time waste. but everyone has their own preferences, kothadanam kavalante evaru aaputaru, I don't judge them or anything. 

Its better to spend time with a hobby, than wasting time meeting new people for romantic purposes and expecting things to go better than the last time.

so many things to do, to fill your time.

 

[Ellen]

Just now, Raven_Rayes said:

Its better to spend time with a hobby, than wasting time meeting new people for romantic purposes and expecting things to go better than the last time.

so many things to do, to fill your time.

 

Exactly. Or take up a new degree, make something worthwhile like creating/discovering something new . 80 years etla saripotai asal to learn all the things in the world. Plus as we age our learning capacity taggutadi. 

[Raven_Rayes]

People are great, atleast most people are. Just don't get too close to them.

working with them, cooperating to build something is great. besides that, meh!

 

[jaathiratnalu]

5 minutes ago, Ellen said:

10-12 years down the line compromise understanding sollu antha is waste. It gets boring dude. We can't even live with our own parents continuously, we need a break anipistadi.  People just stay together because either they are always about "log Kya kahenge" or they just got used to their partner so much they can't tolerate new people anthe. Most of the nasty Telugu uncles used to have second homes back in the day, now they are just compromising with pictures on internet. Women get used to taming kids and all, so they don't care for divorce and second marriage. That's why peddalu wife n husband godavalu anagane, make kids ani uchita salaha padestaru because even if you hate your partner to the core, u stay together for the sake of kids ani. But this kind of system is cruel and unfair, ivala rep Chala mandi close avdam ani kids ni kani, marriage dissatisfaction toh kids ni gaali ki vadilesina couples ni Chala mandi ni chustunna. If you hate your partner , don't make kids to get close to them, it's the worst thing to do to yourself, your partner and your kids as well. Worst solution asal.

Personally I feel  it takes a lot of  work to go for second marriage inviting new people in life and all, pedda time waste. but everyone has their own preferences, kothadanam kavalante evaru aaputaru, I don't judge them or anything. 

Akkai meeku inta deep level  information of relation ship gurunchi  ela telusu . definatly this is not from books

 

[Raven_Rayes]

1 minute ago, jaathiratnalu said:

Akkai meeku inta deep level  information of relation ship gurunchi  ela telusu . definatly this is not from books

 

idhey maanukovaali. trying to understand a person deeply.

avasaram ledhu kadha.

what the person does is >>>>>>>>>>>> what he/she says or what he/she is.

[Pulkapresident]

1 hour ago, Thokkalee said:

Vaarni… ee discussion antha konchem household chores cheyyadanikaa??

does this mean you don’t do anything at home now and your husband does all the work?? 

Correct. 

[javadevthop]

1 minute ago, Pulkapresident said:

Correct. 

[Saloly]

18 hours ago, Pulkapresident said:

It seems love marriages have high divorce rates, even middle class families lo, inka inter caste, inter religion, inter racial stats chuste, marriage is bound to fail. Why is it so? 

Ni mogga ra, arranged marriages lo jarige business deal kante chala better love marriage

[Raven_Rayes]

1 hour ago, Thokkalee said:

Vaarni… ee discussion antha konchem household chores cheyyadanikaa??

does this mean you don’t do anything at home now and your husband does all the work?? 

'all the work' ani em peddaga untadhi.. hardly takes an hour to finish daily work. may be couple hours over weekend for cleaning.

I'm actually surprised people want to have kids. super high maintenance. life is mostly fcuked unless you have help.

[Raven_Rayes]

2 minutes ago, javadevthop said:

rey ee id neeku set kaaley..

anavasaranga neeku java kosam pm chestaru

maarchi 10gu. naaku ivvu ee id.