Bayam vestundi myan.. Aada ladies stay out...

[FrustratedVuncle]

6 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Idhem chusaav brother.. asalu parents and in-laws ni okesaari theeskochhukoni unchuko COVID lanti time lo oka 6 Months .. 

[BattalaSathi]

5 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Idhem chusaav brother.. asalu parents and in-laws ni okesaari theeskochhukoni unchuko COVID lanti time lo oka 6 Months .. 

sadist la ke sadist laaga unnavu kadha nuvvu..idhem korika bhayya..pasi pilladini sampesthava endhi?

[psycontr]

2 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Last time parents few weeks USA lo unnapudu, I asked wife to give front seat to mom in a trip, she gave excuse and refused to give. 

So  for you ... what I have seen is if in laws helps in kitchen, house hold work and off load some of their work wifes feel better especially if they are staying for longer, adhe help cheyakunda vankalu pedthu orders vestha unte they get irritated.

 

[kiraak_poradu]

3 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

Leave it to nature 

be ready to get grilled 

[BattalaSathi]

57 minutes ago, BattalaSathi said:

Thank you @FrustratedVuncle for this theddu.  naaku oka rakamaina sadism tho koodina anandam tho duhkham  kattalu kattalu gaa thannuku vasthondhi ... Deenivalla naaku artham ayindhi entante ee fellala gola neeku naake kaadu almost andariki undi sachindhi.  Manam bayata padi  edusthunnaam, migatha vollu lopala lopala edusthunnaru .. anthe theda .. migathadhi antha

 

53 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Avv anna. Pellamtho patlu ante gifts ivvale, bujjaginchale ani edo coverings icharu kani, Amma and pellam screen medaki vasthe all muthyalu chetulu ettesaru.... 

All kompallo unde kumpate ani santhosinchalo.... 2 weeks lo storm lo koottuku pobothunna ani edvalo ardam aithallee..

eee theddu valla inko vishayam thelisindhi..entante weekend daggara padindhi ani..usual gaa weekend ki daggaralone mana @FrustratedVuncle ilaa pellala/athala posts vesthaadu...mandu stock ippude check chesaa..konchem low gaa undhi..evening Liquor store ki povaale...weekend FV peru chepp oka 2 peggulu egastra estha...

[Konebhar6]

49 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Parents ki college lo undaga promise chesina anna Mandu epudu taganu ani.

Andukey parents chuttu pakkala unnapudu mandu joliki asalu ponu. This is going to bite my stress and frustration. 

amma kodallu cold wars choosa kani, live lo mana mundu epdu jaragale. thalchukuntene juttu ralipotundi.  

Ekkuva alochistunnav babai .. These are very common in any house. Just don't take sides. Listen to what they say and leave it. If your wife is upset take her to a nice restaurant or Ice cream or something (Just her). 

One of the examples you gave, if your wife says she wants to sit in the front seat, offer her to drive and let your mom sit in the front and you sit in the back. Take a decision based on the response. 

[karna11]

3 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

Edina swamy mala vesuko kudirithee

[EyBisa]

Happy weekend bruh 

[Konebhar6]

7 minutes ago, karna11 said:

Edina swamy mala vesuko kudirithee

Also, replace water in Chembu with whiskey .. 

[praying]

1 hour ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Idhem chusaav brother.. asalu parents and in-laws ni okesaari theeskochhukoni unchuko COVID lanti time lo oka 6 Months .. 

antha sahaysam chesav ante... needi mamulu gunde kadu uncle.... 

[Peddayana]

4 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

bro, chachav po

Desi moms pass judgement and comments on everything from a small nail to upbringing and life styles as soon as they arrive and struggle starts from there

You can not change that generation man, they have lived in a different era and will feel that you and your wife are not living as 'they desire' 

obviously wife will feel she is right and akkada nundi start iga

ghar ghar ki kahani idi

chesedhi emi ledu, be ready for some explosive action inside home

practice meditation or be focussed on job/learning/gaming something that occupies your mind, lekapothe mental vastundi

 

 

[akkum_bakkum]

4 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

Most kastamaina thing anna…balancing amma and wife. Never happens in reality. Maa attamma langa ethukoni vasthadi, em chesthunnaru maa yammini anukuntu.

[TOM_BHAYYA]

1 hour ago, BattalaSathi said:

sadist la ke sadist laaga unnavu kadha nuvvu..idhem korika bhayya..pasi pilladini sampesthava endhi?

Experienced bhayya 😭

[FrustratedVuncle]

45 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

Ekkuva alochistunnav babai .. These are very common in any house. Just don't take sides. Listen to what they say and leave it. If your wife is upset take her to a nice restaurant or Ice cream or something (Just her). 

One of the examples you gave, if your wife says she wants to sit in the front seat, offer her to drive and let your mom sit in the front and you sit in the back. Take a decision based on the response. 

Car lo unnollantha swargastulautaru. 

Evari side teskovadam emo kani, manam athalu torture mingutunnapudu calm ga unnattu, vaallu kuda calm ga unte saripotundi ga ani na yokka idhi.

[FrustratedVuncle]

1 hour ago, psycontr said:

So  for you ... what I have seen is if in laws helps in kitchen, house hold work and off load some of their work wifes feel better especially if they are staying for longer, adhe help cheyakunda vankalu pedthu orders vestha unte they get irritated.

 

Amma kuthurlu iddaru kitchen house hold work cheskuntene thittukutu untaru, ika atha kodallu okate kitchen, household maintain cheste ela untado..