Bayam vestundi myan.. Aada ladies stay out...

[praying]

7 minutes ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma kuthurlu iddaru kitchen house hold work cheskuntene thittukutu untaru, ika atha kodallu okate kitchen, household maintain cheste ela untado..

thats where all the issues start... neatness, vanta evaru cheyali, ela cheyali, uppu ekkuva karam ekkuva,,, oka koora, anni koorala... the oppurtunities are endless...

[FrustratedVuncle]

3 minutes ago, praying said:

thats where all the issues start... neatness, vanta evaru cheyali, ela cheyali, uppu ekkuva karam ekkuva,,, oka koora, anni koorala... the oppurtunities are endless...

[FrustratedVuncle]

31 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said:

Experienced bhayya 😭

[Ara_Tenkai]

2 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

na manana chubby tella, makku foris ni esukuntu, thagi, thini tiruguthu, 3 bjs, 6bumchiks tho unna jeevithanni chethi rekalu arigipoyi akali tho padukune dusthithiki techaru. Paiga ee ego torturing bonus. 

Pellillo sukham vethukovadam murkhatvam ani cheppadu oka mahanubhavudu..

That is one of the main reason ee db poupular avvdaniki....

[perugu_vada]

Edo issue valla job poye la undi ani story start chey .. ah tension lo unna ani chepthuu undu .. debbaki set autundi .. vallu tension paduthu gola padaru 

[Konebhar6]

12 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Edo issue valla job poye la undi ani story start chey .. ah tension lo unna ani chepthuu undu .. debbaki set autundi .. vallu tension paduthu gola padaru 

Nuvvu unnav enduku ani @FrustratedVuncle ki more turture .. Aa @perugu_vada uncle ni chusi nerchuko .. 4 jobs chestunnadu and enta cool ga untado ani 

[Thokkalee]

Find out if they both watch the same serials.. women bond over serials 😁

[Rabbo]

5 hours ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

Amma (Dad staying in India due to work) coming to stay with us for 6months (for the first time) in few weeks. 

Intha varaku ma parents tho pattumani 1month kuda continuous ga ledu Dear wife. 

Epudu ma yamma, ma thammudu antu torture pette pellalu tho how to maintain parents in omrika for a smooth 6months time.

Amma oka pakka pellam oka pakka, naku enduko yuddam aytademo anipistundi.

Atha vaste different story, amma kuthullu mogudi meda padi edustuntaru, vadileste vaalla saavu vallu sastaru.

mana parents ante, teda vaste godava peak ki potundi kada... 

DB peddalu throw some light. best practices. Things to do to make a pleasant stay for parents. 

Don’t go defensive and try reasoning when wife complains about your mom , she did this, did not do this 

Instead Attack wife parents , keep her busy in that 

Enni chesina ne next 6 months rod , you can’t take wife side or mom side

phone intlo vadilesi, office ki vellu for peace of mind 

 

[psycontr]

1 hour ago, praying said:

thats where all the issues start... neatness, vanta evaru cheyali, ela cheyali, uppu ekkuva karam ekkuva,,, oka koora, anni koorala... the oppurtunities are endless...

 

1 hour ago, FrustratedVuncle said:

When some one is getting household help and off load some of their work in vomerica, most wives wont complain about uppu, pappu unless they have intention to fight anyway.

But long stay help cheyakunda orders vesthe definitely it will be bad.

[psycontr]

19 minutes ago, Rabbo said:

Don’t go defensive and try reasoning when wife complains about your mom , she did this, did not do this 

Instead Attack wife parents , keep her busy in that 

Enni chesina ne next 6 months rod , you can’t take wife side or mom side

phone intlo vadilesi, office ki vellu for peace of mind 

 

Bad idea.

[praying]

13 minutes ago, psycontr said:

 

When some one is getting household help and off load some of their work in vomerica, most wives wont complain about uppu, pappu unless they have intention to fight anyway.

But long stay help cheyakunda orders vesthe definitely it will be bad.

ade kada akkada magicuu.... adi lekapothe asal godave ledu kada....

[ManchamKodi]

4 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

@FrustratedVuncle Good suggestion above. Keep yourself busy and don't give time to them. Evenings walk or gym or some games like VolleyBall, etc. Health improvement. 

When there is a fight or cold war, DO NOT TAKE SIDES. Ask them to solve it themselves. Tell this in advance to your wife and make it very clear. Do not take your parents side as well. Tell your parents about it. Kavalante kasta sympathy game adu. Tell you are making a conscious effort to improve health and doctor advised not to take STRESS ani. 

Maree ekkuva ayi, handle cheyaleni situation ayithe, Mandesi tongo .. 

Good suggestion @ManchamKodi

 

tagina taravatha pillow petti husband ni samputhe ? 

[ManchamKodi]

6 hours ago, praying said:

manam cheyali anukuntam kani.... final ga mana chetullo emi undadu.... just watch anthe.... 

Nijagane Bhavad gita lo unda idhi

[ManchamKodi]

3 hours ago, Gaali_Gottam_Govinda said:

This is correct....... Spend outside as much time as possible... Workdays go every day to workplace... Weekends Cricket, buy a bike and hook up with bike enthusiast friends and go on jolly rides, Go to Gym in the evening or play Tennis, Squash or Batminton, etc

 

Intlo ekkuva sepu unte nee brathuku bus stand

husband konchem errifook aithee vadini wife 

 cc @Konebhar6 @FrustratedVuncle @TeluguTexas @RPG_Reloaded

[ManchamKodi]

4 hours ago, CanadianMalodu said:

Adhi poorthi picture kadhu bedharu. Amrika lo nup lekunda marriage biscuit aithe, alimony plus property share ivvali. India lo property share meedha inka laws raaledhu. 

India lo vallu pedithe case oke okati 498A,DV. Kastha tattukini nilbadithe, nuvve bend teese situation lo untav. Courts will accept it as a grounds for cruelty and grant divorce and some times not even give alimony.

Emante India lo Chatham vaddam kooda ravali. Kani most of the DB people are default bayasthulu very typical of Indians, law tho touch me not antaru.

Brave husbands ki @aath care wife ni baga tagilchi 10gey antaru .