Chittoorodu Posted February 7 Author Report Posted February 7 10 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said: The way ppl adjusted when they came here, similarly they will easily adjust after return. As usual it will take 6 months to a year. India has changed a lot except the nuisance part. You can easily avoid them. India has changed correct ey kaani - Nothing has changed in the bureaucracy or government level, except for private sector. Corruption, Caste, Chinna/Peddha doesnt change sadly. My observation in the last 3 visits. Quote
Chittoorodu Posted February 7 Author Report Posted February 7 12 minutes ago, psycontr said: - Pollution: you will get adjusted in no time - Jugaad mindset / Corruption: you will get adjusted in no time - Growing Inflation/ Investment: you will get adjusted in no time - Customer Service: you will get adjusted in no time - Kid's Education: you will get adjusted in no time - WLB: you will get adjusted soon to work your a$$ off & - Lolli relatives: you will get adjusted in no time Antha adjust ayi brathakala anukuntey ne - Vellalani anipinchatle. Kanisam okataina saafi ga saaguthundani nammakam ledu dora. Quote
Chittoorodu Posted February 7 Author Report Posted February 7 18 minutes ago, elev said: Relatives lolli, US returnee anni full flight rinda money tho vachadu anukunaru. They think we get money without working hard.😓 Relatives kanna over involved people undaru mana life lo - You cannot even cut out toxic ppl out of your life if you are in india sadly. Our parents generation are used to it - i hate to the core that you to smile and act normal with people that always are happy for your downfall or just there for your money. 1 Quote
baabaa Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 My cousin moved from DFW to Vizag. He already had a paid off independent house in vizag and kids [7th grade and 3rd grade] adjusted fine. He sold his house in Plano during covid so doubled his investment. One thing to note is even though he was in Dallas for 12 years, typical telugu ppl laga unde vadu. Kids ki only ABCD telugu [not even non telugu indians] friends, my cousin also only telugu friends. Always staying home, so it was not a big change for him/his wife/kids whether it was dfw or vizag. Anyways, point enti ante he is happy and kids will probably come back for college as they are US Citizens. 1 Quote
fasak_vachadu Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 Poté vadu pothadu mee veda a dodi endukura ikkada avadi family needs vadiki free ga suggestions iytaniki full ready ga untaru Friday eroju bumchik stories veyandi Quote
Moon_Walker Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 8 minutes ago, Chittoorodu said: Relatives kanna over involved people undaru mana life lo - You cannot even cut out toxic ppl out of your life if you are in india sadly. Our parents generation are used to it - i hate to the core that you to smile and act normal with people that always are happy for your downfall or just there for your money. 💯 relatives and so called friends antha donga naa dash gallu...they just wait to make fun of our failures and enjoy the downfall 1 Quote
Spartan Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 If I want to move back..below is my criteria. - 1 owned house 300sq.yd minimum in city. - vehicle paid off - 10 cr assets (anything, stocks, FDs, real estate may be, not mandatory) - continous stream of side income 25L/annum even if I am not working -------------------------- paina vatillo except house, other things are not possible for me, anduke ponu. 2 Quote
citizenofIND Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 If you can get present job in India then bargain for best package. This will decide whether you can survive or not. Example, if you have 10 years real experience then around 30 L is what u can expect. If this workout then I don’t know about India but atleast Hyderabad, you will enjoy. Stay near office even if it cost you. Education, schools are at next level to teach kids standards depend on price. Water you can buy, summer but challenge. Servants many but costs depend on community. Food better cook at home or home cook. Weekends drives or resorts and chill. people talk only negatives but there will be always pros and cons Quote
Popular Post psycontr Posted February 7 Popular Post Report Posted February 7 3 minutes ago, Spartan said: If I want to move back..below is my criteria. - 1 owned house 300sq.yd minimum in city. - vehicle paid off - 10 cr assets (anything, stocks, FDs, real estate may be, not mandatory) - continous stream of side income 25L/annum even if I am not working -------------------------- paina vatillo except house, other things are not possible for me, anduke ponu. Sell one house in CA all will be possible 4 Quote
Spartan Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 Just now, psycontr said: Sell one house in CA all will be possible dani EMI pay off cheyali kada.. Quote
Popular Post jalsa01 Posted February 7 Popular Post Report Posted February 7 - Pollution === Manam perigina, mana parents unna location, so no problem adjust avochu - Jugaad mindset / Corruption == throw money and get things done on mobile!!! - Growing Inflation/ Investment== US earning will save you - Customer Service ==India lo customer service is not that bad if you can afford premium brands - Kid's Education == US kante cheap lo ipotundi - WLB ==US lo emina unda? & - Lolli relatives == edo US vachi andaru ala ela ani ekkada pissukkovadame tappa... Evvadu antha kaaaaaaaaaaliga ledu India la India lo life is like MAHARAJA if you have money!!!! India Rich class never migrates !! 1 5 Quote
AmruthamAppaji Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 One of my cousins moved back, they are well settled in India, so for him life is more luxurious there. He is helping father's business, farmhouse sittings in the evening and taking an international trip every 2 months to places like Bangkok, Russia and Dubai. He doesn't want to come back to US at any cost. Other cousin didn't save much and doesn't have rich parents. He transferred his job to Chase Hyderabad and went back before Covid. He was making around 55L per annum, still he came back last year to US. Even though he got 3.5L per month after taxes, after 2 kids international school fees, car emi, maids and other expenses he wasn't saving much and he hated the office politics and kiss bosses ass culture there. So he came back. Bottom line if you have 10 crores plus assets, a paid off home and no need to work them go back. Otherwise stay in the US. Once your kids are 10 to 12 years of age the window closes, you have to wait until they move out to college but by that time you will be in your 50s.. 1 Quote
nag Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 1 hour ago, Chittoorodu said: How are you planning to handle or have handled - Pollution - Jugaad mindset / Corruption - Growing Inflation/ Investment - Customer Service - Kid's Education - WLB & - Lolli relatives ivaani adjust ayina.. few things are still difficult to adjust 1) Traffic / driving sense 2) Mosquitos 3) public mindset annitikantey mukhyam crowd stampede and indiscipline if you are willing to adjust the above 3 things.. all is well .you can move back 2 Quote
Popular Post pakeer_saab Posted February 7 Popular Post Report Posted February 7 54 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said: The way ppl adjusted when they came here, similarly they will easily adjust after return. As usual it will take 6 months to a year. India has changed a lot except the nuisance part. You can easily avoid them. Learn to say NO before you go to India, it is typical for relatives to assume that they can ask money without a return date money iste return expect cheyaddu as per ISI standards applicable on NRIs/RI's 3 2 Quote
pakeer_saab Posted February 7 Report Posted February 7 4 minutes ago, nag said: ivaani adjust ayina.. few things are still difficult to adjust 1) Traffic / driving sense 2) Mosquitos 3) public mindset annitikantey mukhyam crowd stampede and indiscipline if you are willing to adjust the above 3 things.. all is well .you can move back anni adjust avutaaru, the only think they cannot adjust is when their American born kids experience any issues Quote
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