Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc.

Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu.  

Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement,  

What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz?

What you’re going through is basically called midlife crisis when you know that there is not much more to life than what you’re seeing right now.. you basically exhausted all the excitements that are possible in life like finishing college, getting your first job, earning your first dollar or rupee, first kiss, sex, getting married, buying a home, having children etc..

The best thing that you could do right now is to find some thing you’re passionate about like travel or a sport or an art or movies etc.. 

ee spirituality manchitanam bokka boshanam no body cares.

Keep an impossible goal in life and chase it.

Aim for 50 million dollars.

Aim for owing a private jet.

Aim for owing a rolls royce.

Even if you achieve 20% of it you will be better than so much of the population.

Iyyani kaadu ante mee oorlo temple untadi kada..poi service chesko..manchitanam ane musugu eskuni batuku laaginchei

One last option. Empty your bank balance to zero.Automatic ga seriousness ade vastadi

8 minutes ago, kompalokumpati said:

Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc.

Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu.  

Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement,  

What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz?

We are the last gene who worried about parents and not getting enough care from children.. idhi artham chesuko anna 

ee US life anthe....artificial happiness emptiness inside. 

reality is Dying alone or in old age home with strangers here at your climax stage.

 

 

Hi uncles

endhi katha

social life eppudu aithe poye mana illu, apps anukunta phone lo gaduputhunamo appudu inka ee depressive thoughts vastay . adi varaku western countries/people varake vundedi as manam eppudu janallo tiruthuna, evo festivallas, funtions ani busy ga vundevalam. but ippudu India / Indians koda vastunay ee depressing related things.

ask any any American friends you have how they are passing their day/week. as they are eppatinundo ee kind of life style ki alavaatu paddu kabatti. copy/paste that salahalu 

11 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

We are the last gene who worried about parents and not getting enough care from children.. idhi artham chesuko anna 

+1000 perfectly said. basically we are the na ghar ka na ghaat ka batch loosing on both sides 

21 minutes ago, kompalokumpati said:

Asking for a friend as we were discussing the same topic. Memu idaram, 40+ year old man child(s), us ki vachi 20 years aindhi. Iddarki ani unnai life lo, pellam, iddaru pillalu, carlu, illu, job, exotic vacations, india trips etc.

Kani sukham ledu. Large portions of my day seem to be lost in thinking about aging parents in India, what life was like when my father was my age, what happened 100 years ago when my grandpa was my age, etc. Devudu, spirituality light ga help chesina more home sick chestha untai, giving / charity lanti pedha panlaki budget ledu.  

Inthe na inga jivitham? i've seen my elderly cousins get older, lose parents, then children get older, graduate from college and move out and get married. Then these folks become empty nesters, spend time here and there and wait for retirement,  

What are uncles and aunties doing here? Andarki ee feelings normal ee na? me gyanam konchem emana share cheskuntara plz?

Moving back to India permanently is the best option when the existential crisis hits you. India lo ilanti thoughts ravadaniki kooda manaki time undadhu.

14 minutes ago, saravamnene said:

ee spirituality manchitanam bokka boshanam no body cares.

Keep an impossible goal in life and chase it.

Aim for 50 million dollars.

Aim for owing a private jet.

Aim for owing a rolls royce.

Even if you achieve 20% of it you will be better than so much of the population.

Iyyani kaadu ante mee oorlo temple untadi kada..poi service chesko..manchitanam ane musugu eskuni batuku laaginchei

One last option. Empty your bank balance to zero.Automatic ga seriousness ade vastadi

 Red highlighted very well said. 

As long as we are not satisfied in life by doing everything and anything we will never be able to justify the spiritual path as always our unfulfilled athma will have those temptations killing us from inside from time to time.

 

 

rey inka Monday ne ra appude start chesara 

 

Define 'sukam ledu' I bet you never have answer for that. Lafoot depression posts!!! 

renew your blood using therapeautic phlebotomy..

and take b12 , vit d to produce new cells.

kotha josh tho velthav

8 minutes ago, appusri said:

Moving back to India permanently is the best option when the existential crisis hits you. India lo ilanti thoughts ravadaniki kooda manaki time undadhu.

India vellipoina wallu akkada adjust avaleka malli 1-2-3 years time frames lo wapas sachinattu vachi ani restart from scratch chesthunaru anta kadha?