Nanapatekar Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 4 hours ago, riashli said: He knows am not in favour of..but doesn't like me picking calls entire day.. he and my mother in law says, what if something happens to me, what will happen to kids, everytime I go for check up, dr says, my bp is close to stroke.. just that am unable to not bother, even tho my mother is like whatever happens will happen to father, u care for yourself Try not to let this situation affect your health. Even if he mistreats you for money, give what you can, speak to him calmly, and end the conversation peacefully. He has chosen not to take care of his health and is using the children to his advantage with a careless attitude. One day, you might regret not handling things differently, so do your best while protecting your own well-being. 1 Quote
Popular Post Thokkalee Posted March 31 Popular Post Report Posted March 31 5 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Sorry you are going through this.. some people cannot be changed whatever you do. They take you down to the dumpster with them. The sooner you accept this, the better this is for everyone. Otherwise you will end up ruining your peace and your family too. He got used to blackmailing you all and going to extremes to get the money he needs to continue his drinking habits. By giving in to his demands, you are all encouraging him. Cut him loose and strictly tell everyone in your family to not give him any money. Tell him that no one is going to give him any money or liquor and he is free to drink from his pension and manage with what he gets. Be prepared for lot of drama but you must do this to get the sanity back in all of your lives. 3 Quote
Variety_Pullayya Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 5 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani emi bad habits leni vallu cancer tho pothunnaru. dont worry too much. try to get his quantity and frequency in control if possible ante. dont stress too much. Quote
Raisins_72 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Manthena or Sadhguru ashram lo veseyandi… and don’t try to contact him for few months. 1 Quote
Gorantlamdhav Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 5 hours ago, riashli said: We tried this tabs too, it didn't help much, then we moved him to rehab rehab is the only option. that is expensive too. anni vodilesinodini em cheyyalem tight control rehab lo vesi manchaniki katteyadame Quote
beerakaya Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 weird but manchi kasak aunty gf laga unte..debbaki change avuthadu, chepindhi chesthadu Quote
RPGPulka Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 6 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani aunty nijamaina news aithee me father ki vodilipettu Quote
KathiRamdaas Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 He's 70 and you tried but no change in him so odileyyi...taaganiyyi taagakaponi now take care of your health you have a long way to go. Quote
Deadp0ol2 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 just give up on him he is not a kid to take care take care of your health before it is too late for you too. 1 Quote
pandugadu999 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 5 hours ago, riashli said: Probably no responsibility or fear of anything, we are all settled mari inkem baadha neeku..drink responsibly ani cheppu mee dad ki adi chalu Quote
Android_Halwa Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 @riashli The more you guys try to control, the more worst it gets. Mee father tho alcohol control cheyinchalani chustunaru and try kuda chestunaru, Nothing worked. May be ie idea itself is wrong emo, may be ie approach ae inefficient emo… Try different approach….phone answer chesthe kada, phone number block cheseyandi…No communication, No demands and no supply… Your mother and brother will face his aggressiveness but no one can sustain such aggressive behavior for long, it will subside. Rather than making him quit, controlled supply…he will get his bottle only if he adheres…be good during the day and he gets his quota in the evening.. Make him realize he will not get a penny from anyone, including you and your husband. All that he got is his pension and let him manage…he will be aggressive but entha chesina reality loki ravalsinde…no funds to buy liquor is the approach you should adopt than to think of ways to restrict. Quote
LadiesTailor Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 6 hours ago, riashli said: He hardly eats anything, just want to drink n sleep... He doesn't realise any relationships, emotions nor care for anyone I knew a similar person… he used to say naa life bonus and responsibilities anne ayupoyayu… naa valla evvariki use ledu and let me drink and die anevaadu…. Aunty and kids thega try chesaru but he didn’t listen… and you can guess what happened at the end. my point is aa age lo vunna pedda vallu mararu no matter what you do.. manaki stress and pisalu bokka thappa… I would say leave him alone and ayyedi avvuddi Quote
Raithu_bidda_ap Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 6 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Number ivvu will talk 1 Quote
Kootami Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 7 hours ago, riashli said: Help me with your suggestions Father extreme alcohol addict, emaina control cheyadaniki try cheste suicide cheskunta ani bedirimpu.. two years nundi ide gola. Unable to bear the stress, na career n personal life affect avutundi. Nenu anxiety n depression ki treatment tisukuntunna coz of his issue.. bp constant ga 180/120 untundi inspite of meds.. daily day start ayite end ayyevaraku bhayam vestundi, ekkada em jarugutundo ani Vadileye akka .... konni pattukoni veladadam waste . Quote
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