February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785216 How much you owe them as a sibling? He has taken the fathers responsibility. What we earn here unless both wife and husband works, you don't save anything. Opinions pls. Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785468 life lo chala phases vuntay. things will not be in your favor all the time Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785513 7 hours ago, Jaggadonga said:How much you owe them as a sibling? He has taken the fathers responsibility. What we earn here unless both wife and husband works, you don't save anything. Opinions pls.give everything to brother Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785557 49 minutes ago, Sundarpichal said:give everything to brotherI understand your love towards your brother. Manam ela brathakali if we give everything? Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785558 1 hour ago, Gorantlamdhav said:life lo chala phases vuntay. things will not be in your favor all the timeI know that. Na question ki e answer ki what's the relation? Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785559 Just now, Jaggadonga said:I know that. Na question ki e answer ki what's the relation?adjustment and empathy mee parents ki moral support ivvumee bro financially good vunte ok otherwise help him with what you think you can adjustif nothing is possible it’s ok they will adjust to the situation and they will understand your situation, all you do is treat them nice and be empathetic as the time goes by things will change and become better or worse but you all will stay together and strong Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785580 39 minutes ago, Jaggadonga said:I understand your love towards your brother. Manam ela brathakali if we give everything?Do goddu chakiri Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785590 43 minutes ago, Gorantlamdhav said:adjustment and empathymee parents ki moral support ivvumee bro financially good vunte ok otherwise help him with what you think you can adjustif nothing is possible it’s ok they will adjust to the situation and they will understand your situation, all you do is treat them nice and be empatheticas the time goes by things will change and become better or worse but you all will stay together and strongHave been helping my family for over 14 years now. The mindset of the people in India has changed. NRI ante they only think we are all rich. No matter how well you try to convince your situation. More than 2 cr debts clear chesa and monthly 1 lakh expenses. There should be limit kada. Now asking for surgery for 2-3 cr loan for business Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785592 13 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:Do goddu chakiriAnthe antava? You are great bro. Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785593 9 hours ago, Jaggadonga said:How much you owe them as a sibling? He has taken the fathers responsibility. What we earn here unless both wife and husband works, you don't save anything. Opinions pls.You don’t owe anything, just take care of your parents expenses Report
February 16Feb 16 comment_1314785594 4 minutes ago, Jaggadonga said:Anthe antava? You are great bro.No option Forget india aasthiEnjoy the nri freedom Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785596 7 minutes ago, nuvvu_naakina_paalem said:No optionForget india aasthiEnjoy the nri freedomIndia aasthi nakem vaddu bro. I only need peace from debts and responsibilities Report
February 16Feb 16 Author comment_1314785597 9 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:You don’t owe anything, just take care of your parents expensesAdi elanu chesthunnam bro. But limitless aipothondi Report
February 17Feb 17 comment_1314785618 1 hour ago, Jaggadonga said:Have been helping my family for over 14 years now. The mindset of the people in India has changed. NRI ante they only think we are all rich. No matter how well you try to convince your situation. More than 2 cr debts clear chesa and monthly 1 lakh expenses. There should be limit kada. Now asking for surgery for 2-3 cr loan for businessPeople in India have become very greedy including own parents and siblings.. Even if you tell u have millions of Debt here no one will care or listen best is to draw a line after certain time in life say u are done with financial responsibility some parents may even send u legal notice etc.. But we need to man up and take care of yourself and family here.. No other way.. I am telling this after going through similar situation as you.. Learned lesson in a very hard way Report
February 17Feb 17 comment_1314785621 Anyone migrating to USA in future I tell them even u get 80% value sell everything and come here because if someone may take care of your property there in short term but long term ur own people may turn against u.. Best is clear everything don't keep a financial relationship with family.. Support them for their monthly expenses and medical that's the only thing NRI should do.. It's hard people will think about NRI as selfish but it's best for peace for mind in long term Report
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