Just now, LadiesTailor said:

If you don’t have any sibling in India then it’s a tough road ahead… have to depend on cousins or other people… some one I know hired a living driver who helps their parents with hospital checkups and anything they want from outside… they pay him 30k a month and place to live in their home…

Same setup anna ipudu alage nadustundi dont know in the future

Me and my brother are in US and having GC. ma 24 year unemployed bamardhi (mothers side)ki monthly 20k istamu to take care of my parents .Also we help him with any big financial needs like his sisters marriages and his parents health needs etc

9 hours ago, csrcsr said:

Please dont scold me for depressing threads bayam estundi reality

My brother lives in toronto nenu ikada repu age ayaka last days lo plan enti mana job emo ila sachsyi

ipudu evaro untunaru illu kinda chinna rooms driving home help ki chinna room petamu valu untaru but long term ldont know

Either they have to settle with you once you have citizenship or arrange someone there to take care. Nuvvu velli care cheydam is purely personal choice

4 hours ago, Hitman said:

Wish you the best.

But just keen to know.. what would be your kids by 2030? College means, Jr college Intermediate or Bachelor's? You want to have your ABCD kids in Narayana & Chaitanya ?? Good luck with that.

2 hours ago, BattalaSathi said:

+69 ... Kids will have very hard time adjusting. With the accent and change from US to India education system - it will be a nightmare for them. Vallani adigi cheyyi..aavesham lo kadu..may be do a college visit before moving once or twice with them. So that they know what's in store. Bottomline - neither you nor kids should regret later. Ayyo kuyyo anukunte too late.

my kids will be high and middle school by that time. Naa thought process same untunde, India relocation antha easy ana, akkada adjust avthara, asalu is it fair on my part to do like that, edo city nundi forest loki move avthunnattu feeling untadi manaku. But reality is they are completely in comfort zone here, ippudu alaane untadhi vallani endhuku complete ga cultural/lifestyle shift chesi disturb cheyadam ani, but they are growing up too soft anipisthundhi, they are not mentally strong here, genZ reason analem, same genZ is different in India. Main thing manam ippudu healthy, energetic unnam regular income osthundhi same itlaaa ne continue ayithadhaa? US income gurinchi worry avvakapothe motham lifeset ayipothadi anipisthadi 😂. Monna dental treatment ki 3000 bokka padindhi, next age avthunte situation etlaa untado telvadu

For now plan is unnda farm land lo oka farm house, some vegetable and fruit growing(with desi seeds) only for family consumption, some passive investments(commercial land lo rental income, bank lo money petkoni thinadam kante, this income is better even though is doesn't give bank interest rate, who know land value appreciates). other investments, activities(to be planned), taking care of kids. Kids UG/PG ki kavalante back ravadame, they are citizens. appudu kavalante chinna chitaka store jobs cheskovadam us lo. Anyway India lo home, car, and other things setup untayi.

1 hour ago, csrcsr said:

Dont tbink that easy bro chuddam inka time undi

chudali my bro is canadiam citizen edo option untadi anadu a route kuda chudali

lol. Canada Lo vunna meme eppudu India return avdam ani chustunnam.

Healthcare here worst. Telisina oka family friend ki kidney infection vasthe wait list Lo pettaru and she became like a patient and lost 15 kgs weight in 2 months.

India velli saved her life finally.

So many stories like this.

Heart attack vachina kuda appudu availability ni batte and no beds or rooms. Walking corridors Lo vunchutaru.

Better not to come here .

USA Lo kuda ilane vuntada?

4 hours ago, Assam_Bhayya said:

Moving back to India in 2030. All planned. Kids school, college India lo continue. 100% decided.

No second thought, US better aa, India better aa, India lo problems gurinchi debates ki chance, interest ledu.

Your doing good. As a son it's your duty to take care of your ageing parents. Adhe right path.

A lot of people get distracted by needless drama and loose focus towards their duty.

1 hour ago, csrcsr said:

I am talking about later years

They came bro many times stay for 5 months but after some time they dont want to travel

Meeru citizen aa bro lekapote GC unda? Citizen iythe problem enti? Sponsor them GC.

2 minutes ago, trent said:

lol. Canada Lo vunna meme eppudu India return avdam ani chustunnam.

Healthcare here worst. Telisina oka family friend ki kidney infection vasthe wait list Lo pettaru and she became like a patient and lost 15 kgs weight in 2 months.

India velli saved her life finally.

So many stories like this.

Heart attack vachina kuda appudu availability ni batte and no beds or rooms. Walking corridors Lo vunchutaru.

Better not to come here .

USA Lo kuda ilane vuntada?

wait list even for emergency issues? Not at all good . @kevinUsa its time to get out of that shxt.

2 minutes ago, BatukuJeevi said:

Meeru citizen aa bro lekapote GC unda? Citizen iythe problem enti? Sponsor them GC.

What would parents do being here in USA? may be certain areas like DALLAS they can be entertained with many elders visiting many families. I noticed many will develop loneliness after a 3-6 month stay.

8 minutes ago, BatukuJeevi said:

Meeru citizen aa bro lekapote GC unda? Citizen iythe problem enti? Sponsor them GC.

Gc 2 and half years ayini

7 minutes ago, trent said:

lol. Canada Lo vunna meme eppudu India return avdam ani chustunnam.

Healthcare here worst. Telisina oka family friend ki kidney infection vasthe wait list Lo pettaru and she became like a patient and lost 15 kgs weight in 2 months.

India velli saved her life finally.

So many stories like this.

Heart attack vachina kuda appudu availability ni batte and no beds or rooms. Walking corridors Lo vunchutaru.

Better not to come here .

USA Lo kuda ilane vuntada?

ikkada general issues like dental, eye doctors or even general physicians Saturday & Sunday closed/not available at 95% of them. Any other urgent issues ki ER(Emergency) ki pothe vayisthar bill. Two weeks tharuvatha initki osthadhi bill 2000 to 10000 USD depending on your insurance, reasons for visit. Worst thing, lets say spring/summer start ayi excessive heat valla vomiting ayina either for adults or kids, ER ki potham in case weekend lo ayithe, katham, rakakala tests, iga bill osthadhi intiki. same thing loose motion pedithe hospital povadam thappa over the counter evvad isthad tablets India laga ER ki pothe world lo unna anni bacteria, parasite, worms ani doubt padi tests chesi, observation lo petti, specialists rounds esi potharu, bill lo kuda rounds(zeros) bagane untadhi final ga

3 minutes ago, Hitman said:

What would parents do being here in USA? may be certain areas like DALLAS they can be entertained with many elders visiting many families. I noticed many will develop loneliness after a 3-6 month stay.

After certain age parents can't really go outside, social circle antha undadhu. 70+ unte GC sponsor chesi techukovachu lekapote temporary move avvochu India.

2 minutes ago, csrcsr said:

Gc 2 and half years ayini

Kids? Em chestunnaru? School/College?

13 minutes ago, trent said:

lol. Canada Lo vunna meme eppudu India return avdam ani chustunnam.

Healthcare here worst. Telisina oka family friend ki kidney infection vasthe wait list Lo pettaru and she became like a patient and lost 15 kgs weight in 2 months.

India velli saved her life finally.

So many stories like this.

Heart attack vachina kuda appudu availability ni batte and no beds or rooms. Walking corridors Lo vunchutaru.

Better not to come here .

USA Lo kuda ilane vuntada?

Yaa my bro is also same he arranged everything back home any time jump laage unadu he has some good projects so ala nadipsitunadu pratsuunaiki

2 minutes ago, BatukuJeevi said:

Kids? Em chestunnaru? School/College?

Rofl 4th grade anna pilla kaya