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***** Desi ladies in USA not attending father funerals ***** Jai hind

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pav baaji video chestha background lo father death story narrating, wow

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  • Jatka Bandi
    Jatka Bandi

    ade cheptundi.. koorchuni judge cheyadaniki manakem poyedi ledu.. but aa situation lo vunnavaallu what they are going through ani cheppalem.. Jeevitham lo anni plan chesukovachu, death kaadu.. even bi

  • Jatka Bandi
    Jatka Bandi

    naa close friend okadu vunnadu.. he is my school senior and work lo colleagues.. he could not attend his grandmom's death or his brother's.. Grandmom chanipoyinappudu, his son was delivered with umbil

  • Raisins_72
    Raisins_72

    Not everything in our control anna - genuine reasons vuntaayi konthamandhiki. Ex: pregnancy, adaavallaki inka chaala genuine reasons untaayi but cannot say it out loud. YT lo videos chesi sympathy t

16 minutes ago, Raisins_72 said:

YT lo videos chesi sympathy try chesthey chiraakesthundhi though !!

Emotional support circle leka, vallaki ide support system emo.. I prefer not to read too much into this.. we would not have acted that way anukuni vadileyadame..

1 hour ago, Jatka Bandi said:

Everyone is chasing their dream.. struggling to survive.. emavutundo manaki teleedu kada.. birth anna planned vuntadi kaani, death taggara judgments endukule, lite tesuko..

That's NOT struggle for survival. That's fear of loosing $$ and US re-entry.

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11 minutes ago, vegasvegas said:

pav baaji video chestha background lo father death story narrating, wow

nice daughter anna

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2 minutes ago, CADNMALODU said:

That's NOT struggle for survival. That's fear of loosing $$ and US re-entry.

Agreed anna

1 minute ago, CADNMALODU said:

That's NOT struggle for survival. That's fear of loosing $$ and US re-entry.

Without $ how can you survive in a scam ridden, reservations laden country? Whether you agree or not, that is the story of everyone.. one struggles for money, one struggles for purpose, others struggle for something else. Your metric of struggle for survival need not be accepted by me.

Just now, Jatka Bandi said:

Without $ how can you survive in a scam ridden, reservations laden country? Whether you agree or not, that is the story of everyone.. one struggles for money, one struggles for purpose, others struggle for something else. Your metric of struggle for survival need not be accepted by me.

Survival is binary. There are no two ways about it. You're talking about "opportunity cost ". It's not a binary like survival. I'm not giving you any metric. I merely dissected the opportunity cost, which is "mislabeled" as survival.

1 hour ago, CADNMALODU said:

Survival is binary. There are no two ways about it. You're talking about "opportunity cost ". It's not a binary like survival. I'm not giving you any metric. I merely dissected the opportunity cost, which is "mislabeled" as survival.

Survival is binary? So, what is your definition of it? Either breathing or not breathing? I said not to rub your perspective onto others. The factors that lead to not breathing is also a survival topic. Courts have ruled many times that human rights also come under the "right to life".

6 minutes ago, Jatka Bandi said:

Survival is binary? So, what is your definition of it? Either breathing or not breathing? I said not to rub your perspective onto others. The factors that lead to not breathing is also a survival topic. Courts have ruled many times that human rights also come under the right to life.

Binary is exactly what it means “either yes or no.” In a survival context, it implies “either you survive or you don’t.”

Contrast that with opportunity costs. In the post we’re talking about, children not visiting their dying parents is a minor variation of “living in the US vs. India” (an indicator of purchasing power and better disposable income). This is NOT survival. Say the poster can visit India and still chooses not to despite having the means, and given that the poster has the ability to work (which implies survival), it means one thing, the perceived advantage or “opportunity” of being physically present in the US (which translates to better disposable income) would be lost.

Sure, the right to life is about survival. I won’t deny that.

It’s a tough decision between past and future

You have future of kids vs father/mother from the past

2 minutes ago, letstalk2024 said:

It’s a tough decision between past and future

You have future of kids vs father/mother from the past

One's past, present & future are very interconnected. Material imposition is not be confused with karmic responsibilities.

2 hours ago, Jatka Bandi said:

maa vaadu kuda Telugu tejame.. ade cheppedi.. avatalodi life phase ento manaki teleedu.. so, let's not judge..

there is onething I strongly believe in life.. we are no one to judge how others need to live.. it is their live their wish.. liberty.

true .. personal liberty, personal freedom ...

as Indians we are toxic and fake pro max people as individuals and as a society ...

38 minutes ago, CADNMALODU said:

Binary is exactly what it means “either yes or no.” In a survival context, it implies “either you survive or you don’t.”

Contrast that with opportunity costs. In the post we’re talking about, children not visiting their dying parents is a minor variation of “living in the US vs. India” (an indicator of purchasing power and better disposable income). This is NOT survival. Say the poster can visit India and still chooses not to despite having the means, and given that the poster has the ability to work (which implies survival), it means one thing, the perceived advantage or “opportunity” of being physically present in the US (which translates to better disposable income) would be lost.

Sure, the right to life is about survival. I won’t deny that.

You are quoting a unique case without delving into the factors of their choice. Do you know if their parents' last wish is not to see them in a compromised situation? Do you know they do not have a visa issue? You may call this case as "opportunity" but I see a case where it might be honoring the deceased parent. The parent had struggled his/her entire life, made sacrifices, to give his/her kid a life in the USA, not necessarily for that US life but for them to survive escaping a filthy, scam ridden, reservation based India. They see the kid's US life as an accomplishment of their life. So, because you want to get judgmental about the kid, the kid needs to travel to India risking everything? What is it outside dissing on the kid's parent's grave?

And because this came in the context of struggling to survive. The kid may not associate to India anymore as they lived overseas all their adult life. If they visit in such a compromised environment, they may never return to the USA and they may never survive in India compromising their ethics and compromising human rights.

My claim is that people have freedom and liberty. You decide your matters and let people decide their own matters.

18 minutes ago, Pokirivedhava said:

true .. personal liberty, personal freedom ...

as Indians we are toxic and fake pro max people as individuals and as a society ...

Completely agree. Nationalism musugulo chillar nayallu.

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