some folks may not have option, lets say you are the only kid and you need to take care of parents or in-laws, what then?

also, all these jobs, people moving/not moving will be gone in a few years due to AI, nuvvu vaddu anna people have to go back as there will not be an option to stay unless you are a citizen, I would assume >80% of 750k H1b will return to India, will be shocking for sure when that happens..

49 minutes ago, krishnaaa said:

I know for sure.

Some of them visited United States after couple years in India and they got really frustrated. They were in US for more than a decade before moving back.

They kept complaining that customer service sux in USA.

And they started travelling to Asian countries after that.

My school mates who came here were so disappointed. They were saying that US is like a third world country and feels so cheap. They laughed when the luxury Hotel was skimping on toothbrush and toothpaste.

US was far ahead 15 years ago......now the situation has reversed.

Only place where its ahead still is the investment into R&D which is changing as well but at a slower pace.

There are plus minuses in every country. India lo

Govt offices lo customer service elaa undo ( without bribing) once ask. India is in good phase now anedi maatram correct e but ahead of USA I don’t know

1 hour ago, Paamu said:

There are plus minuses in every country. India lo

Govt offices lo customer service elaa undo ( without bribing) once ask. India is in good phase now anedi maatram correct e but ahead of USA I don’t know

Hyderabad lo chaala better. Zero bribe.

And much faster than Govt offices in US.

I went through multiple departments. They did ask for bribe but I have always refused and my work got done on time.

My friends got fed up with the delays with US govt offices to get approvals. Took them over a year. They were saying that India is much better even if they had to bribe....atleast the work got done.

6 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Another reason why most people don't leave is due to Wives and teenage kids. Wife's love the life here. No relatives or in-laws to bother. Husbands in control due to no extracurricular activities like pekata, race course, betting, bars, wine shops, chilakottudu, extra marital affairs, etc. They do more help in household chores (Societal pressure) and help with kids' activities. No one does this in India. They have cars + Drivers and easy household help.

Men, of course, love life in India for all the reasons above. They can have more ME-Time and ignore everything else from their wives and kids.

Basically MEN are tamed in US. Their wildness comes out in places with less rules, controls, and more options

all extracurricular activities you mentioned are happening here in broad daylight....

evry weekend uncles doing pekata clubs in basements...infact many uncles are renovating their basements to make them as mancaves for mandhu and pekata

racecourses, casinos, betting apps...open season here...

chilakottudu, affairs etc are a phone click away here...india lo aythe paruvu poddhi dorikipothe ani bhayapadi bangkok potharu

ani @Jatka Bandi and @akkum_bakkum asking

7 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Lot of people are going back. Thats the hot trend now.

I know many in my circle who moved back and are very happy.

Return to Hyderabad groups have 500+ people now. Used to be around 10 about 7-8 years ago.

And there are multiple such groups....only for 1 city.

2 lakh + ppl are coming every yr anna... 500+ ppl leaving...how is that hot trend?number don't agree

7 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Another reason why most people don't leave is due to Wives and teenage kids. Wife's love the life here. No relatives or in-laws to bother. Husbands in control due to no extracurricular activities like pekata, race course, betting, bars, wine shops, chilakottudu, extra marital affairs, etc. They do more help in household chores (Societal pressure) and help with kids' activities. No one does this in India. They have cars + Drivers and easy household help.

Men, of course, love life in India for all the reasons above. They can have more ME-Time and ignore everything else from their wives and kids.

Basically MEN are tamed in US. Their wildness comes out in places with less rules, controls, and more options.

7 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Another reason why most people don't leave is due to Wives and teenage kids. Wife's love the life here. No relatives or in-laws to bother. Husbands in control due to no extracurricular activities like pekata, race course, betting, bars, wine shops, chilakottudu, extra marital affairs, etc. They do more help in household chores (Societal pressure) and help with kids' activities. No one does this in India. They have cars + Drivers and easy household help.

Men, of course, love life in India for all the reasons above. They can have more ME-Time and ignore everything else from their wives and kids.

Basically MEN are tamed in US. Their wildness comes out in places with less rules, controls, and more options.

nee message ki @Sam480 gaadu like it kottadu.. electric car konnava endi?

40 minutes ago, aratipandu said:

all extracurricular activities you mentioned are happening here in broad daylight....

evry weekend uncles doing pekata clubs in basements...infact many uncles are renovating their basements to make them as mancaves for mandhu and pekata

racecourses, casinos, betting apps...open season here...

chilakottudu, affairs etc are a phone click away here...india lo aythe paruvu poddhi dorikipothe ani bhayapadi bangkok potharu

ani @Jatka Bandi and @akkum_bakkum asking

Easily available vs not easily available.

Andaru neela kalaposhakulu untara pandannaih

1 hour ago, aratipandu said:

all extracurricular activities you mentioned are happening here in broad daylight....

evry weekend uncles doing pekata clubs in basements...infact many uncles are renovating their basements to make them as mancaves for mandhu and pekata

racecourses, casinos, betting apps...open season here...

chilakottudu, affairs etc are a phone click away here...india lo aythe paruvu poddhi dorikipothe ani bhayapadi bangkok potharu

ani @Jatka Bandi and @akkum_bakkum asking

Chilakkottudu is tough here anniya…edo ons aithe little bit manage cheygalam.

7 hours ago, aratipandu said:

2 lakh + ppl are coming every yr anna... 500+ ppl leaving...how is that hot trend?number don't agree

Its still good to come if you don't have money.

But if you are in a decent position, it just doesn't make sense to stay here.

20 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Nee second half of UserName (pichal) expertise tho cheptunnava?

stock scammer and dish washer living under wife slavery randa

On 4/10/2026 at 4:35 PM, Konebhar6 said:

Another reason why most people don't leave is due to Wives and teenage kids. Wife's love the life here. No relatives or in-laws to bother. Husbands in control due to no extracurricular activities like pekata, race course, betting, bars, wine shops, chilakottudu, extra marital affairs, etc. They do more help in household chores (Societal pressure) and help with kids' activities. No one does this in India. They have cars + Drivers and easy household help.

Men, of course, love life in India for all the reasons above. They can have more ME-Time and ignore everything else from their wives and kids.

Basically MEN are tamed in US. Their wildness comes out in places with less rules, controls, and more options.

idi true..massage parlors are best example..India lo kukka mingudu mingacchu...ikkada hi cheppalanna bhayam to massage therapists..ye bokka lo vestaro ani

20 hours ago, Peddayana said:

some folks may not have option, lets say you are the only kid and you need to take care of parents or in-laws, what then?

also, all these jobs, people moving/not moving will be gone in a few years due to AI, nuvvu vaddu anna people have to go back as there will not be an option to stay unless you are a citizen, I would assume >80% of 750k H1b will return to India, will be shocking for sure when that happens..

difference between living in rented home vs own home..You can never feel you are owned in a foreign country

24 minutes ago, saravamnene said:

idi true..massage parlors are best example..India lo kukka mingudu mingacchu...ikkada hi cheppalanna bhayam to massage therapists..ye bokka lo vestaro ani

Actual ga opposite kada? Akkade ee case vestaro, asalike women centric laws ani anukuntaru kada?!

19 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

Hyderabad lo chaala better. Zero bribe.

And much faster than Govt offices in US.

I went through multiple departments. They did ask for bribe but I have always refused and my work got done on time.

My friends got fed up with the delays with US govt offices to get approvals. Took them over a year. They were saying that India is much better even if they had to bribe....atleast the work got done.

Hoarding kattinchaali e statement ni. Recent ga birth certificate 2500 charged and took 30/35 days or more. Don’t tell me bribing ledu ani