Estory - 2 : Serial Episodes Laaga Vestha

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K2S - nuvvu vesthaava, nannu eyyamantaava
google sethey first linklo ne dhorikesindhi.....[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]

[tom brady]

[quote name='@Shadow@' timestamp='1345244958' post='1302330426']
K2S - nuvvu vesthaava, nannu eyyamantaava
google sethey first linklo ne dhorikesindhi.....[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]
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roflll.....google chesi marii chadivava baa

[psycopk]

[quote name='@Shadow@' timestamp='1345244958' post='1302330426']
K2S - nuvvu vesthaava, nannu eyyamantaava
google sethey first linklo ne dhorikesindhi.....[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]
[/quote]late enduku veseyi,.. we should teach uncle a lesson

[idiBeZaWaDa]

mayaa...nuvvu aapukoleka potunav ani ethanna...[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]




[indent=1]Hi All,

I seriously need all your advice and suggestions. I'm totally confused and worried about my younger brother. Ok let me come to the point.

My father is no more now and i have brother who is 2 yrs younger to me. I'm married for 6 years and have a 2yrs old kid. MY dad died before my marriage and our's is a love cum arranged marriage. We both belong to the same cast expect he is a telegu guy and my mother tongue is tamil.

I intially faced a whole lot of problems in my marriage. My in-laws are not broad minded people and are really hypocrites. I know them (they also) right from my higher sec school days and my parents ( my dad was alive at that time) and they were very good friends/neighbours. still they don't want their son to marry me and created a big drama and scene during my marriage.

The reasons which they gave was i'm just a commerce and he is an IItian. How can you marry a girl who is just a graduate.... she is not even 50% of your income. ( i was working then) her father has not saved any(the funny part was even my in-laws did'n have any own house at that time, it's only coz of their sons they are in a good now. )

After my marriage i was treated very badly and with my dad's blessings, courage and with the god's grace i'm out of all those horrifying days and living with my husband and kid seperately now. Life treated me well for few days and now again i'm into a situation where i need your suggestions.

My brother is in love with a girl who is not from our caste and she is also a year elder to him. My mom is not happy with this and she is against this marriage. My uncles (my mom's bro) are the ones who really really helped us morally right from the day my dad left this world. They r the ones who went and spoke to my in-laws, convienced them and arranged my marriage. Ofcourse my in-laws at that time did'nt treat them well. They helped my bro with his education. To put it simple it's only coz of them we are (me, bro and mom) in a goodposition now. My mom's dad is also there. He is 80 + now. We don't have any support from my dad's side as his parents are also no more and he has no sibblings. Now the entire family is not happy about my brother's affair and all of us had enough discussions with him to come out of this relationship.

But unfortunately he is not ready for that and my mom walked out and is staying in her sis house. My bro has fixed the date for his marriage all by himself and he even has printed the invitation card without my mother's approval/blessings.

My husband informed abt my bro's affair to my in-laws and right frm then they have been questioning me about his status. I'm really not happy and now they know through my husband that he is gng to get married on this aug and they also know how my family is badly wounded coz of this. Inspite of all this my fil asked me like so i did'nt get any invitation from your bro? i want to attend his marriage[img]http://www.IndusLadies.com/forums/images/smilies/rant.gif[/img]where and how is he gng to marry. ur cutom or their's /temple or has he fixed any halls etc etc to me. I seriously feel bad/ wounded and. How could people be like this.

I also have elder BIl. co-sis who is abroad and non of us from my mother's side is gng to approve his marriage And he is gng to marry that girl as per his plans.. Now how should i handle my PIL and co-sis. I sure i'm gng to face a very big issue after his marriage.... All of them are gng to moke and question me like anything[img]http://www.IndusLadies.com/forums/images/smilies/hide.gif[/img]Unfortunately i don't have PIL who are understanding. Honestly according to me they don't have any humanity and they treated me very very badly during my pregnancy and i just don't ever want to think about all those things ever again in my life. I'm still in touch with them after all the worst things they did to me , just coz i love my husband a lot and he loves his parents. Finally i don't want my daughter and husband to stay away from them.

According to them it is just their son and grand daughter they are worried about and they don't want to loose them for whatever reason and i seriously don't want to interfere in that relationship.

My relationship with them is just a hi and . Phone calls during festival time and visits to their place during festivals and whenever my husband wants me to visit them that's it. I do all these things just as a duty and definitely not out of love. They don't deserve any love from me and they made me think so.

Even in this situation they only want to enjoy my sad situation and they are kind of who will feel happy that now they have a reason to keep their DIL under their control for the rest of their life. How should i handle this.

I agree it's my brother's life and i have no control over his marriage or things. But unfortunately his actions are going to definitely ruin my personal life. My mom is a getting a family pension and now she is gng to suffer throughout her life coz of his actions. She is not interested to be with him and hence after knowing that he is gng to marry that girl she is fed up vexed and she walked out of the house. It's a rental house, she has no assests[img]http://www.IndusLadies.com/forums/images/smilies/icon_spin.gif[/img]she is in a very miserable state and i could'nt even ask her to stay with me for rest of her life coz i'm sure my in-laws will definitely speak bad one day if i decide to make her stay with me for rest of her life and more over they won't give any respect to my mom which i don't want to happen.

I don't know what to do. I'm a -maker and i don't work right now. I want to support my mom financially but i have 2 year old kid at home and i can't [size=3][u]find a job [/u][/size] immediately. I don't want my brother to marry that girl. BUt i know i cannot ask him not to marry her though he is my brother. Now how i'm i gng to handle this situation. MY uncles and grand father are very clear and they are not gng to keep in touch with him once he marries her. My mother wants them and i want my mother.

He is gng to marry her this aug and should i have to inform this to my in-laws... My mother has decied to stay alone and my PIL dosn't know about this decision. We don't want to hide all these things from them. But we are trying our best to make things work out first. Coz as i said My PIL are really not nice person. They will only make the situation worse. Now my worries are how in the world i'm gng to face My PIL, BILS Co-sisters, their parents etc etc..... please help me out to handle this situation. [img]http://www.indusladies.com/forums/images/smilies/drowning.gif[/img]

My husband is a easy go person and according to him it's ok if his bil marries that girl.[/indent]

[Giths]

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/relationship-with-parents-and-siblings/176587-let-me-know-how-handle.html

[@Shadow@]

[quote name='tom brady' timestamp='1345245090' post='1302330442']
roflll.....google chesi marii chadivava baa [img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]
[/quote]
[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1345245125' post='1302330447']
late enduku veseyi,.. we should teach uncle a lesson [img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]
[/quote]
[quote name='idiBeZaWaDa' timestamp='1345245256' post='1302330456']
mayaa...nuvvu aapukoleka potunav ani ethanna...[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]

[/quote]

[img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img][img]http://i56.tinypic.com/2w2r5gm.jpg[/img]

[psycopk]

anta uppar batch la unnaru... em cheptundo ento kuda teliyatam ledu.. time waste k2s suckssssssss

[k2s]

Hi All,

I seriously need all your advice and suggestions. I'm totally confused and worried about my younger brother. Ok let me come to the point.

My father is no more now and i have brother who is 2 yrs younger to me. I'm married for 6 years and have a 2yrs old kid. MY dad died before my marriage and our's is a love cum arranged marriage. We both belong to the same cast expect he is a telegu guy and my mother tongue is tamil.

I intially faced a whole lot of problems in my marriage. My in-laws are not broad minded people and are really hypocrites. I know them (they also) right from my higher sec school days and my parents ( my dad was alive at that time) and they were very good friends/neighbours. still they don't want their son to marry me and created a big drama and scene during my marriage.

The reasons which they gave was i'm just a commerce graduate and he is an IItian. How can you marry a girl who is just a graduate.... she is not even earning 50% of your income. ( i was working then) her father has not saved any assets for her.... They are living in a rental house(the funny part was even my in-laws did'n have any own house at that time, it's only coz of their sons they are in a good position now. )

After my marriage i was treated very badly and with my dad's blessings, courage and with the god's grace i'm out of all those horrifying days and living with my husband and kid seperately now. Life treated me well for few days and now again i'm into a situation where i need your suggestions.

My brother is in love with a girl who is not from our caste and she is also a year elder to him. My mom is not happy with this and she is against this marriage. My uncles (my mom's bro) are the ones who really really helped us morally right from the day my dad left this world. They r the ones who went and spoke to my in-laws, convienced them and arranged my marriage. Ofcourse my in-laws at that time did'nt treat them well. They helped my bro with his education loan. To put it simple it's only coz of them we are (me, bro and mom) in a good position now. My mom's dad is also there. He is 80 + now. We don't have any support from my dad's side as his parents are also no more and he has no sibblings. Now the entire family is not happy about my brother's affair and all of us had enough discussions with him to come out of this relationship.

But unfortunately he is not ready for that and my mom walked out and is staying in her sis house. My bro has fixed the date for his marriage all by himself and he even has printed the invitation card without my mother's approval/blessings.

My husband informed abt my bro's affair to my in-laws and right frm then they have been questioning me about his status. I'm really not happy and now they know through my husband that he is gng to get married on this aug and they also know how my family is badly wounded coz of this. Inspite of all this my fil asked me like so i did'nt get any invitation from your bro? i want to attend his marriagewhere and how is he gng to marry. ur cutom or their's /temple or has he fixed any halls etc etc to me. I seriously feel bad/ wounded and depressed. How could people be like this.

I also have elder BIl. co-sis who is abroad and non of us from my mother's side is gng to approve his marriage And he is gng to marry that girl as per his plans.. Now how should i handle my PIL and co-sis. I sure i'm gng to face a very big issue after his marriage.... All of them are gng to moke and question me like anything Unfortunately i don't have PIL who are understanding. Honestly according to me they don't have any humanity and they treated me very very badly during my pregnancy and i just don't ever want to think about all those things ever again in my life. I'm still in touch with them after all the worst things they did to me , just coz i love my husband a lot and he loves his parents. Finally i don't want my daughter and husband to stay away from them.

According to them it is just their son and grand daughter they are worried about and they don't want to loose them for whatever reason and i seriously don't want to interfere in that relationship.

My relationship with them is just a hi and . Phone calls during festival time and visits to their place during festivals and whenever my husband wants me to visit them that's it. I do all these things just as a duty and definitely not out of love. They don't deserve any love from me and they made me think so.

Even in this situation they only want to enjoy my sad situation and they are kind of person who will feel happy that now they have a reason to keep their DIL under their control for the rest of their life. How should i handle this.

I agree it's my brother's life and i have no control over his marriage or things. But unfortunately his actions are going to definitely ruin my personal life. My mom is a getting a family pension and now she is gng to suffer throughout her life coz of his actions. She is not interested to be with him and hence after knowing that he is gng to marry that girl she is fed up vexed and she walked out of the house. It's a rental house, she has no assestsshe is in a very miserable state and i could'nt even ask her to stay with me for rest of her life coz i'm sure my in-laws will definitely speak bad one day if i decide to make her stay with me for rest of her life and more over they won't give any respect to my mom which i don't want to happen.

I don't know what to do. I'm a home-maker and i don't work right now. I want to support my mom financially but i have 2 year old kid at home and i can't find a job immediately. I don't want my brother to marry that girl. BUt i know i cannot ask him not to marry her though he is my brother. Now how i'm i gng to handle this situation. MY uncles and grand father are very clear and they are not gng to keep in touch with him once he marries her. My mother wants them and i want my mother.

He is gng to marry her this aug and should i have to inform this to my in-laws... My mother has decied to stay alone and my PIL dosn't know about this decision. We don't want to hide all these things from them. But we are trying our best to make things work out first. Coz as i said My PIL are really not nice person. They will only make the situation worse. Now my worries are how in the world i'm gng to face My PIL, BILS Co-sisters, their parents etc etc..... please help me out to handle this situation.

My husband is a easy go person and according to him it's ok if his bil marries that girl.

[Anta Assamey]

Adhi em rasindo danikanna ardam avutunda.... [img]http://www.desigifs.com/sites/default/files/bemmi.lol5_.gif?1290450399[/img]

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[jbourne]

[quote name='ChampakDas' timestamp='1345241705' post='1302330002']
vammo story chala undhi kada...
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