very tension situation, please advise

[AFDB__REBEL]

4 minutes ago, CuteDesiGal said:

Oka 2 weeks leave petti velli mee sis tho matladu. Asalu reason enti enduku ala ayyadu first 3yrs bagunnadu kada ekkada prob vachindo kanuko. Then mee bava tho kooda matladu. Set ayyela unte iddarni kurchobetti matladi set chei ledhante inko 6months time ivvu aa lopu set kakapothe mee sis background ki thagga job vethiki pettu thanatho divorce ippinchu.

divorce anukunnam kaani ....vadiki buddhi chepali ...

so thinking wt cases can we file

[erragulabi]

This is the story of every household in India where they have no boys in their family. People still think boys are great and daughters are waste. We might end up in the same scenario if we have two daughters. It's the ppl around you who influence our ideas. Even when we try to be normal, ppl around keep bugging you around and make u feel that you did something wrong by having two daughters. Shower money on ur brother in law, deposit money on kids names.  That's all I can say.

[Odale]

5 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

sis was working earlier, kanni vadu nuvvu work cheste nuvvu intlo anni chuskovali ani chepadu.

nuvvu intlo unte nenu ista dabbul annadu

Now time to change ba....he cannot do anything if your sis works. In marriage both have equal responsibilities...

you support your sis for child care fees...

[AFDB__REBEL]

1 minute ago, erragulabi said:

This is the story of every household in India where they have no boys in their family. People still think boys are great and daughters are waste. We might end up in the same scenario if we have two daughters. It's the ppl around you who influence our ideas. Even when we try to be normal, ppl around keep bugging you around and make u feel that you did something wrong by having two daughters. Shower money on ur brother in law, deposit money on kids names.  That's all I can say.

katnam chala icchinam ...inka enti shower money bro

[LuciferMorningStar]

14 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

bhayas.

naku oka sister undhi, she is married for last 6 years.

oka 3 years bane unde marriage. daughter was born

Things were going well, but after second daughter was born, things change.

Sis husband torture start chesadu. Intlo money ivvadam ledhu. Pillal toh sambhandam ledhu naku antunadu

Office ki veldam early morning, night late ga ravadam. kavalani function ki out of city veldam alone.

Kavalani ma parents ki call chesi teskoni velandi me daughter ki nenu kapuram cheyanu. 

Naku vere ammyin toh relation undhi ani chepadu sis ki. Em cheskuntav chesko po, nenu ilane unta. 

Akkada ma parents papam daily tension lo unaru. Nen kuda lenu akkada. They are alone. relatives unnaru kaani vallu em chestar.

At this age parents  kuda ee torture to chala frustrate unaru. Mother ki high BP, hospital lo kuda admit chasaru.

Nenu ikad nunchi em cheyileka pothunav. 

Please suggest how to deal this situation, chala helpless ka feel avuthuna. 

Vadu emo akkada nakhral chestunadu. 

I suggest your Sister go to your BIL's office & complain to the HR.

Then complain to the police, if possible grab his passport.

Hire a very good divorce attorney.

If in US, go to everyone from Indian Embassy to USICS.

[Odale]

2 minutes ago, AFDB__REBEL said:

divorce anukunnam kaani ....vadiki buddhi chepali ...

so thinking wt cases can we file

First step, your sis should work and earn money herself...

[no01]

ippudu kids tho naaku sambandam ledhu etc etc ani enni veshaalu vesina, divorce aithe mee bava has to take care of kids and house hold expenses.....thats the law (US or India). He cannot escape that......he should understand that or you should make him understand that point. Appudu melliga matter ento chepthadu....based on that your family can decide.

 

[AFDB__REBEL]

Just now, LuciferMorningStar said:

I suggest your Sister go to your BIL's office & complain to the HR.

Then complain to the police, if possible grab his passport.

Hire a very good divorce attorney.

If in US, go to everyone from Indian Embassy to USICS.

They are in India bro

[erragulabi]

Just now, AFDB__REBEL said:

katnam chala icchinam ...inka enti shower money bro

Society didn't change bro. Kids Peru meeda cheyyandi and assure him you will be there if any help required.

[riashli]

Ask ur sister to search a job in different city and move, a feeling that his wife is not dependent on him is the best revenge to take on any male.. it worked in my case, ask her to take a stand, somewhere she needs to start.. pillalki emi kadu, once she takes a stand everything will fall into place.. 

[AFDB__REBEL]

Just now, no01 said:

ippudu kids tho naaku sambandam ledhu etc etc ani enni veshaalu vesina, divorce aithe mee bava has to take care of kids and house hold expenses.....thats the law (US or India). He cannot escape that......he should understand that or you should make him understand that point. Appudu melliga matter ento chepthadu....based on that your family can decide.

 

ok file cheyai divorce nenu rasista em kavalo antundau...

india law telusu kada bro... aa alimony oka saari saari tesskovocha...

what if he intentianlly loses his job ans shows he has nothing to give

[srshb445]

Where does your sister stay......if she is in india, ask your parent to stay with her for couple of mths like that and try to sort the issue....

[dasara_bullodu]

gooba meeda nalugu peekamanu ...emaina aithe society vallu chuskuntaru

[AFDB__REBEL]

Just now, riashli said:

Ask ur sister to search a job in different city and move, a feeling that his wife is not dependent on him is the best revenge to take on any male.. it worked in my case, ask her to take a stand, somewhere she needs to start.. pillalki emi kadu, once she takes a stand everything will fall into place.. 

job kosam try chestunna...kaani first sitution matala toh setrle cheddam anukunna..but no progress

[LuciferMorningStar]

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