Matrimony workout avtada for avg looking guy in US

[E111]

Just now, Amrita said:

I am not doing what they want me do and i have zero desire to reach their expectations now 

[Rshiva]

11 minutes ago, xeqtr said:

For most people it is definitely a huge risk. You're basically hoping the odds are in your favor for the matrimony match to work out without actually knowing the person. Of course there is a risk involved in love marriages too cause people might change/grow apart over time. But I believe there is definitely less risk involved in getting married to someone you know for a longer period of time. Our society is not yet there where they let people date for long period of time through matrimony.

But at the same time matrimony style might be an option for a certain kind of people -  the one's who do not take marriage as seriously.. as in who think it's just one of the things that they have to get done either for family or status quo in society etc. They do not see it as an union of two people/minds where compatibility matters a lot for the harmony in marriage. Also people who may not be outgoing enough to date/meet people in life (such people do still exist in our society).

So I guess it depends on the individual and what they are expecting out of marriage. And that varies a lot from person to person.

 

True bro agreed it is a gamble at the end. But i do not  have any circle/relatives here in US  to find a girl , so i have matrimony as the option to look.It is relatively easy if i look for a girl in india through relatives.

[Amrita]

2 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Theatre lo Ammoru movie chusthuu .. Inquilab zindabad ani evaru aravaru enti annatlu undi ur wish 

Anthe antaru 

[ekunadam_enkanna]

7 minutes ago, Rshiva said:

oh first anta varaku vellali ante mundu mankante thopu vundadu ani dabba kottala. 

It is a godla santha (market). You need to show that you have money to negotiate with a merchant there. Don't think that merchants there are just like you--being honest, etc. In fact, let me tell you a story. YSR's friend and RajamPet ex-mp Sai prathap has a sister. aayana chelli ku oka koothuru undi. Naaku telsi, oka balija/kaapu medico kurnool chaduvutunde, nenu akkada unnappadu. ee medico gaaniki, sai prathap side vaallu vacchi, aame ki barieties ganulu unnay, dabbul kuppal kuppal unnay, baaga seppendru--both relatives and madhyavarthis. Manodu body pulakarinchi poyindi. aammayi laavu kooda. Kaani, manodu oppukunde, baaga paisal ostayani (imagine all those barieties ganulu, sai prathap money, etc). Pell aipoindi. Pelli ain tarvaata, telsindhi endi ante, sai prathap sister's daggara pedda paisal levani. Last ki manodu baaga deela padadu.

Atla untadi, ee gorla santa. You need to put a show just to see what merchants on the other sides are up to. That help you to gauge the market.

[riashli]

4 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Regular pelli sollu 

Ayite over to @Staysafebro 

[Rshiva]

10 minutes ago, Amrita said:

Ido pichi strategy mana parents generation mastu rigid. Enta wait chesina green light radu its always in Yellow . You have to fight for somethings when you go against traditional stereotypes. 

yeah agreed . should be from same caste, sub caste ,same region match bla blah blah and the list goes on.

[yamadoobu]

bro ugadhi roju fresh ga account create chesaru naku.. baya pedutunnav bro

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, riashli said:

Ayite over to @Staysafebro 

[Amrita]

1 minute ago, Rshiva said:

yeah agreed . should be from same caste, sub caste ,same region match bla blah blah and the list goes on.

Yup ! 

[perugu_vada]

1 minute ago, Rshiva said:

True bro agreed it is a gamble at the end. But i do not  have any circle/relatives here in US  to find a girl , so i have matrimony as the option to look.It is relatively easy if i look for a girl in india through relatives.

dont think too much uncle .. luck plays part of the role after the marriage .. majority depends on how the couple understand eachother and respect one another's wishes/ideas .. matrimony thru marriages avvavu .. aina they wont stand long anedhi rubbish .. if that is true u wud never see so many ppl registering there .. matrimony should be the way of reaching to your options .. and if dealt in proper way (like parents shall start talking to eachother 1st than boy/girl taking and making it look like a dating website)

[sboyr2r]

4 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ayite over to @Staysafebro 

Ee comedy ga vunda @Staysafebro ante mazaak aitunda 

[ekunadam_enkanna]

5 minutes ago, yamadoobu said:

bro ugadhi roju fresh ga account create chesaru naku.. baya pedutunnav bro

saraina muhurtam petta leda account create sesinnappudu?

[panipoori]

6 minutes ago, riashli said:

Ayite over to @Staysafebro 

Staysafebro ee correct!! Aaayane ravali!!!!

 

 

 

 

[yamadoobu]

Just now, ekunadam_enkanna said:

saraina muhurtam petta leda account create sesinnappudu?

muhurtam em ledu bro

[Rshiva]

10 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

dont think too much uncle .. luck plays part of the role after the marriage .. majority depends on how the couple understand each other and respect one another's wishes/ideas .. matrimony thru marriages avvavu .. aina they wont stand long anedhi rubbish .. if that is true u wud never see so many ppl registering there .. matrimony should be the way of reaching to your options .. and if dealt in proper way (like parents shall start talking to eachother 1st than boy/girl taking and making it look like a dating website)

point eh brother. naku telsu idantha kismat ka khel ani .Inka try cheyali ga nuvvu annatte luck tagaldanki ayina.But in a way lucky chaala tondarga ardham avtundi.