disadvantages in getting married to green card holder

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GC vadiki disadvantage, h1/opt vallaki advantage 

[Bhumchik]

6 minutes ago, kevinUsa said:

Ramudu manchi baludu

[AppatloBhutto]

6 hours ago, DrBeta said:

Immigration status ni batti enduku decide cheskodam? It doesn't mean anything about the person kada?

Haha. Babuuuu come out of “ideal-world”   No body gives a about what’s right-thing-to-do when it comes to  marriage. All these “ideals” are good for teenage-lovers and who are mostly heavily driven by hormones and for story-tellers who can preach their fake-stories and mint money. 

 In “practical world”, many parameters come-in before one takes a decision and driven by “what’s good for them in the long run “ and not necessarily “ if it’s the right thing to do”. 

[vendettaa]

😊

[DrBeta]

10 hours ago, AppatloBhutto said:

Haha. Babuuuu come out of “ideal-world”   No body gives a about what’s right-thing-to-do when it comes to  marriage. All these “ideals” are good for teenage-lovers and who are mostly heavily driven by hormones and for story-tellers who can preach their fake-stories and mint money. 

 In “practical world”, many parameters come-in before one takes a decision and driven by “what’s good for them in the long run “ and not necessarily “ if it’s the right thing to do”. 

So you're saying the older you get, you lose the ability to love someone?

[AppatloBhutto]

57 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

So you're saying the older you get, you lose the ability to love someone?

I did NOT say that. 

 

Thread’s topic is about marriage and your responded about what shouldn’t have been the parameter to chose partner FOR MARRIAGE. I only said the ideal parameters to chose a partner FOR MARRIAGE doesn’t work in this practical world. So, where did the “ability to love” come into picture? Unless I’m mistaken, the topic has always been about marriage, not  love. They are two different things. 

[Don_Draper]

18 hours ago, vendettaa said:

naku enduko green card kanna h1 ayte better anpistundi 

green card holder ni pelli cheskunte em benefits vastay spouse ki 

immigration status chudatledu nenu but greencard matches vastunay so doubts vastunay

but just want to know enti advantages and disadvantages

meeru itla advantages disadvantages lekka pettesari punyakalam gadichipotadi.. overthinking is a killer.

[AppatloBhutto]

6 minutes ago, Don_Draper said:

meeru itla advantages disadvantages lekka pettesari punyakalam gadichipotadi.. overthinking is a killer.

Hehe. 30 ayyedaka alane untadi. 30 dataka too late avtundi...

[Don_Draper]

3 minutes ago, AppatloBhutto said:

Hehe. 30 ayyedaka alane untadi. 30 dataka too late avtundi...

There is nothing called as too late. Ala aithey people can;t start over at all..

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18 hours ago, vendettaa said:

naku enduko green card kanna h1 ayte better anpistundi 

green card holder ni pelli cheskunte em benefits vastay spouse ki 

immigration status chudatledu nenu but greencard matches vastunay so doubts vastunay

but just want to know enti advantages and disadvantages

Edoka Chetha Thread .... evaro advice Immigration status shouldnt be cosntraint to select annaru ..

Bookem kadu ....India lo SW 3 years exp: 5 lakhs. US same SE 1 year: 50 Lakhs. 

India lo Janalaki NRI's ki why giving katnam alot because of immigration status, Immigration do place very vital role specially for peace of mind and consistency. 

Neku anni Green card ante koncham over ga vundhi, but overall any time Prefer GC, Citizen over H1B, because H1B life is dog life and banisa brathukulu. 

Unless you like adventures every month of tensions. 

[DrBeta]

32 minutes ago, AppatloBhutto said:

I did NOT say that. 

 

Thread’s topic is about marriage and your responded about what shouldn’t have been the parameter to chose partner FOR MARRIAGE. I only said the ideal parameters to chose a partner FOR MARRIAGE doesn’t work in this practical world. So, where did the “ability to love” come into picture? Unless I’m mistaken, the topic has always been about marriage, not  love. They are two different things. 

So, when you love someone, would you love someone based on their immigration status or based on how a person is? Then why wouldn't you do the same for marriage? You get married when you love someone. So, are love and marriage really that different from each other?

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Just now, DrBeta said:

So, when you love someone, would you love someone based on their immigration status or based on how a person is? Then why wouldn't you do the same for marriage? You get married when you love someone. So, are love and marriage really that different from each other?

Reality ra papa

[DrBeta]

2 minutes ago, whatsapp said:

Reality ra papa

It's true fafa

[Don_Draper]

25 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

So, when you love someone, would you love someone based on their immigration status or based on how a person is? Then why wouldn't you do the same for marriage? You get married when you love someone. So, are love and marriage really that different from each other?

yes love is totally different from marriage.. it is not mandatory that if you love it leads to marriage and vice versa.. love is an amalgamation of many things, where as marriage has boundaries.

[AppatloBhutto]

19 minutes ago, DrBeta said:

So, when you love someone, would you love someone based on their immigration status or based on how a person is? Then why wouldn't you do the same for marriage? You get married when you love someone. So, are love and marriage really that different from each other?

Back to square one. There are two things.   ideal (how it is supposed to be) and practical (how it is now )  I told you already.  Come out of ideal-world that doesn’t exist and face the practical-word.  

Love and marriage are different from each other. I wouldn’t say they are mutually exclusive but not necessarily they  need to be tied-up. In practical world, we come across People marry whom they don’t love and people love whom they didn’t marry/never intend-to marry.