Married men kasthalu

[manamthoupule]

Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly.

How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ?

[Barney_Stinson]

MiLs could be the worst giving double trouble mis guiding their everytime correct daughters 

[AverageDesiGuy]

Does your wife work?

[manamthoupule]

1 minute ago, AverageDesiGuy said:

Does your wife work?

Yes.

[Aquaman]

pichivada..you are like a toy &  money making machine now.

after marriage, you are a provider to your wife and kids anthe

bend , keep silent ,work hard  that too life long and feed them, no questions . Harsh reality.

[manamthoupule]

3 minutes ago, Barney_Stinson said:

MiLs could be the worst giving double trouble mis guiding their everytime correct daughters 

It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother.

[Shameless]

15 minutes ago, manamthoupule said:

. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly.

 

 This is total Desi truth kno bro??

[Android_Halwa]

6 minutes ago, manamthoupule said:

It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother.

Intlo switch esthe balcony la light on aye vyharam idi...antha tondarga vadaladu..mee atha musaldi ayi..mee wife life la picha busy aithe thappa niu ie kastalu taggavu...

mee wife degara vunna paisal anni khatam pattiyyi...gold konistha ani oka 20-30k loan teesukuni, make her pay for the loan...atarvata daily spending kosam ani credit cards vadipadeyyi...initially jara lolli lolli pedtadi but gold konichinav kabatti emi analekapotadi...then start blackmailing...ae lolli chesina nuv emi kavalante adi konichina ani emotional hatyachar chey...kastha investment aitadi but safe investment plus pendlam control la vuntadi

atarvata MiL sangati suddam...

[Barney_Stinson]

13 minutes ago, manamthoupule said:

It's not just that she involves in everything and she is so intelligent she won't say anything directly to me but through my wife as if that way my wife's opinion. I agree mistake is there on my wife side as well that she is sharing everything with her mother.

some women will relaize after certain things and those that don’t realize are the most dangerous and they will never become women only life long girls with kodi dimaag

[Thokkalee]

32 minutes ago, manamthoupule said:

Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly.

How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ?

Recently (1 or 2 yrs) married aa?? 😀

 

[manamthoupule]

9 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

Recently (1 or 2 yrs) married aa?? 😀

 

Yes bro. 6 months ayyindi. I was expecting my wife will change slowly but looks like that's not gonna happen because of my MIL.

[BattalaSathi]

41 minutes ago, manamthoupule said:

Wife shares everything with her mother even the things that should be kept between husband and wife. I tried to tell her nicely once or twice that somethings should be kept between us but she doesn't understand. Her mother doesn't mingle with anyone and she is worried that my wife becomes closer to my side of the family. My wife also has lot of hate for my parents because of the things that her mother tells her even though my parents never said anything to her. My wife's family acted very nicely before marriage and they keep on acting even now. I couldn't recognize their acting before marriage. Their expectation is the boy shouldn't take care of his parents after marriage but they won't say that directly.

How to deal with such toxic mother-in-law and wife. Looking for a serious suggestions. Is there a solution for this or just close my eyes and live with it ?

parledu le..just give it some time..

ante problem resolve avuthudani kaadu...neeku alavatu ayipothadhi...anthe..

[Thokkalee]

1 minute ago, manamthoupule said:

Yes bro. 6 months ayyindi. I was expecting my wife will change slowly but looks like that's not gonna happen because of my MIL.

It takes some time man.. girls are more close to their mom.. “na family” ani feeling ravadaniki time pattuddi… slowly mould her.. 

[manamthoupule]

Looks like there is no solution to this? I will just move on with my life.

[manamthoupule]

1 minute ago, Thokkalee said:

It takes some time man.. girls are more close to their mom.. “na family” ani feeling ravadaniki time pattuddi… slowly mould her.. 

I accept girls are close to their mom. But as I mentioned above I have no hope that she will change bro based on what I experienced so far.