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4 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

14 yrs nundi vere country lo untunnvante, 10 lacs does not seem to be huge amount of money to me. Neeku mee anna ki em godavalu unnayo naku telidu. If I were you, i will not loose my peace over this. Lesson learned and dont do that again. 

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8 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

I am very blessed, never had such discussion with parents. and, it sounds like "well cooked" story 

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Just now, JavaBava said:

14 yrs nundi vere country lo untunnvante, 10 lacs does not seem to be huge amount of money to me. Neeku mee anna ki em godavalu unnayo naku telidu. If I were you, i will not loose my peace over this. Lesson learned and dont do that again. 

Avnu brother its not a big amount.. but nenu own parents chethilo mosapivadam .. chethagani vadila untam naku inka badha anipistandi.. lokam lo parents ye money ki ilaa chestante inkevarni nammali anipistandi.. 

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9 minutes ago, gnr said:

I gave 10lakhs in 2009 to my parents..my dad put that in his  bank account.. prema ga ichaa.. interest vadukomani.. inka 2012 nunchi na property meda rents use cheskuntannaru 12k per month. Ippudu na money naku ivvu antante ninnu penchaam chadivincham.. na daggara yem levu.. nenu yem job cheyatledu .. nenu ivvanu antannaru ma amma, nanna iddaru.. naku inko brother untadu kinda intlo paina ma parents untaru.. bother ki high earning job kaadani na money vallaki ivvalani chudtannaru.. interest vaadukomani isthe naku asalu kuda lekunda chestannaru.. ademi ante memu chanipothe dubbulu petti urulo dinam cheyali kadaa andarni pilavali kada antannaru.. adi nenu na brother sagam sagam pettukuni chese aachaaralu.. danikisam na money mosam chesi vallu lenapudu jarige vatiki ippudu mosam chestaara.. matladithe nenu kastha sampadistaa ani na daggare teskuntam money.. vallu sampadinchina aasthulu anni ma annaya ki.. sontha parents ye ilaa mosam chestante badha ga undi.. yevartho cheppukovali artham avtledu.. ee nammaka droham thattukoleka pothanna..nenu sampadinchindi kuda ma anna family ki  Pettali anukuntam naku artham avtledu.. 

Naku yedina salaha ivvandi na money asalu vache daari unte cheppandi.. nenu vati meda interest valla life long ivadaniki ready ne.. vallaki expenses chuskotaniki kuda ready ne.. kaani naku asalu (10lkahs ) ma parents nunchi yela aina teskogalanaa.. nenu pampinattu bank statements unnayi.

14 years ga nene financial help chestanna okka rupee kuda ma annaya chudadu.. yepudina sambar, pappu, chutney, food aa roju cheskunnadi konchem pedtha untaru vallu parents ki..  (not regular)

Financial ga every month help chestanna kuda nakante ma annaya antene istam ga untannaru anna feel vachindi naku.. nenu last 16 years ga vere country lo untam valla yemo.. 

 

 

 

 

Move on bro. Adhe think chesthu unte you will never be happy. I personally had similar situation with my parents. Leave that 10lakhs and be happy

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1 minute ago, veerigadu said:

10 lakhs kosam releation ship waste chesukookuuu li888. It’s not even worth it. Gisontiiii kirikiriluuu ladies yeee instigate sestharuuu most of the time. I’m not sure if it is the case in your situation. 
 

Your brother is there for them. He gives them sense of security. Your brother will take care of them in future too.
 

Nuvvu emo née selfish reasons ki vomericaaa 10ngesavvv gaaa. Inkaaa nyayammm sollu vaddhu anna please. Sorry if I’m harsh but you need a reality check. 
 

Don’t be petty bro. 

Avnu anna adi chinna amount ye naku.. kani naku ee dabbulu gurinchi ma parents tho discussion jarigaka malli na phones kuda lift cheyatledu.. inka yem relation migili undi ..

Na wife house wife anna.. na money matters lo asalu thala durchadu bro.. 

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Feel bad for you. This is one of those situations where I say - pick your battles. What your parents are saying is not right. Eee money kosam relation teggottesukovadam koda right kaadu. Ippudu ee disco heat tagginchi - next time India poyinappudu lighter note lo mee brother & parents mundu what happened ani disclose chesi vadileyyi. Again no expectations, no warnings nothing. 

Moving forward set clear boundaries financially. Baaga avasaram aithe help them, leka pothe do your thing. 

I am very glad I do not have to go through this. In the past my dad did some stupid decisions and I faced the burnt end, first lo nenu sarigga handle cheyyaledu - lack of experience, manchitanam, parents tho ala ela untam ani think cheyyadam valla. Tarvata tarvata kaasta style maarchanu - over time set ayyindi. Again, my parents never touch my money without telling or mentioning. 

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2 minutes ago, veerigadu said:

mosam emundhi. May be your brother plays victim card that he is not making enough money as you do blah blah. Parents always side with kids who play victim card. 

Avnu bro.. ma anna family financial issues chustaa unnaru daggara nunchi ma parents.. ma annaya financial help cheyakapoina parvaledu anukuntaru ma parents..

 

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