Parents : inkosari US ki rammani pilavaku

[Thokkalee]

50 minutes ago, ForEverJava said:

Parents are most evil after late 50 and 60s not everyone but most of them..some parents keep torture all relatives asking when we go to usa ani vallu vellum elltunnaru ani once ikkada vachaka narakarm choopistaru wife ni torture pedataru guys parents ite ..girl parents ite indirect ga husband ni torture vachina kadinundi bore dentundi antaru vallaki walking group set cheyyali shopping tipplai long trip plan cheyyali daily cook cheyyali eda poina bayata tinamu antaru malli emina health issue vaccinate govinda govinda asalu ikkada office work chestella paristi ardam cheskoru vachinapadinundi comparison start chestsru illu lekpote enduku ledu ani unte adi idi ledu ani chuttala tho rojanta talking all evening sava denging anni vishyalalao interfering...adoka narakam ..malla trip aipoyappudu boledanta shopping india poyaka malli oka 1 yr kagaane cycle repeat... as a I person who brought parents 6 times in last 19yrs and in laws 4 times I gave up in 4 years back no more parents visits or in laws ..life chala peaceful ga undi already kids tensions are good enough don't need two more kids at home..

I am sure they felt the same when they raised you and handled their parents too.. 😄

the way I look at it is that, people as they become old become more like kids and behave like kids.. they throw more tantrums, get cranky and want things to be their way.. have to be fed on time and cannot delay… 

[Rushabhi]

Kontha mandi PCPs insurance tho work cheyyakunda contract laga nelaki 100 or 200 Ala teesukuntaru for a certain amount of time. Em vachina choopinchukovachu. They have negotiated rates for labs. Look into those near your area. Specialist visits ayithe cash price and then order labs online 

[Rushabhi]

56 minutes ago, ForEverJava said:

Parents are most evil after late 50 and 60s not everyone but most of them..some parents keep torture all relatives asking when we go to usa ani vallu vellum elltunnaru ani once ikkada vachaka narakarm choopistaru wife ni torture pedataru guys parents ite ..girl parents ite indirect ga husband ni torture vachina kadinundi bore dentundi antaru vallaki walking group set cheyyali shopping tipplai long trip plan cheyyali daily cook cheyyali eda poina bayata tinamu antaru malli emina health issue vaccinate govinda govinda asalu ikkada office work chestella paristi ardam cheskoru vachinapadinundi comparison start chestsru illu lekpote enduku ledu ani unte adi idi ledu ani chuttala tho rojanta talking all evening sava denging anni vishyalalao interfering...adoka narakam ..malla trip aipoyappudu boledanta shopping india poyaka malli oka 1 yr kagaane cycle repeat... as a I person who brought parents 6 times in last 19yrs and in laws 4 times I gave up in 4 years back no more parents visits or in laws ..life chala peaceful ga undi already kids tensions are good enough don't need two more kids at home..

Vaalla active lifestyle nunchi teesukochi 24 by 7 emi cheyyakunda undali ante kashtame. They can’t go out on their own. They can’t hang out with neighbors. Kaneesam Windows kooda open chesukoni koorcholeru. Then idle man’s mind is devil workshop antaru ga. It happens. Unless they actively do housework and look after kids. Even then it gets mundane 

[praying]

49 minutes ago, Mesthri said:

how bro? How would you handle the situation I am in.

chesedi em ledu bro, urgent aithe ikkada enthaina soopinchali kada.... ikkada baledu ani two weeks wait chesi india lo sooinchuko ante evarikaina kaluddi kada..

[JavaBava]

57 minutes ago, Mesthri said:

how bro? How would you handle the situation I am in.

By commenting and saying no comment 😜

[Deadp0ol2]

parents ki entha karchu ayina pettale vayya ikkada specially in emergency situations ...

insurance ledu direct teeskapothe entha karchu ostado ani malli cheap thinking okati.

mee ayya anna daantlo tappu em ledu correct gaa ne annadu.  

 

 

[Mesthri]

1 hour ago, LadiesTailor said:

Yeah but they will give you an advice right… basic tests chesi prescriptions emanna istaru… if they ask for more tests then you have a reason to go back to India for all of them… don’t think too much bro.. lot of Indians have gone through this..

advice tho problem kadu bro ipudu. More tests needed expensive avtundi ani telisi India ki pamputha antene 10gulu paddai 

[chapstick]

1 hour ago, Mesthri said:

Am I the only one or andaru ade situation lo untara?

Mostly every one will be in same page .. parents ki health issues unte you can’t pay the huge bills .. the system is like this here .. one week hospital lo admit aite you l get 50k bill and insurance companies mostly don’t cover .. 

[Mesthri]

1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

Y don't u go to Mexico get treated

Every doctor visit ki Mexico ki ela potav bro? its not feasible solution no. Mexico poyedaniki inko 10hrs ekkuva kurchunte India povachu

[Mesthri]

29 minutes ago, praying said:

chesedi em ledu bro, urgent aithe ikkada enthaina soopinchali kada.... ikkada baledu ani two weeks wait chesi india lo sooinchuko ante evarikaina kaluddi kada..

Oka friend gadu valla father ki heart attack vachindi. Bill 150k ayindi. bankrupt file chesi bayata paddadu. He did job for 3yrs before the incident. 

Do you recommend that?

[ForEverJava]

47 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

I am sure they felt the same when they raised you and handled their parents too.. 😄

the way I look at it is that, people as they become old become more like kids and behave like kids.. they throw more tantrums, get cranky and want things to be their way.. have to be fed on time and cannot delay… 

But due to all this stress if a man or women die is it okay? It happend in my friends circle is parents torture chadastam is more than a life ? One guy went too much stress and died of heart attack and one lady in known circle committed suicide due to in laws tortute..just wanted to know..ifnu r trying to defend parents..

[ForEverJava]

Just now, ForEverJava said:

But due to all this stress if a man or women die is it okay? It happend in my friends circle is parents torture chadastam is more than a life ? One guy went too much stress and died of heart attack and one lady in known circle committed suicide due to in laws tortute..just wanted to know..ifnu r trying to defend parents..

Parents enta cruel ante oka sari vachinappudu oka family lo subdivision kid playing at friends house keep bringing friends and play sometime and then used to guy other house ..oorike door bell kodutunnadu ani kid ki door teetadam manesaru grand parents and vadiki bathroom vachi pant lo pee chesukunnadu one of the parent cried at me ..my parents have become this cruel..do u support those kind of grand parents 

[hyperbole]

13 minutes ago, Mesthri said:

advice tho problem kadu bro ipudu. More tests needed expensive avtundi ani telisi India ki pamputha antene 10gulu paddai 

First doctor daggariki po man, okka $150- $200 ayitadi consulting ki, testlu cheyanna vadda ani ayana cheptadu, anni nuvve anukoni pokapote ela?

[cherlapalli_jailer]

See if ur MOM brought medicines along with her and continue then  Visit the Dr. Preferably Desi Dr. and take His/Her First Opinion and proceed Don't neglect if needed u need not wait for some more days better go to india. UR Dad will understand

 

[Mesthri]

1 hour ago, vokatonumberkurrodu said:

i am  but thats the situation in USA. Aged parents ni teesukuravalante risk that too if they have pre existing conditions then no visitors insurance will cover. it will only cover accidents and falls etc.

if your dad is not convinced tell him that you will move to india for good to take care of them. see what he says.

 

India vachi chooskovali anna expectation emi lekunde, But USA lo undi, ikkadiki vaste emergency cases lo choodalem anedi he didn't like it.