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  2. Thokkalee

    Veedu mega family meedha paga pattesaadu

    He is becoming popular bcoz of this anti Chiru and PK videos.. ycp is boosting him ani talk..
  3. Thokkalee

    Movie recommendation

    Anni OTT movies.. wait for few weeks to watch in OTT
  4. pinnigaaru

    How the Devops market?

    endure bro rotta loki rammantav?
  5. BulletBaskar

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    ledu bro telisinolla tho apply cheyincha when i was in hyderabad within few days lo approve ayindi
  6. Jatka Bandi

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    neeke kada aa rojullo cheppindi.. almost a year anukunta.. that only the center near Hitec City is doing new registrations now.. green pen signature kavali.. etc etc.. Sec'bad manishivi anukunta kada? Enni rojulu pattindi overall? Experience share cheyi.
  7. Jatka Bandi

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

  8. BulletBaskar

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

  9. @Sucker @Konebhar6@Dallas_baluu@Bitcoin_Baba@krishnaaa@Spartan@Jatka Bandi Reading this really got me rethinking on whats going on with this generation in this country. *****PLEASE IF YOU HAVE YOUNG BOYS YOUNG MEN AT HOME READ THIS**** I told my son to “man up” and stop making excuses. I didn’t realize I was shouting at a drowning man until I found his bed empty and the silence in his room became permanent. My son, Leo, was twenty-three. To the outside world, and frankly, to me at the time, he looked like a failure. I’m a simple guy. I grew up in a time when sweat equity meant something. I bought my first house at twenty-four working at a local manufacturing plant. I drove a beat-up truck, fixed it myself, and never complained. That was the American way. You work hard, you get the white picket fence. Simple math. So, when I looked at Leo, I didn’t see a struggle. I saw laziness. He had a college degree that was gathering dust. He spent his days glued to his phone, delivering food for one of those gig-economy apps, and sleeping until noon. He lived in my basement, wore the same oversized hoodie every day, and had a look in his eyes that I interpreted as boredom. I was constantly on his case. "The world doesn't owe you a living, Leo," I’d say, slamming my coffee mug down. "Get a real job. Build some character." The Tuesday that changed my life started like any other. I came home from the shop, grease on my hands, feeling the good ache of a hard day's work. Leo was in the kitchen, staring at a bowl of cereal. It was 6:00 PM. "You just waking up?" I asked, the irritation rising in my chest like bile. "No, Dad," he said softly. "Just got back. Did a few deliveries." "Deliveries," I scoffed. "That’s not a career, Leo. That’s a hobby. When I was your age, I had a mortgage and a baby on the way. You can’t even pay for your own gas." He put the spoon down. He looked pale, thinner than I remembered. "The market is tough right now, Dad. Nobody is hiring entry-level without three years of experience. And the rent... a studio is two thousand a month. I can’t make the math work." "The math works if you work," I snapped. "Stop blaming the economy. Stop blaming 'the system.' It’s about grit. You think it was easy for me in the 90s? We didn’t have safe spaces. We just got it done." Leo looked up at me. His eyes were heavy. Not sleepy—heavy. Like they were holding up the ceiling. "I’m trying, Dad. I really am. But I’m just... so tired." I rolled my eyes. I actually rolled my eyes. "Tired? From what? Sitting in a car? Playing on your phone? I’ve been on my feet for ten hours. I am tired. You’re just unmotivated. You have everything handed to you—electricity, food, a roof—and you act like you’re carrying the weight of the world." The kitchen went quiet. The refrigerator hummed. The news played softly in the background, talking about inflation rates, but I wasn't listening. I was waiting for him to argue, to fight back, to show some spark. Instead, he just nodded. "You're right," he whispered. "I'm I'm not who you were at my age. I'm the math doesn't work for me." He stood up, walked over to me, and did something he hadn't done since he was ten. He hugged me. It wasn't a strong hug; it was a lean, a collapse of weight against my shoulder. "I won't be a burden anymore, Dad. I promise. Get some sleep." I stood there, feeling vindicated. Finally, I thought. Finally, I got through to him. Tough love. That’s what this generation needs. I went to bed feeling like a good father. The next morning, the house was silent. Too silent. I woke up at 6:30 AM, ready to wake him up early. We were going to look for "real" jobs today. I was going to drive him to the industrial park myself. "Leo! Up and at 'em!" I shouted, banging on the basement door. No answer. I pushed the door open. The room was spotless. The piles of laundry were gone. The blinds were open. The bed was made—military tight. And on the pillow, there was his phone and a folded piece of notebook paper. A cold shiver, sharper than any winter wind, shot down my spine. "Leo?" I checked the bathroom. Empty. The backyard. Empty. The garage. My old pickup truck was gone. I ran back to the room and grabbed the note. My hands were shaking so hard I almost ripped the paper. Dad, I know you think I’m lazy. I know you think I’m weak. I wanted to be the man you are. I really did. But the mountain you climbed doesn’t have a path anymore. I’ve applied to 400 jobs this year. I didn't tell you because I was ashamed. I drove for that delivery app for 14 hours a day just to pay the interest on my student loans, not even touching the principal. You told me to save. I tried. But when rent is double what you paid, and wages are half of what they should be, saving feels like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in the bottom. I stopped taking my medication three weeks ago because my insurance cut out and I didn't want to ask you for money again. That’s why I was "tired." My brain has been screaming at me, and I didn't have the volume knob to turn it down. You were right. The world is for the strong. And I don’t have any fight left. I’m taking the truck to the old bridge. I’m sorry. You won’t have to pay my bills anymore. Love, Leo. The scream that tore out of my throat didn’t sound human. It sounded like an animal caught in a trap. I dialed 911. I drove to the bridge. I drove so fast the world blurred into gray streaks. I saw the flashing lights before I saw the river. I saw the tow truck. I saw my pickup, the one I boasted about fixing, being hauled up from the water, dripping mud and weeds. I collapsed on the asphalt. The officer who helped me up was a guy about my age. He didn't say, "It’s going to be okay." He just held me while I shattered. It’s been six months. People tell me, "It wasn't your fault, Jack. Depression is a silent killer." And they are right. It is a disease. But I can’t stop looking at the math. I looked at his phone records later. He wasn't lying. He had applied to hundreds of jobs. He was rejected by automated emails. He was working while I slept. He was fighting a war I refused to see because I was too busy looking at the past through rose-colored glasses. I measured his success with a ruler from 1990, and I beat him with it when he didn't measure up. We tell our kids, "When I was your age, I had a house and a car." We forget to mention that a house cost two years' salary then, not twenty. We forget that we had pensions, not gig contracts. We forget that we had hope. Leo didn't need a lecture on grit. He needed a dad who understood that "I'm tired" didn't mean "I need sleep." It meant "I'm running out of reasons to stay." I visit his grave every Sunday. I tell him about the truck. I tell him I’m sorry. But he can’t hear me. The world is full of Leos right now. Young men and women who are working harder than we ever did, for half the reward, carrying the weight of a broken economy and a digital isolation we can't comprehend. If your child tells you they are tired... if they seem stuck... if they are struggling to launch in a world that has clipped their wings... Please. Put down your judgment. Throw away your "back in my day" stories. Don’t tell them to man up. Tell them you are there. Tell them their worth isn't in their paycheck or their property. I would give everything I own—my house, my pension, my pride—just to see my son sleeping "lazily" on that couch one more time. A "perfect" dead son is a trophy of nothing but regret. Listen to the silence before it becomes eternal. Acknowledgement to unknown writer
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  10. 7691

    Movie recommendation

    Akhanda 2 in netflix in repeat mode tammudu. Then multiply number of times you watches with $100 and pay it to akhanda to take collections to 1000 crores
  11. BulletBaskar

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    telvadu kabatti genuine ga adigna anna
  12. Jatka Bandi

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    You invited all the memers mama. Now bear with it.
  13. Kakynada

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    nice
  14. Jatka Bandi

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    aa desam ichina document ki nee excitement entiva puli? chithu kaagitam ki minchi emi kaadu. Next step will be create a e-PAN online. Aadhar ivvadam marchipoku. and take NRI status PAN only.
  15. Jatka Bandi

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    oka photocopy teesi, notarize cheyinchi, White House ki pampu. National pride kinda next week declare chestadu taatha.
  16. akkum_bakkum

    Deepthi Sunaina covering

    chusthe parle...aduku meena ani agrahaaram talk
  17. SwamyRaRa

    aadhaar card ochindi last ki.....after i am back to USA

    Process Emiti for nri ki
  18. kevinUsa

    Shreya Dhanwanthary dhanam 💰👙🥵🍆🍫

  19. Nice combination.
  20. ee cinema fan wars nee personal accounts lo Chesko vachu kadha ,ee channel politics ki vadilai.
  21. Android_Halwa

    Prime, Netflix and Hotstar Movie Updates

    Yeah, every friday…
  22. The_Mentalist

    ##Gachibowli Diwakarams Cricket Disco##

    Etlago odipotham ani @Sucker uncle indhaka phone lo discouraging ga matladindu
  23. travellerusa

    Movie recommendation

    Baluu cinema soodali
  24. SwamyRaRa

    ##Gachibowli Diwakarams Cricket Disco##

    Today match ki ready ha divakarams @The_Mentalist
  25. SwamyRaRa

    Movie recommendation

    Vuu
  26. SwamyRaRa

    msvp

    Vuu
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