#c24910 40M, This is a Post on Toxic Feminism and yes, Its True. Recently won a Divorce Battle with my Wife, and this ends my Trauma. I had deleted FB for pretty long, Recently logged in and saw a post on Texic Feminism and thought to wrote my Story. I am High Earning Individual, own Sports car, amazing home and I was a very loving Husband and Father as well. I had a Beautiful Family and undoubtedly a Beautiful Wife. No complain with life, every Yr, I'd treat my wife with foreign Tours, gifts, and yes we wer madly in love. Since past few yrs, I had frequent Visit to Europe to Manage My Business sales. My Wife asked me if she can get a Job as she gets bored at home all day, as my Son is mostly into some or other classes. I thought their is no need, But she was very eager, and thought not to turn down her request to enjoy Her part of freedom and Exploring opportunities. I had a Camera, placed in my Son's room to check over him and I can even talk to him thru it, bought 3 more and placed 2 in diff. room and another in Hall to keep a check on Maids as we had 1 robbery before, but I didnt tell my wife about it, as I thought its not really important. It was a Toy cam, but was damn good. After 2 visits to Europe and 1 yr had passed of her Joining the Job, I saw her behaviour changed. She would give less attention to me and son. At first I thought its her work pressure but she acted so sweetly that I never doubted, last yr, when I was in Europe again, i opened the Cam app and my world was Torn apart, she came home with a Guy, and they had s*x, the way they wer so friendly, it was quite easy to understand that it wasnt her first time with him. For a Month, I had so many questions, on her request, I lived away from parents, she had her freedom, Money, love, Beautiful Family, what not? Still she chose this path. I was angry, but I in control, controlled it all, and shared it all with my friend, my Childhood buddy, came to rescue, I planned an exit from marriage and Hired a Detective to track her daily activities, She used to visit Hotels almost every week and would stay in room with her alleged Lover, and on the other hand, i acted that all is same, it was painful to sleep next to her after seeing her acts. After some time, it was actually fun to see how innocent she tries to act. But I took some great decisions, I started showing losses in businesses, Transfered a lot of Immovable assets to my Friends name, then to My Mother's Name and a lil bit to an NGO, which was associated with my Family. Including home, car, I was all dependent on my friend, and turned employee in my own Co. And my friend later fired me from my own co. Before I filed for divorce. Stage was set, and I initiated a talk with her on her behaviour changes. At first she was reluctant. I called Her parents home that night for dinner, with few of her cousins, and friends, and I gave a good speech about my life till date, till I started playing an audio tape and her life was shattered, same way, the way she did to me when I saw her on Cam with another Guy, she begged me, to forgive and all the drama started, frankly, I had no feelings left, Thankfully, my Son was with my Parents. Fast fwd, she went away crying with her parents. All I was concerned about was her parents. Any ways, they wer fine and went away speechless and her parents and his Brother too kicked her out of home. 2 months after it, She filed a case on me, for dowry, Alimony, Torture and what not, she asked for 10L monthly allowance. Well, All this was what I had planned for in advance, She shouldn't even get a penny. She was alone, living in a rental home. Thankfully her parents didnt supported her in any way. Case was quick, I was already disowned from my Parents, had business losses and I had no property in my name. She knew that I outplayed her. She was sorry, by her face, but it was already too late. 15 mins of her happiness has ruined her life. Thanks to my friends and family for supporting me, case is closed and she is begging me everyday, to give her a Second chance, but gates are already closed. Now, I moreover feel like, its better to marry a girl, who is more homely, soft feminine and family is her Dream and Priority, Not some shifty job that leads nowhere. She is doing Job and I had to give her Alimony of 15000 monthly, to help her pay rent. Anyways, I have started the process to get all my worth back, nothing lost, but a question remains to Girls, Cheating is a choice, She had it all, What lead her to cheat? Whats this thrill? I am unable to understand, Still wanna know who will support her? And a Msg to boys, Be practical, even when in love, Work Hard and Yes, we have to support wife, but not blindly. Its a bit incomplete talk I guess, but too much is going on in my head. And I guess, that's it. Yes I am a bit disturbed, but New Love will find its way to my home back very soon, but surely want to know what mistakes to avoid in my New Marriage! Thanks!!!
