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2026 H1b is only active from Oct 1st, even if it's approved ee stamping ki velledu ?9 points
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Simple ga. They earn, they spend and donate some to charity. We earn for us, kids and next generations to come. They enjoy life better than us.7 points
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Why many working-class Americans (like farmers, plumbers, etc.) can seem happier or more content, even with less money: 1. Cultural Conditioning: "Pursuit of Happiness" In American culture, happiness is an internal goal, not just a result of achievements. People grow up being told it’s okay to be average, to take breaks, to enjoy small things. That creates lower performance pressure and more emotional resilience when things go wrong. 2. Pride in Work, Not Just Pay A plumber or truck driver in the U.S. is not socially looked down upon the way they might be in other cultures. They often take pride in their skills, independence, and hard-earned livelihood. This sense of self-respect matters a lot for emotional well-being, even if income is modest. 3. Less Comparison, Less Pressure Many working-class Americans live in tight-knit communities where everyone lives similarly. There's less constant comparison with someone who owns 5 houses or drives a Tesla. Social life is more grounded in people and relationships, not resumes or net worth. 4. Faith, Community, Simplicity Religion, local community groups, and family often provide a support system and meaning. Many are raised to accept life’s ups and downs with faith and humor. Simpler living often means fewer distractions, fewer expectations. 💻 Now contrast that with many Indian immigrants in IT in the U.S.: 1. High Achievement = High Pressure Many Indian immigrants in tech are highly educated, ambitious, and from families where success = status = worth. They carry pressure from family back home, immigration stress, and constant need to "grow" (career, house, kids, etc.). 2. Happiness is Postponed A lot of Indian professionals subconsciously adopt a mindset: “Let me just get the promotion, green card, house, then I’ll relax.” But that "then" keeps moving. This creates a cycle of chronic dissatisfaction, despite high material success. 3. Fear of Slipping Many immigrants feel: “I worked so hard to get here, I can’t afford to fall behind.” That breeds overwork, comparison, and less tolerance for failure — because they have more to lose, or feel they do. 4. Social Isolation Many Indians in the U.S. lack close friendships outside family and work. There may be fewer outlets for vulnerability, humor, or coping — unlike a small-town farmer who has coffee with friends every day. 5. Identity Conflict Many are caught between two cultures: – Not fully American – Not fully Indian anymore That can lead to a subtle identity void, where external success doesn't bring deep fulfillment. 🧠 A Key Insight: Happiness = Reality − Expectations Many Americans with modest lives have lower expectations, so disappointments don’t crush them. Many high-achieving immigrants have sky-high expectations, so even a small dip feels like failure. 🌱 So what can we learn? Money = comfort, not happiness. You can have peace of mind without millions, and you can have anxiety with a $200k salary. Let go of over-control. Learning from working-class American attitudes, we can embrace more flexibility, humor, humility, and faith. Rediscover community, relationships, and play. Deep conversations, hobbies, local involvement — these often make a bigger impact on happiness than a new car or title.5 points
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For Americans they only need house in America . For desis they need house (biggest) in USA + many houses in India + saving money for Amaravathi lands …. its all lot of pressure5 points
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Unlikely. Ai cannot be that dumb. So it wont replace politicians5 points
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Manavallu Singapore lo company petti dabbulu pattakellante,eeswaran needed no? Ee Heritage, Jyothi or AMRIKA lo IT mesthri ante manage cheyyochu, but Singapore kadha.4 points
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Step 1: Trump will propose 25% Step 2: Indian business tycoons under leadership of PM modi will beg for concession to mighty Trump Step3: He will finally settle for 15% and it will be projected as if he did a favor to 1.4 billion Indians. Step4: India is a great friend statement from Modi. Both Modi and Trump smiling pics Step5: Rahul Gandhi will still be an opposition leader and Modi will still be a PM. @jpismahatma and @Konebhar63 points
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Pisco uncle @psycopk and sai uncle got shocked at auditions given by @ARYA and @vetri_psyconandamuri3 points
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బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ లో మంత్రి ఉత్తమ్ పై మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి వెంకట్ రెడ్డి అగ్రహం బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచి అలిగి వెళ్ళిపోయిన మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి నాగార్జున సాగర్ డ్యాం గేట్లు ఎత్తడానికి బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచి హెలికాప్టర్ లో సాగర్ వెళ్లాల్సిన మంత్రులు ఉత్తమ్, కోమటిరెడ్డి, జిల్లా ఇంచార్జి మంత్రి అడ్లూరి లక్ష్మణ్ షెడ్యూల్ ప్రకారం ఉదయం 9 గంటల వరకే బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ కు చేరుకున్న మంత్రులు కోమటిరెడ్డి వెంకట్ రెడ్డి, అడ్లూరి లక్ష్మణ్ 10 గంటల వరకు రాని ఇరిగేషన్ మంత్రి ఉత్తమ్ తమను ఉదయం 9 గంటలకే ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ కు రావాలని చెప్పిన ఉత్తమ్ 10 గంటలకు ఎలా వస్తాడని కోమటిరెడ్డి ఆగ్రహం ఉత్తమ్ ఆలస్యంపై మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి తీవ్ర ఆగ్రహం, అలక బేగంపేట్ ఎయిర్పోర్ట్ నుంచే అలిగి వెళ్ళిపోయిన మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి మంత్రి కోమటిరెడ్డి లేకుండానే నాగార్జునసాగర్ కు హెలికాప్టర్ లో బయలుదేరిన మంత్రులు ఉత్తమ్, లక్ష్మణ్. 2.5 hours travel ki helicopter endi ra babu..3 points
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LOL I wish this all to be true… never imagined Chiranjeevi family could be so powerful3 points
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AI agents nammukuni code raste PK toka pattukuni godari eedinatte naa copilot silent gaa oka module ni lepsindhi, adni nenu lazy gaa vundi suusukokunda approve chesa (chee naa bathuku) until manual tester find it out raised it as critical bug3 points
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Pretty much all desis who are in US for past 10 yrs are millionaires as well.3 points
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Even vacations are done differently by desis and amrikis .. We have a check list. We need to see all the places (vista points, attractions nearby). We kinda make it stressful. We get up early and go around till evening to complete checklist. You look at an amriki in a beach. Enjoy a beer, let children play in sand and they go to sleep. Or have a conversation. We cook food and carry there (Its OK for hygiene but not for cost). They eat whatever they can find.2 points
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We derive happiness from earning. Their happiness correlates with having fun. Its cultural. We align more with Chinese people in this regard. People on western hemisphere including Mexicans know how to enjoy life. Even though their income levels are not that high.,2 points
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@ARYA anniya entha manchodu ante tanu chesevi anni ila flow lo cheppestu untadu avi telsi akkum bakkum tommy tho usko anta papam anniya anniya emo magalla veta, tommy emo rapa rapa veta ento ee prapancham2 points
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Aa ID naadi ayithe or if I have duplicate id in this DB, enni butulu tittukuntavo tittuko. Oka vela naadi kakapothe as usual nuvvoka leki nayaluvi ani anukunta.. Nuvvu RPG oo arya no leka halwa no.. or some other id .. who cares?. Original ID lo raleni daddamma vi. Stock scam ento cheppu ante answer ubdadu… let’s see how much guts you got. @psycopk @Hitman @argadorn @dalapathi @Tellugodu @Kootami @pichhipullayya @SaradaChinnodu @csrcsr @Spartan @krishnaaa @vkk I know you wake up everyday to get my attention tagging me in 100s of messages with nonsense. I ignore but today I am replying. Enjoy the attention you got today.2 points
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@vetri_psyconandamuri ninnu lowlife scum antunte chustu unnava anthele two ids neeve kada, nee burra ki ardam ayi undadu ela react avvalo vetri anniya AI ni adugu ilanti situation lo ela react avvalo2 points
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kamalhasan amitabh indias best actors enduku antaro telusa india lo janaalu ne acting chudaledu Jagan anniya ki oscar neeku bhaskar vachevaraku poratam cheyochu anniya deenike ga anniya AFDB star comedian ayyav mothaniki oka vishayam oppukunnav anniya needi entha lowlife scum life ani2 points
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I noticed her profile. She is just influencer. Potta podisthe she cannot do simple programming.2 points
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arey naa perulo eddy ledura chindi chor.. aa panulu mee tanda gajji gaallake sontham ra..2 points
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Rei @Jatka Bandi….endi ra ie panulu ? Sillara yedhava….chota mota commissions nundi ekanga pedda game ae adutunava ?2 points
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No publications, No phd, not even an actual data scientist. She is just an IT influencer on social media who made uscis believe that she is some kind og tech guru and deserves a eb1a. She is advertising her lawyer as eb1a profile builder! This has become a huge business now. People are deseprate and falling trap of such marketing traps.1 point
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Anna, not all folks cook, we try to eat whatever is available, kids ki kooda anthe, they will get used to it eventually you are right on chilling though, lot of parks lo you see non desis playing near creeks, some even reading books but I have a different perspective, you spend a lot to go there so why not try to see some of the beautiful places we can, of course agree that it should not be overwhelming and should be enjoyable, otherwise no point in stressing ourselves out, we start at 9-10 late after good breakfast and close shop by 6-7 and go to Dinner and relax, kind of keeps it ok and not too bad1 point
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If you had African ancestors, they were reptiles.1 point
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Ippudu Baboru AI nerpistharu Andhra rastra prajalaki1 point
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Already big companies are doing mass audits. There is an under current operation going on. They will slowly let non-critical H1Bs to be laid off. They would rather outsource a job slowly to India. It’s more profitable and less risky from multi fold stand point. At this moment, hiring and sustaining H1Bs is a bigger headache politically and financially. They will play it safe. They will lay off H1Bs and just outsource the job it to India or other 3rd world country. Witch H1Bs will get RFEs and short term approvals. They will be tortured until eternity1 point
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🤣🤣🤣Halwa bhayya di nee notlo undaa🤣🤣🤣mari teeyave pathivratha valli🤣🤣🤣1 point
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abbe andariki undadu anniya only @ARYA and his fake id chemchas ke untadi anniya endukante ekaki jeevitam remote job, 24hrs db, daniki thodu tommy tho vellipoyina akkum bukkum tommy rapa rapa lepi lepi ante mari edavaka emchestadu anniya1 point
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mestri jobs for telugus hindi vaste pan shop business in edison1 point
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arey koddigo chusuko asale @ARYA anniya masthu depression lo unte urike atla kavvinchaku tommy debbaki beer lu case lu leputunte anniya comedian va db ki jeevitam ankitam chesadu1 point
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tag kuda cheyakarledu 🤣 parledu ra kojja lk neeku bane clarity undi nuvvu evaro 🤭1 point
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avanni teliste ikkadenuku untam anna.. aina nelaki 10K ostai ante....Bay Area lo...90% members unnaru invest cheyadaniki...within one year1 point
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Nothing is guaranteed. It’s all subject to market risk. Don’t fall for such click and bait techniques. Read the disclaimers properly before you sign such deals.1 point
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Ooh my esupaadam, entha anyaayam jaruguthundi🤣🤣🤣vivarana adigithe rowdyism🤣🤣🤣manam maathram intiki parcel chesude🤣🤣🤣inthe chestham, em heekkuntaaro heekkondi🤣🤣🤣1 point
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