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Matrimonial post
Long post Alert !!!!
Searching for bride.
I am currently working in a private sector as a software professional, after completing master's degree in Cybersecurity in USA. I am very fluent in English, Hindi and Telugu. Telugu being my Mother tongue, I can only speak Telugu but neither read nor write in Telugu.
I consider Hindi as my mother tongue as I am more comfortable in Hindi (Read, Write and speak). I spent major part of my life in Northern part of India since birth and Hindi was being my second language throughout my CBSE schooling.
I also understand Punjabi and Bengali very well. I did my schooling from various states (Delhi, (Faridabad), Uttrakahand and Andhra Pradesh). Stayed quite a bit of time at Chandigarh too. I have friends from belonging to various states throughout India.I love long drives and keen on adventure trips and camps. I am very passionate about cooking. Always keep myself busy with either work or weekend trips and outings. Very well know in balancing work and personal life. I am always active in activities like HIIT workouts , gym, cooking etc.
I love to Dance. Actually looking forward to learn Salsa or Bachata dance. I enrolled for Violin and Piano classes.
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Age: 36
Height : 5’6
Caste: Kamma (as per Andhra Pradesh caste system). It’s a General Category.
Single, Never Married.
Don’t smoke or Drink
Non-veg diet but don’t eat fish.
My expectations from my future better half:
1. Should continue working even after marriage.
2. I don’t care about caste system but will prefer girl belonging to General Category. Spare me the lecture from holier than thou wannabes regarding why only General Categories why not others. That’s my god damn choice and I don’t even care to justify. Your preaching will be considered trash. Follow it for your own proposals or for your acquaintances.
3. I am open to any state, region , language but should belong to Hindu, Sikh, jain or lingayath religion. Rest all other religions are most welcome in my friend circles but not as my better half. Are you tempted to preach me regarding secularism?? Go and write an essay comment in some other forums, become a champ and earn some likes but your lecture about my choice of better half will be considered Trash.
4. Girls having WOKE Attitude, Male Bashing, Toxic Feminism are complete NO to me!!! Don’t you even dare to comment anything. Stay away. Go and earn some likes and comments from Simps who are willing to lick dirt off your shoe heels. But don’t you even dare comment on this thread.
5. Kids are mandatory but not urgent. Will leave upto the comfort timing of my future better half.
6. Preferred marital status: Never Married.
7. Absolutely no time pass or mind games. Ping me if you are serious in getting married. Let’s also involve parents/ elderly members from both of our families into discussions.
8. My family is well off financially so we don’t want any financial gifts from girl’s family.
9. Age preference: Just not elder than me.
10. Height preference: Just not taller than me.
11. Diet Preferences: NONE, also don’t force me to eat that I don’t like.
12. compatibility is most important to me. Looks and Appearance doesn’t matter as down the line after 10-15 years looks and beauty fades away, Compatibility is what bonds for life long marital life.
13. Health and fitness are most important. Again looks doesn’t matter but health and fitness matters. If you are fat then you are unhealthy and you will die young and early. Save me the drama from pro-big size campaigns, most of such known pro-body size champions are already dead very young.
Again I am not into body shaming, it’s just I want my partner to be healthy and fit following good diet.
14. Your past is irrelevant to me. I care towards our future together.
Don’t want to judge you for any mistakes committed while young and immature. Just be loyal and trustworthy from here onwards as a married couple.
15. Health checkups including STD and overall general checkups like PCOD are mandatory and absolutely no debate over it. I am also willing to go for any kind of health checkups. Let’s even go together for it.
16. Having huge financial debts before marriage is a big no for me. I won’t be your knight in shining armor clearing all your and your family’s financial debts .
17. Lastly, Trollers are most welcome to troll me for this long matrimonial post as long as you are bringing me good humor and helping me to find suitable matches. I will infact be thankful. This long post is just for filtering out before the initial conversation with potential match.
It’s just that refrain from commenting about my choices and me being not married till 36. I am ready to stay single life long but don’t want to compromise on above requirements.
Since I haven’t posted it as anonymous so please feel free to ping me on FB chat. Also attaching few pics.
Thanks to all .
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Avudda itaniki Pelli,

Life is simple brou, his requirements makes me think he will be in for a long ride.

Hopefully dorukuddi.

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36 varaku unnaduoka 3-5 years tella pilla kosam.seqeched emo dorkadu  so desi pori ki settle ayyadu..

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36 age with half batta ki inni requirements tho US lo ammayii dorakadam ante...Pillodidi sahasam ane cheppali

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Good luck mate, straight to the point no bullshit. 

 

There will few coming your way to preach, but looks like you can handle them just fine. 

 

PS: don’t limit yourself to girl living in America, Canadian girls have been more receptive compared to American, good number of kamma girls too. 

 

All the best

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It’s great to have clarity on what you like and don’t like, what your preferences are etc. 

 

But if everything you dislike has to be backed up with how you won’t even like to entertain a conversation on a FB forum, it might give the impression that you are a rigid and feisty person in real life, and that is often a turn off for people. 

 

So just something to think about in your interactions with future / potential matches.

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