Expecting baby soon. Give me blessings, tips and suggestions. Only serious replies vayyas.....

[sarfaroshi2]

1 hour ago, Galli_La_Lolli said:

Thanks in advance.....

Congrats bro

[AnandaVivek]

Congratulations!!! Enjoy the times..It won’t come back. Also vintha artificial perlu pettakunda oka normal name pettu

[jpismahatma]

Congratulations bro.

[trying_telidu]

7 hours ago, Assam_Bhayya said:

It all depends on the baby kada, some babies are calm, sober and cooperative usually first born , some don’t even give parents a chance to breathe, 2nd kid usually 

 

Ya avunu bro. Naaku 2nd ee. It depends on baby but boys usually koti gallu em cheyyalem

[veerigadu]

Congratulations bro

[manadonga]

Congrats and follow the flow 

[Rushabhi]

First things first get help. Tour daycares in advance if no help.

Second thing, get some time away from baby weekly. Gym time, meeting with friends or just plain going out for some time. Same give that chance to wife. 

Third thing and most important  however frustrating it maybe do not shake the baby for first 1 and half to 2 years. Leave them in a safe space and let them cry for 5 10 minutes until you take deep breaths and regain your composure. Also first 1 year no salt sugar and limit screen time first 2 years 

Everything else will fall in place 
 

[lollilolli2020]

9 hours ago, DallasBaluKarry said:

What is pathem kuralu

post pregnancy some diet tinali antaru mana odlies; 
but doctors ikkada em cheppale alantidi. 

[riashli]

Good luck 

[Vaaaampire]

Congratulations. Take care of ur spouse. Women go through lot of emotions during pregnancy, so be patient.

tips antu emi levu. Follow the flow.

[EyBisa]

congo bro

[vetrivel]

Congrats brother

 

No matter how much you were awake and survived on less sleep, its a total different ball game now

 

Dont expect to sleep more than 3 hours straight at least until baby is 2-3 months

 

The small things they do more than makes up for all the things you go through

 

Please support your spouse and be by their side all times

 

Let them recover and take as much rest as they want

 

Always consult pediatrician if you feel anything is off 

[Codemonkey]

congrats.

[praying]

tinalsinavanni tinesey..

choodalsina vanni choosesey...

tiragalsinavanni tirigesey .....baby vachaka your world changes....

HELP TECHUKO... HER SIDE OF PARENTS BETTER( option lekapothe mi vallu)

Dont get stuck on small things( e brand stroller konali, benz model car seat konali, etc etc) 

first few weeks will be torture to you to your wife and the kid to adjust to this world... so make household things easier...keep it simple... rice pettama curries techukunnamaa.... anthe undali... KEEP IT SIMPLE

make yourself available to the family... ( I don't know you in person so some things might apply to you and some dont)

your wife might need help in small things also... be avialable ( I learned it the hard way)

things doesnt go as planned with baby... take it easy

dont be a perfect parent...be a responsible one

keep expectations low from people helping you

dont do everything timely and orderly for the baby also... ( bathing, feeding, etc)

 

Wife working aithe.. you will have to plan for help on a rotation basis, lekapothe hire a nanny until the baby is 1 yr old.

 

 

[maverick19]

Congrats man first of all. 

you will learn things as they progress. 

But try to help your wife physically mentally emotionally. kid anyway you will take care. 

get help from family this is very important. helping wife and you getting help from family is a must.