Expecting baby soon. Give me blessings, tips and suggestions. Only serious replies vayyas.....

[Jatka Bandi]

3 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

First things first get help. Tour daycares in advance if no help.

Second thing, get some time away from baby weekly. Gym time, meeting with friends or just plain going out for some time. Same give that chance to wife. 

Third thing and most important  however frustrating it maybe do not shake the baby for first 1 and half to 2 years. Leave them in a safe space and let them cry for 5 10 minutes until you take deep breaths and regain your composure. Also first 1 year no salt sugar and limit screen time first 2 years 

Everything else will fall in place 
 

Don't shake baby ante?

 

[Rushabhi]

2 hours ago, Jatka Bandi said:

Don't shake baby ante?

 

Baby baaga edisthe frustration vachi gattiga edupu aapu ani shake chesthe vaalla brain damage ayye chances untayi. Shaken baby syndrome antaru

[Rushabhi]

5 hours ago, praying said:

tinalsinavanni tinesey..

choodalsina vanni choosesey...

tiragalsinavanni tirigesey .....baby vachaka your world changes....

HELP TECHUKO... HER SIDE OF PARENTS BETTER( option lekapothe mi vallu)

Dont get stuck on small things( e brand stroller konali, benz model car seat konali, etc etc) 

first few weeks will be torture to you to your wife and the kid to adjust to this world... so make household things easier...keep it simple... rice pettama curries techukunnamaa.... anthe undali... KEEP IT SIMPLE

make yourself available to the family... ( I don't know you in person so some things might apply to you and some dont)

your wife might need help in small things also... be avialable ( I learned it the hard way)

things doesnt go as planned with baby... take it easy

dont be a perfect parent...be a responsible one

keep expectations low from people helping you

dont do everything timely and orderly for the baby also... ( bathing, feeding, etc)

 

Wife working aithe.. you will have to plan for help on a rotation basis, lekapothe hire a nanny until the baby is 1 yr old.

 

 

dont do everything timely and orderly for the baby also... ( bathing, feeding, etc)  
 

Babies thrive on routine. 

[praying]

18 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

dont do everything timely and orderly for the baby also... ( bathing, feeding, etc)  
 

Babies thrive on routine. 

not true for a new born and I belive its over rated... just having the anxiety to follow the schedule puts lots of pressure on the parents.....talking with exp ( 3 kids)

[Galli_La_Lolli]

Thanks vayyas. Emaataku aa maata, DB riocks anthey. Enni samasyalu unna, DB undhi gaa naa chentha , naaku ennduku chintha...   

[lollilolli2020]

8 minutes ago, Galli_La_Lolli said:

Thanks vayyas. Emaataku aa maata, DB riocks anthey. Enni samasyalu unna, DB undhi gaa naa chentha , naaku ennduku chintha...   

baby center lo register avvu; 

also read or research about preparation for delivery; 
delivery ki package ready ga pettuko like hospital packing list and bags due date ki 2-3 weeks munde. 

[Rushabhi]

1 hour ago, praying said:

not true for a new born and I belive its over rated... just having the anxiety to follow the schedule puts lots of pressure on the parents.....talking with exp ( 3 kids)

Newborn ki try cheyyatame but no flow. I agree. Routine starts around 5-6 months. Side note 3 kids aa meeru great

[Rushabhi]

Specific to newborn ayithe, make sure they get some sunlight for some minutes. Ante mandutenda lo teesukellamani kaadhu. O 5 minutes Ala bayataki vellamani backyard ki. Morning ki night ki difference telavataniki. And newborns will have lots of gas. Massage bicycle kicks and little remedies help. And some kids cry for no reason usually evening and early nights. Do not worry just try to carry them. 8-10 weeks ki adhe set ayyidhi. Witching hour antaru. Let newborns nap with background sounds. Ante day lo living room lo and night bedroom lo paduko pettandi. The best suggestion someone gave me

[Jatka Bandi]

5 hours ago, Rushabhi said:

Baby baaga edisthe frustration vachi gattiga edupu aapu ani shake chesthe vaalla brain damage ayye chances untayi. Shaken baby syndrome antaru

frustration lo na, ok. But we rock baby to pacify them to stop kada. That also qualifies?

[Rushabhi]

2 hours ago, Jatka Bandi said:

frustration lo na, ok. But we rock baby to pacify them to stop kada. That also qualifies?

Gentle rocking is fine. Shake well before use la I mean Ala cheyyodhu