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[Shameless]

Lifted from Indian Expats on FB

 

We are group of family friends meet frequently, in which two ladies have confessed to me that one had affair in previuos office in in India and other one is continuing to have affair here(she says hugging and kissing is not wrong and she doesn’t love any of them, over the period of time she has done this with mitipleof them in her offices, she texts them and showed me the text also. She used to talk them in telegram and Skype. I was shocked to hear this first and told my friends lives in other state, I didn’t tell anyone here for the sake of their family and kids. now and then I used to ask how is it all going just to make fun, she always says it a going great and what all she did those guys in parking and where she meets them, how she gives the cue to them, I don’t know what cue is that. It never bothered me coz it’s not my life and I’m not emotionally connected with her. I learned my lesson on friendship and how to keep even aqcuitances

Three months ago, my husband(Just for name) met her on the way from office, he usually meets his friends very social. I don’t know exactly what happened there, in the evening after we went for biking and getting ready to sleep I got a call from That ladys’s husband yelling that they are texting each other that is above friendly. I was shocked and not sure what to do immediate instinct was to protect the family I built all these years, I apologized to him multiple times and begged him not to do anything to spoil the family respect we are on visa here, the threatening and me begging went on for week, he spoke like like that lady is 15yrs old and she doesn’t know all this and how to handle these situations, infact she is 5yrs elder to my husband,I didn’t tell anything about her to her husband fearing it will createmore problem.

My instinct at the time is to put the fire off, her husband made that lady tell to me, but she messaged with a attitude I have already apologized to tyou twice however this is the last time, nothing hit me that time coz I was in shock and crying badly, she treated me badly saying I want leave this matter, don’t talk to me about it and said her husband will not do any harm to my family, I couldn’t talk back coz this all first time I’m going thru a lot and this is threatening and situation. Her husband was supporting her knowing still she also part of it and equally messaged.

A week later,Slowly my anger came out and punished my husband sent him out of the house for few weeks told his family and couple for friends family we trust about what happened, lot of mental trauma in our house,everyday he was crying and he didn’t know what to do and was begging me, Everyday telling me he didn’t know why he did that, he was never a person like that, he was very outgoing person and good person always thinks for others and guides all his friends and and good father. I’m not supporting him, just laying the facts. After all I have seen him all more than 16yrs.

My family and friends asking me forgive this and move on coz they say he is not that kind of person and he did big mistake and give him a chance to live with family. But I’m still I’m unable to acct coz I trusted him so much in this matter. For the past few years or so I went extra mile try to do lot of activities as family and my husband was also cooperating . Always thinking about family I never did any mistake. I was just thinking life is getting better. Even When the ladies confessed interesting and talking excitedly about their affairs to me , I said I don’t have anything that sort of in my life is just around family and nothing interesting.

Now, I’m still not out of this unable to forgive my husband and I want revenge on her, I want tell all her secrets with the names of the person she was with,she spoiled multiple families. Collateral damage will be my husband, I don’t even care about that, I’m in H4,my child is in high school,

- now should I leave all this behind and continue to live my life for the sake of my child’s studies and future.

- what about me, I’m a victim here. Just not doing anything to the people who did wrong to me and gave me this trauma.

-mean while other family lives happily , common friends told me about their status in WhatsApp and instagram, how?

What do I do? What is the right thing to do? I don’t know? If think wholestically no one is bothered by this other than me and me bothering my family without moving on, my child knows dad did a big mistake but out of affection is is begging me not to take any action by going on my own and split the family and not readyand says dad is never that person.

should I break all happiness we built as a family? I still can’t see my husband face and talk, anger in me and the way i was treated by her after this incident keeps coming in my mind, will it get better with the time? I did go for counseling, It just helps for a day and same thing come to me again, what do guys do? How to live life without all this revenge? or should take the step of moving out of the house and tell all my common friends and humiliate her?

[Pahelwan4]

3 hours ago, Shameless said:

Lifted from Indian Expats on FB

 

We are group of family friends meet frequently, in which two ladies have confessed to me that one had affair in previuos office in in India and other one is continuing to have affair here(she says hugging and kissing is not wrong and she doesn’t love any of them, over the period of time she has done this with mitipleof them in her offices, she texts them and showed me the text also. She used to talk them in telegram and Skype. I was shocked to hear this first and told my friends lives in other state, I didn’t tell anyone here for the sake of their family and kids. now and then I used to ask how is it all going just to make fun, she always says it a going great and what all she did those guys in parking and where she meets them, how she gives the cue to them, I don’t know what cue is that. It never bothered me coz it’s not my life and I’m not emotionally connected with her. I learned my lesson on friendship and how to keep even aqcuitances

Three months ago, my husband(Just for name) met her on the way from office, he usually meets his friends very social. I don’t know exactly what happened there, in the evening after we went for biking and getting ready to sleep I got a call from That ladys’s husband yelling that they are texting each other that is above friendly. I was shocked and not sure what to do immediate instinct was to protect the family I built all these years, I apologized to him multiple times and begged him not to do anything to spoil the family respect we are on visa here, the threatening and me begging went on for week, he spoke like like that lady is 15yrs old and she doesn’t know all this and how to handle these situations, infact she is 5yrs elder to my husband,I didn’t tell anything about her to her husband fearing it will createmore problem.

My instinct at the time is to put the fire off, her husband made that lady tell to me, but she messaged with a attitude I have already apologized to tyou twice however this is the last time, nothing hit me that time coz I was in shock and crying badly, she treated me badly saying I want leave this matter, don’t talk to me about it and said her husband will not do any harm to my family, I couldn’t talk back coz this all first time I’m going thru a lot and this is threatening and situation. Her husband was supporting her knowing still she also part of it and equally messaged.

A week later,Slowly my anger came out and punished my husband sent him out of the house for few weeks told his family and couple for friends family we trust about what happened, lot of mental trauma in our house,everyday he was crying and he didn’t know what to do and was begging me, Everyday telling me he didn’t know why he did that, he was never a person like that, he was very outgoing person and good person always thinks for others and guides all his friends and and good father. I’m not supporting him, just laying the facts. After all I have seen him all more than 16yrs.

My family and friends asking me forgive this and move on coz they say he is not that kind of person and he did big mistake and give him a chance to live with family. But I’m still I’m unable to acct coz I trusted him so much in this matter. For the past few years or so I went extra mile try to do lot of activities as family and my husband was also cooperating . Always thinking about family I never did any mistake. I was just thinking life is getting better. Even When the ladies confessed interesting and talking excitedly about their affairs to me , I said I don’t have anything that sort of in my life is just around family and nothing interesting.

Now, I’m still not out of this unable to forgive my husband and I want revenge on her, I want tell all her secrets with the names of the person she was with,she spoiled multiple families. Collateral damage will be my husband, I don’t even care about that, I’m in H4,my child is in high school,

- now should I leave all this behind and continue to live my life for the sake of my child’s studies and future.

- what about me, I’m a victim here. Just not doing anything to the people who did wrong to me and gave me this trauma.

-mean while other family lives happily , common friends told me about their status in WhatsApp and instagram, how?

What do I do? What is the right thing to do? I don’t know? If think wholestically no one is bothered by this other than me and me bothering my family without moving on, my child knows dad did a big mistake but out of affection is is begging me not to take any action by going on my own and split the family and not readyand says dad is never that person.

should I break all happiness we built as a family? I still can’t see my husband face and talk, anger in me and the way i was treated by her after this incident keeps coming in my mind, will it get better with the time? I did go for counseling, It just helps for a day and same thing come to me again, what do guys do? How to live life without all this revenge? or should take the step of moving out of the house and tell all my common friends and humiliate her?

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