I see soo many weird stories on the group and otherwise .

[kevinUsa]

I’ve caught my husband cheating on me… the first time we took marriage counseling the second time I involved the families on both sides the third time he did it again. 3 -4 days after he promised his parents and mine that he wouldn’t do it again ever.

Do they ever change is it even worth giving this a shot?

I see soo many weird stories on the group and otherwise . What if I end this and move on the next man won’t be a cheat? It’s the theory of the known devil. Atleast I’ve known this guy for a while.

Just for ref I am on my own independent visa and working making enough to survive. We do own a house together though, no children.

Edit: A lot of people asked me what kind of cheating the first second and third time I caught him paying for weird pics photos and conversation with cam girls from the internet the 4th time I caught him walking into a hotel room with a prostitute inside. Then I called him and asked him to come to the coffee shop if the same hotel he made an excuse I asked him if he had been there in the day he said yes he had been there because he pulled up his car for a meeting he had. Then 2-3 days later accepted that he had been to a room with a prostitute but he claims he didn’t even touch her coz he froze.

After this happening I saw a cash app transaction from him to a cam girl account again then he said he doesn’t use cash app and has no idea where his credit card which the transaction was made on was.

I told his parents everything : their take is more or less : Why is he doing things like this ? We need to find the reason.his mom told me he is very sensitive and needs a lovable wife … she also said we all need to take care of him because he is going through soo much and needs our support. His dad is like take control of all his bank accounts and stuff close all his credit cards and stuff and his parents are like we are keeping a vigil on him by talking to him 3 times a day.

My parents : told my parents they keep saying time will heal everything all will be well.

I feel after listening to these people that I’m making a big deal out of nothing and my feelings are invalid. I just feel sad cranky and weird these days don’t feel like meeting anyone or doing anything.

In front of our friends we are acting like everything is normal because our parents like like don’t tell anyone because people will take advantage of your vulnerable marriage and you’ll will become chai pe charcha.

But I am getting exhausted of the way am feeling I have no one who I can really talk to who I feel like will understand how I feel

Edit2: can someone suggest next steps / resources ppl to contact for separation .

[Konebhar6]

Pelli chesko @kevinUsa ... Its time ....