Relationships that are beautfiul when you are child will spoil once we grew up, why ?

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

When you are a kid:

1. If you are rich and your relatives are poor, they will value you highly and hope that when their children grow up, you will offer support. However, as you grow up, if the disparity between your lifestyle and theirs becomes apparent—such as buying chocolates versus paying college fees—they might feel hurt and may not show you as much affection.

2. If you are poor and your relatives are rich, your father may help them with issues like land disputes, hoping that your wealthy relatives will support you in return. However, once you reach the USA, you might find that your rich cousins are less willing to help or even avoid you when you are in trouble, leading you to feel less affectionate towards them.

3. If both families are rich, childhood might be pleasant. However, if you are particularly smart and outperform their children, they might view you as a competitor rather than a family member, which can lead to reduced interaction and less frequent visits.

4. If both families are poor and you respect your wealthy cousins without expecting anything in return, you are likely to be in a good position. Genuine respect and lack of expectation can foster positive relationships.

5. If both families are poor, then the situation described in point 4 applies.

[ManchamKodi]

2 minutes ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

When you are a kid:

1. If you are rich and your relatives are poor, they will value you highly and hope that when their children grow up, you will offer support. However, as you grow up, if the disparity between your lifestyle and theirs becomes apparent—such as buying chocolates versus paying college fees—they might feel hurt and may not show you as much affection.

2. If you are poor and your relatives are rich, your father may help them with issues like land disputes, hoping that your wealthy relatives will support you in return. However, once you reach the USA, you might find that your rich cousins are less willing to help or even avoid you when you are in trouble, leading you to feel less affectionate towards them.

3. If both families are rich, childhood might be pleasant. However, if you are particularly smart and outperform their children, they might view you as a competitor rather than a family member, which can lead to reduced interaction and less frequent visits.

4. If both families are poor and you respect your wealthy cousins without expecting anything in return, you are likely to be in a good position. Genuine respect and lack of expectation can foster positive relationships.

5. If both families are poor, then the situation described in point 4 applies.

remove point 5 and no use 

[CanadianMalodu]

1 minute ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

When you are a kid:

1. If you are rich and your relatives are poor, they will value you highly and hope that when their children grow up, you will offer support. However, as you grow up, if the disparity between your lifestyle and theirs becomes apparent—such as buying chocolates versus paying college fees—they might feel hurt and may not show you as much affection.

2. If you are poor and your relatives are rich, your father may help them with issues like land disputes, hoping that your wealthy relatives will support you in return. However, once you reach the USA, you might find that your rich cousins are less willing to help or even avoid you when you are in trouble, leading you to feel less affectionate towards them.

3. If both families are rich, childhood might be pleasant. However, if you are particularly smart and outperform their children, they might view you as a competitor rather than a family member, which can lead to reduced interaction and less frequent visits.

4. If both families are poor and you respect your wealthy cousins without expecting anything in return, you are likely to be in a good position. Genuine respect and lack of expectation can foster positive relationships.

5. If both families are poor, then the situation described in point 4 applies.

Adhi okkate, people particularly in your own relatives wish you secretly fail if you are an achiever, or will be jealous if you're good looking. Politics and Caste, sometime religion will permeate relationships between school buddies. Two guys chasing the same girl will turn against one another. If you love your country, are relatively moral as child, you will lose those by the time you are in your 20s, these days it's in late teens. It's all like a Matrix movie where you will be contained.

[Thokkalee]

INNOCENCE!!

You lose your innocence as you grow up.
Other traits like jealousy, selfishness, ego, self righteousness etc will keep you at a distance from other people.. 

[praying]

Chinnapudu pakkinti aunty ni elli sarlu muddu pettukunna emi anetollu kadu, ade ippudu chestanante asal oppukovatledu

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

47 minutes ago, Thokkalee said:

INNOCENCE!!

You lose your innocence as you grow up.
Other traits like jealousy, selfishness, ego, self righteousness etc will keep you at a distance from other people.. 

Perfect bro!! 

[sarfaroshi2]

10 minutes ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

Perfect bro!! 

Em indi Bro...ee madyana bottiga nee friends ki problems ravatledu...Anni direct questions vestunavu ?

[ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU]

11 minutes ago, sarfaroshi2 said:

Em indi Bro...ee madyana bottiga nee friends ki problems ravatledu...Anni direct questions vestunavu ?

  manam vundaga friends ki problems a 

[akkum_bakkum]

55 minutes ago, praying said:

Chinnapudu pakkinti aunty ni elli sarlu muddu pettukunna emi anetollu kadu, ade ippudu chestanante asal oppukovatledu

House teesi valla koothurtho amma nanna aatadinava...

[Mr Mirchi]

2 hours ago, praying said:

Chinnapudu pakkinti aunty ni elli sarlu muddu pettukunna emi anetollu kadu, ade ippudu chestanante asal oppukovatledu

same aunty ippudu old ayi vundaali kadhaa..avida oppukoledh aippudu kuda

[praying]

2 hours ago, akkum_bakkum said:

House teesi valla koothurtho amma nanna aatadinava...

Ledu aunty e adigi kisses pettinchukunedi, i was a kid back then

[nfc]

5 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

When you are a kid:

1. If you are rich and your relatives are poor, they will value you highly and hope that when their children grow up, you will offer support. However, as you grow up, if the disparity between your lifestyle and theirs becomes apparent—such as buying chocolates versus paying college fees—they might feel hurt and may not show you as much affection.

2. If you are poor and your relatives are rich, your father may help them with issues like land disputes, hoping that your wealthy relatives will support you in return. However, once you reach the USA, you might find that your rich cousins are less willing to help or even avoid you when you are in trouble, leading you to feel less affectionate towards them.

3. If both families are rich, childhood might be pleasant. However, if you are particularly smart and outperform their children, they might view you as a competitor rather than a family member, which can lead to reduced interaction and less frequent visits.

4. If both families are poor and you respect your wealthy cousins without expecting anything in return, you are likely to be in a good position. Genuine respect and lack of expectation can foster positive relationships.

5. If both families are poor, then the situation described in point 4 applies.

నీ అమ్మ పూకులో గుడుంబా పూసి, లంజే సల్లు పేసికి, లాంజెముందా గుడ్హలో నా సుల్లి తో దేంగితే దీంతల్లి మజ్జా నీ వేరు రా నా కొడకా లంజాకొడకా

[Konebhar6]

5 hours ago, ANNA_PLEASE_PETTU said:

When you are a kid:

1. If you are rich and your relatives are poor, they will value you highly and hope that when their children grow up, you will offer support. However, as you grow up, if the disparity between your lifestyle and theirs becomes apparent—such as buying chocolates versus paying college fees—they might feel hurt and may not show you as much affection.

2. If you are poor and your relatives are rich, your father may help them with issues like land disputes, hoping that your wealthy relatives will support you in return. However, once you reach the USA, you might find that your rich cousins are less willing to help or even avoid you when you are in trouble, leading you to feel less affectionate towards them.

3. If both families are rich, childhood might be pleasant. However, if you are particularly smart and outperform their children, they might view you as a competitor rather than a family member, which can lead to reduced interaction and less frequent visits.

4. If both families are poor and you respect your wealthy cousins without expecting anything in return, you are likely to be in a good position. Genuine respect and lack of expectation can foster positive relationships.

5. If both families are poor, then the situation described in point 4 applies.

Past does not matter. What really matters is today and the status you have, relationships you maintain, being a nice human, what you studied, what job you do, etc.