**** Why So Many Young Adults Are Still Living With Their Parents In The U.S ****

[JANASENA]

 

[lollilolli2020]

1 hour ago, JANASENA said:

 

old video; 

I think its okay uncle, people thought process is changing. if my kids want to live with me when they become adults why not I don't have a problem. 

[JANASENA]

1 minute ago, lollilolli2020 said:

old video; 

I think its okay uncle, people thought process is changing. if my kids want to live with me when they become adults why not I don't have a problem. 

nuvvu ala ardham chesukunnava 

nenu antunnadi ade Indians live withtheir parents this is nothing new in our culture

tellollaki culture shock la undi 

[lollilolli2020]

5 minutes ago, JANASENA said:

nuvvu ala ardham chesukunnava 

nenu antunnadi ade Indians live withtheir parents this is nothing new in our culture

tellollaki culture shock la undi 

aa video chusina; bokada gallu bad for economy adi idi ani project chestunnar.

[Rescuer7]

2 hours ago, JANASENA said:

 

Traumatic bonding…stressful births

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[Moon_Walker]

2 hours ago, JANASENA said:

 

Ee thellollu bokka gallu they make fun when Indians stay with their parents. it is not that they have a better concept but it just promotes more materialistic society to buy and spend in every sector.

Now when the tables turned these f$$kers will support this trend and say there is nothing wrong in it. Adukkune thine paristhithi vosthe bhoomi meedaki digi vosthaaru 

[PERSIS]

This due to Fake H1 mafia from TCS Infosys , Day 1 cpt batch this batch have wiped-out the middleclass in usa one for all 

[Konebhar6]

14 hours ago, JANASENA said:

nuvvu ala ardham chesukunnava 

nenu antunnadi ade Indians live withtheir parents this is nothing new in our culture

tellollaki culture shock la undi 

Tellollu dont compromise. They (Children) cant stand parents and their views.

Indians do compromise esp when money and Children involved. They can live under the same roof even though they tend to have differences

[manadonga]

4 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Tellollu dont compromise. They (Children) cant stand parents and their views.

Indians do compromise esp when money and Children involved. They can live under the same roof even though they tend to have differences

Jnka bc kalam lo vunnavu 

its trend after 2008 crisis 

 

[Konebhar6]

3 hours ago, manadonga said:

Jnka bc kalam lo vunnavu 

its trend after 2008 crisis 

 

I am aware even American families are adopting this. social stigma reduced. But most families still prefer to stay away.

[lollilolli2020]

16 minutes ago, Konebhar6 said:

I am aware even American families are adopting this. social stigma reduced. But most families still prefer to stay away.

even old generational desis also like that uncle. 

telisina uncle valla sister (they migrated in 70s) lives by herself despite her sons are in the same town, she says I don't want to become a free nanny types. 

also my massage therapist, back to back 2 yrs gap lo she had 2 children and total 3 but she gets help from her mom and in-laws to take care of kids. 
I don't understand the shift here, where ppl here go beyond 2 kids and get all the support they can while raising a large family, here we are struggling to raise 2 kids(with regards to expenses); what are they doing differently than us is what baffles me. 

and coming to staying with parents and all, its sometimes kids choice and sometimes market forces to stay with their parents until they are sorted. 

[krishnaaa]

9 hours ago, Konebhar6 said:

Tellollu dont compromise. They (Children) cant stand parents and their views.

Indians do compromise esp when money and Children involved. They can live under the same roof even though they tend to have differences

The dense living conditions in India and more people adjusting in small houses leads to kids getting adjusted well with their parents and spouses.

This is the reason as to why I refuse to buy a big house.

Big house leads to higher divorce rates for your kids in future.

Home needs to be comfortable....not cramped as well. 3000-4000Sqft would lead to kids staying in one corner to avoid conflict and this becomes a behaviour problem.

[lollilolli2020]

1 minute ago, krishnaaa said:

The dense living conditions in India and more people adjusting in small houses leads to kids getting adjusted well with their parents and spouses.

This is the reason as to why I refuse to buy a big house.

Big house leads to higher divorce rates for your kids in future.

Home needs to be comfortable....not cramped as well. 3000-4000Sqft would lead to kids staying in one corner to avoid conflict and this becomes a behaviour problem.

for me cleaning and maintenance is an extra effort. affordability pakkana pedithe, everything adds up which we don't factor in when buying a big house. 

[Konebhar6]

3 hours ago, krishnaaa said:

The dense living conditions in India and more people adjusting in small houses leads to kids getting adjusted well with their parents and spouses.

This is the reason as to why I refuse to buy a big house.

Big house leads to higher divorce rates for your kids in future.

Home needs to be comfortable....not cramped as well. 3000-4000Sqft would lead to kids staying in one corner to avoid conflict and this becomes a behaviour problem.

2000-2500 is perfect for me .. But need a big yard ... 

[Konebhar6]

4 hours ago, lollilolli2020 said:

even old generational desis also like that uncle. 

telisina uncle valla sister (they migrated in 70s) lives by herself despite her sons are in the same town, she says I don't want to become a free nanny types. 

also my massage therapist, back to back 2 yrs gap lo she had 2 children and total 3 but she gets help from her mom and in-laws to take care of kids. 
I don't understand the shift here, where ppl here go beyond 2 kids and get all the support they can while raising a large family, here we are struggling to raise 2 kids(with regards to expenses); what are they doing differently than us is what baffles me. 

and coming to staying with parents and all, its sometimes kids choice and sometimes market forces to stay with their parents until they are sorted. 

They don't indulge too much in kids' lives.