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Can a woman remarry at 38 and still have healthy children?”

A heartbreaking story of resilience and survival:

This woman, born in 1987, got married in 2019, believing her husband (who claimed to be born in 1984) was her soulmate. After the wedding, she traveled to the U.S., only to be shocked when she discovered that her husband had lied about his age—he was actually born in 1978. To make matters worse, she found out he had a serious gambling addiction, something he had hidden from her before marriage.

But the surprises didn’t end there. She was devastated to learn that her husband had hepatitis B and was also diabetic—both of which he had kept secret from her. These shocking revelations only deepened her sense of betrayal.

Her husband refused to sponsor her flight or help with her immigration status. Left with no choice, she continued living on an F1 visa, working hard to pay for her health insurance and college fees, refusing to rely on her family back in India.

Soon, she realized her husband had erectile dysfunction (ED), but instead of supporting her, he blamed her for the marriage not being consummated. Despite all of this, she held onto hope that medical help could fix their issues.

After 1.5 years, the couple traveled to India, but when returning to the U.S., her husband tried to leave her behind without her knowledge. Being smart and independent, she traveled with her own visa. They stayed together for a month, but her husband abandoned her and moved away.

Determined to rebuild her life, she earned her degree, secured an H1B visa, and began earning as much as her husband. She stayed loyal for two years, thinking he might return. On her birthday, he did come back, but during his time away, he’d repeatedly messaged her, asking for her address to send divorce papers. Still, she welcomed him back and moved in with him, only to face more issues.

Her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, who also moved to the U.S., caused constant tension in the home. Their stinginess, unhygienic behavior, and unethical actions, like eavesdropping on her bedroom and sarcastically reminding her about not having children, only made her situation worse. Frustrated, she asked her husband to move out and live separately, also requesting that he petition for her green card, as her visa status was a constant source of stress. But he refused both requests and suggested she live alone near her workplace, promising to visit her once every two months.

After enduring these painful experiences, she has finally decided to file for divorce—but she’s still filled with fear and uncertainty about her future.

Her questions now:

• Can she find someone good again?

• Can she still have healthy children at 38?

• Can she be happy living alone if it means not marrying the wrong person again?

• What will happen when she grows older? Who will take care of her?

• What’s the point of living and working when the future seems so uncertain?

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Sad Reality, Many girls marry the NRI UNKOOLS and do filter face reels on insta.

But the real life was completely different.

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Some thing is not fitting equation. When you go for h4 stamping you have to give your passport copy to your wife. If she felt cheated no need to come to USA to prove something. She could stay with parents and lead nice life rather than struggling here. We need other side of story. No sympathy bokadia post.

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If she marries again 

.it will be same random uncle with same issues... 

One lesson learnt here is that ..women should marry early so that we can live lifes on our own if things go south and we hav to start allover again

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1 hour ago, kevinUsa said:

Can a woman remarry at 38 and still have healthy children?”

A heartbreaking story of resilience and survival:

This woman, born in 1987, got married in 2019, believing her husband (who claimed to be born in 1984) was her soulmate. After the wedding, she traveled to the U.S., only to be shocked when she discovered that her husband had lied about his age—he was actually born in 1978. To make matters worse, she found out he had a serious gambling addiction, something he had hidden from her before marriage.

But the surprises didn’t end there. She was devastated to learn that her husband had hepatitis B and was also diabetic—both of which he had kept secret from her. These shocking revelations only deepened her sense of betrayal.

Her husband refused to sponsor her flight or help with her immigration status. Left with no choice, she continued living on an F1 visa, working hard to pay for her health insurance and college fees, refusing to rely on her family back in India.

Soon, she realized her husband had erectile dysfunction (ED), but instead of supporting her, he blamed her for the marriage not being consummated. Despite all of this, she held onto hope that medical help could fix their issues.

After 1.5 years, the couple traveled to India, but when returning to the U.S., her husband tried to leave her behind without her knowledge. Being smart and independent, she traveled with her own visa. They stayed together for a month, but her husband abandoned her and moved away.

Determined to rebuild her life, she earned her degree, secured an H1B visa, and began earning as much as her husband. She stayed loyal for two years, thinking he might return. On her birthday, he did come back, but during his time away, he’d repeatedly messaged her, asking for her address to send divorce papers. Still, she welcomed him back and moved in with him, only to face more issues.

Her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, who also moved to the U.S., caused constant tension in the home. Their stinginess, unhygienic behavior, and unethical actions, like eavesdropping on her bedroom and sarcastically reminding her about not having children, only made her situation worse. Frustrated, she asked her husband to move out and live separately, also requesting that he petition for her green card, as her visa status was a constant source of stress. But he refused both requests and suggested she live alone near her workplace, promising to visit her once every two months.

After enduring these painful experiences, she has finally decided to file for divorce—but she’s still filled with fear and uncertainty about her future.

Her questions now:

• Can she find someone good again?

• Can she still have healthy children at 38?

• Can she be happy living alone if it means not marrying the wrong person again?

• What will happen when she grows older? Who will take care of her?

• What’s the point of living and working when the future seems so uncertain?

Marry/live/breed with someone who is young and can get her pregnant. Women shouldn't be taking much stress at desk jobs. They should have more sex with their partners and make babies. That keeps the man healthy, her skin and body healthy. Pregnancy reenergizes a woman's body.

Many of the pretty woman I have seen are mothers.

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3 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

Can a woman remarry at 38 and still have healthy children?”

A heartbreaking story of resilience and survival:

This woman, born in 1987, got married in 2019, believing her husband (who claimed to be born in 1984) was her soulmate. After the wedding, she traveled to the U.S., only to be shocked when she discovered that her husband had lied about his age—he was actually born in 1978. To make matters worse, she found out he had a serious gambling addiction, something he had hidden from her before marriage.

But the surprises didn’t end there. She was devastated to learn that her husband had hepatitis B and was also diabetic—both of which he had kept secret from her. These shocking revelations only deepened her sense of betrayal.

Her husband refused to sponsor her flight or help with her immigration status. Left with no choice, she continued living on an F1 visa, working hard to pay for her health insurance and college fees, refusing to rely on her family back in India.

Soon, she realized her husband had erectile dysfunction (ED), but instead of supporting her, he blamed her for the marriage not being consummated. Despite all of this, she held onto hope that medical help could fix their issues.

After 1.5 years, the couple traveled to India, but when returning to the U.S., her husband tried to leave her behind without her knowledge. Being smart and independent, she traveled with her own visa. They stayed together for a month, but her husband abandoned her and moved away.

Determined to rebuild her life, she earned her degree, secured an H1B visa, and began earning as much as her husband. She stayed loyal for two years, thinking he might return. On her birthday, he did come back, but during his time away, he’d repeatedly messaged her, asking for her address to send divorce papers. Still, she welcomed him back and moved in with him, only to face more issues.

Her brother-in-law and sister-in-law, who also moved to the U.S., caused constant tension in the home. Their stinginess, unhygienic behavior, and unethical actions, like eavesdropping on her bedroom and sarcastically reminding her about not having children, only made her situation worse. Frustrated, she asked her husband to move out and live separately, also requesting that he petition for her green card, as her visa status was a constant source of stress. But he refused both requests and suggested she live alone near her workplace, promising to visit her once every two months.

After enduring these painful experiences, she has finally decided to file for divorce—but she’s still filled with fear and uncertainty about her future.

Her questions now:

• Can she find someone good again?

• Can she still have healthy children at 38?

• Can she be happy living alone if it means not marrying the wrong person again?

• What will happen when she grows older? Who will take care of her?

• What’s the point of living and working when the future seems so uncertain?

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