Feeling low and Depressed

[argadorn]

First of all what I did was going to meetups in my town, random meetups irrespective of technology poyi kurchoni vachey vadini kondaritho matladi vachey vadini next you need to go to bars college towns and talk with random people about anything nonsense as they don’t know or listen to what they say mostly drinkers like listeners so listen… evani chesthay you will open your mouth will have humor in your words and talk bs nonsense to people and most people in this world like sollu only 5 to 10 percent will talk only with sense 

[11_MohanReddy]

Go for a vacation. 

[UmmNagarjuna]

2 hours ago, Bestie said:

I am avg middle class man.

Yepudu flight kuda ekkaledu till I come to US on F1

I am introvert, even chinnapudu oka ammayi nachina cheppaledu and same happened in btech.

Due to my nature office lo kuda peddaga friends leru and vere vallatho matladinattu ga natho matladaru women.

friends hardly 2-3 people untaru but phone lo touch lo untam.

Eee it job naa valla kavadam le but status kosam cheyalsi vastundi, India pothe survive avvalenu ani naa gut feeling.

How do I survive going forward with my nature? I dont know how to make friends, even roommates tho kalisi sitting lo koorchunna, they are use and throw laa anipistunnaru

I have same age of cousins and relatives sons already having business here and preparing for big things in India

I am still a middle class and leading bored life. No special skills but still want to become a millionnaire

 

 

introvert trying to become social.. how avg budget padmanabham can become rich.. you can post two separate blockbuster threads.. 

regarding ur depression... what is causing it? lack of social life or not being able to earn a lot? 

[nokia123]

2 hours ago, Bestie said:

I am avg middle class man.

Yepudu flight kuda ekkaledu till I come to US on F1

I am introvert, even chinnapudu oka ammayi nachina cheppaledu and same happened in btech.

Due to my nature office lo kuda peddaga friends leru and vere vallatho matladinattu ga natho matladaru women.

friends hardly 2-3 people untaru but phone lo touch lo untam.

Eee it job naa valla kavadam le but status kosam cheyalsi vastundi, India pothe survive avvalenu ani naa gut feeling.

How do I survive going forward with my nature? I dont know how to make friends, even roommates tho kalisi sitting lo koorchunna, they are use and throw laa anipistunnaru

I have same age of cousins and relatives sons already having business here and preparing for big things in India

I am still a middle class and leading bored life. No special skills but still want to become a millionnaire

 

 

Fendli sesuko…appudu unde frobleme tho compare sesthe ivi saala sinnavi anifisthayi…then you will feel you were much better off and happy before 

[UmmNagarjuna]

2 minutes ago, nokia123 said:

Fendli sesuko…appudu unde frobleme tho compare sesthe ivi saala sinnavi anifisthayi…then you will feel you were much better off and happy before 

sampestara pillodni 

[Keth]

inka friday ki time undiga, appude dimpesara mods? chaana fast unnare

[Tellugodu]

2 hours ago, argadorn said:

First of all what I did was going to meetups in my town, random meetups irrespective of technology poyi kurchoni vachey vadini kondaritho matladi vachey vadini next you need to go to bars college towns and talk with random people about anything nonsense as they don’t know or listen to what they say mostly drinkers like listeners so listen… evani chesthay you will open your mouth will have humor in your words and talk bs nonsense to people and most people in this world like sollu only 5 to 10 percent will talk only with sense 

Inka 10 years nunchi same job and same pay enti anna, why don’t you try for a new job?  - random person tho, random sollu ante eediena bro ? 

[Bestie]

2 hours ago, Barney_Stinson said:

Are you healthy - if no the above is BS and focus on getting better

if yes: 

you are just fine , takkuva friends unde vallu chala strong personalities ani na feeling 

also do not compare just get inspired 

money making is a skill that shold be blessed by nature else do your stuff, strive for good opportunities

sometimes manaki edi kavalo enta age ochina telledu, just stay quiet and silence will help you think a lot, do not get depressed, dani valla upayogam ledu, keep walking and do things that interest you for short term and then keep strategizing your plans refleting your objectives, udyogam ane kadu you can do million other things that can make money but think and act... depression valla things delay aitai kani bagu padav, depression is another name for deep .. so do not get succumbed or attracted by that kampu .. just keep going... be brave and have self confidence, fail aina strong ga undadam is way highier than earning money ... 

thanks bro

[Chittoorodu]

Bro - Time to reassess life priorities it seems like

For me, personally - I dont want to keep burning myself until 50's

- Family Time
- Travel
- Save some while you can

Trust me - stop worrying about not having Desi friends. The worst kind out there - and also only 5% of the businesses succeed and not everyone is a business kind of person.

[Konebhar6]

3 hours ago, anna_gari_maata said:

World needs more spirituality for guys like us bro, don't worry there is an entity above who hears our words. 

When that comes and calls you, all problems will be resolved. Just trust yourself and find a mentor

@Bestie This is very good advice. Everyone needs to have a mentor in life. Look within your circle. Someone who is sensible and who you can look up to. 

[Spartan]

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[Aquaman]

6 minutes ago, Spartan said:

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em chepali anukuntunav 

[pakeer_saab]

5 hours ago, Bestie said:

I am avg middle class man.

Yepudu flight kuda ekkaledu till I come to US on F1

I am introvert, even chinnapudu oka ammayi nachina cheppaledu and same happened in btech.

Due to my nature office lo kuda peddaga friends leru and vere vallatho matladinattu ga natho matladaru women.

friends hardly 2-3 people untaru but phone lo touch lo untam.

Eee it job naa valla kavadam le but status kosam cheyalsi vastundi, India pothe survive avvalenu ani naa gut feeling.

How do I survive going forward with my nature? I dont know how to make friends, even roommates tho kalisi sitting lo koorchunna, they are use and throw laa anipistunnaru

I have same age of cousins and relatives sons already having business here and preparing for big things in India

I am still a middle class and leading bored life. No special skills but still want to become a millionnaire

 

 

Being alone is a greatest thing that can happen when you know what to do

to be honest, you are not really missing anything positive

you seem to be introvert, there are many psychology frameworks to help introverts, read those books

here is no friend that will travel with you for more than 10 yrs at max, as you age, you will end with very few real friends anyway

why worry about pakodi friends, have few real friends and you are already happy. you just dont know your state yet

[futureofandhra]

Go for travel bro

Enjoy the beauty of nature 

Rest you will manage 

[Chandan11]

You are looking at it wrong. You survived here for so many years without having a real friend. You did not rush to a friend and depend on his inputs for  what water filter to buy, what vacuum is good, which restaurant serves decent buffet, how to get passport renewed and figured out ton of other things on your own.  kudos to you .Like Srivalli says " Bathakadam raani vaadiki kaavali freinds " . Think of having friends as a bonus, not a necessity. Also, introspect if you are being too judgmental about everyone you come into contact with . You need to look beyond their negative things, if you want a friendship. "Mullu vunnayi ani Gulaabi ni dhooram pettoddhu. mullu tagalakunda puvvuni pattuko " . Most desi friends are neither good nor bad.