aratipandu Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 2 hours ago, The_Mentalist said: Nanny jobs analem uncle yes they are helpful kani if U see in India, parents inka hospital ki ochi kuda help chesthar kids even 3 to 4 yrs varaku parents ye chuskuntar Etu chusina mana generation ye sanka nakindhi mana grand parents ki 10kids and 20 grand kids no body took care of us ee gen ki grandparents taking care, US lo unna vallaki time limit undhi and parents are happy to help them forcefully kaadhu but india lo gorm rudhude India lo different scenario anna...parents help chestaaru correct ee but parents ki help cheyyadaniki kuda support system untadhi like maids, dhobi etc...even cook ni kuda pettukovacchu few months avsaram aythe...all affordable ikkada avemi undaka poga vallaki independent ga social circle and mobility kuda unadavv...almost bonded labor ee, family equation teesesi chuste... Quote
The_Mentalist Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 35 minutes ago, aratipandu said: India lo different scenario anna...parents help chestaaru correct ee but parents ki help cheyyadaniki kuda support system untadhi like maids, dhobi etc...even cook ni kuda pettukovacchu few months avsaram aythe...all affordable ikkada avemi undaka poga vallaki independent ga social circle and mobility kuda unadavv...almost bonded labor ee, family equation teesesi chuste... I dint think ikkada vallu parents ni mari gorm ga laundry and stuff cheyataniki thiskostharu ani very rare atla chesevallu mostly helping hand anthe Quote
aratipandu Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 17 minutes ago, The_Mentalist said: I dint think ikkada vallu parents ni mari gorm ga laundry and stuff cheyataniki thiskostharu ani very rare atla chesevallu mostly helping hand anthe I sincerely hope so...I have seen few cases in relatives circle...oka trip ayyaka memu malli chacchina US raamu ani declare chesesaru parents.... 1 Quote
The_Mentalist Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 5 minutes ago, aratipandu said: I sincerely hope so...I have seen few cases in relatives circle...oka trip ayyaka memu malli chacchina US raamu ani declare chesesaru parents.... Untar uncle prathi place lo hawla gallu untar parents ni panolla laga treat chese vallu, India lo ah percentage ekkuva untadhi mana lantollu parents kids sudataniki osthe NYC, Cali, studios ani oka list esi anni thipputham kondhar money etla save seyali ani susthar difference is there Quote
LungiLingaraju Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 2 hours ago, Joker_007 said: IDK what to tell... I my view most of the people wanted to bring their parents here because they either can not cook or no one is there to watch their child... arround 60% has this mentality... 80% of indians has crossed 55 years with 80% of these people are suffering from Diabetes, Blood pressure ... Making them to travel in 16 hours long flight booking cheap flights... Asking them to bring extra baggage from India.. can't you see how much affection is there towards their parents... you have a point .. and it depends on case by case basis and we can’t judge everyone who being their parents here … Parents are also a part the reason for this to happen… Pelli avvagane kid ni kanu kanu ani saava dobbutaru.. growing kid in India is different and US is different.. India lo kids play out with neighbors and friends close by every evening… it is stress free time for parents.. here it is not .. There should be a balance though.. Manam kids ga unnapudu mom n dad ki help ante valla parents raleda help cheyyadaniki.. bro 55 is still a good age, don’t treat parent as old.. .. ask everyone to exercise and have a healthy life style you are taking about 25-30 years of life from 55.. think about that too .. 66-70 is when we will see struggles .. Quote
Undiporade Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 12 hours ago, Sucker said: 6 months ante 6 months ne vunchandi. Health reason vasthe extension kosam proper docs petandi. Most important vachetappudu return ticket cheyyandi. Government change aithe consequences vuntai especially immigration. Don't torture parents for your nanny job. reality ade kada bro....instead of paying for Nanny they get parents here Quote
Undiporade Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 3 hours ago, Assam_Bhayya said: Mom already saw US, probably multiple trips, each trip 6 months good time. She'll reach home in India safely don't worry about her. Houston ante, coming one two months lo summer heat start ayithadhi. Houston summers are brutal compared to Indian summer. Mom will have good time in India. Ask that couple to accept the situation and become normal, do alternate arrangements. the OP is not the original one, he copied from FB forum kada anna... 1 Quote
Undiporade Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 4 hours ago, aratipandu said: desi ppl treating parents like nanny service...if not, more than 180 days spend cheyyalsina avsaram emundhi? Nenu Ashburn lo ok post lo chusanu chadalam, there was an from from a desi woman asking for telugu nanny, one of the female member responded that her mom is interested emanali ? 1 Quote
aratipandu Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 1 minute ago, Undiporade said: Nenu Ashburn lo ok post lo chusanu chadalam, there was an from from a desi woman asking for telugu nanny, one of the female member responded that her mom is interested emanali ? anaali Quote
Undiporade Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 4 hours ago, LungiLingaraju said: manam India lo undi mana parents vachi kids ni few hours or sometime weekends or sometime summer ki 2-3 weeks teeskelthe problem lenappud ippudu enduku bro… US is far away country and can’t come over for every other week .. do not judge others with out knowing the whole story.. neeku telusa what that baby mom is going through ? May be she needs her mom by side. Prathi okkadu neethulu cheppevaade.. evadi life aadu chuskondi naa l@uda lo di. uko Anna reality chepithe neeku kopam vastundi, baby mom is young and parents are old. Quote
Anta Assamey Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 3 hours ago, Spartan said: my inlaw was here during Covid oct 2019 ki vacharu, April lo return ticket unde less than 180 kaani march 2020 evryone know all flights cancelled, i applied for renewal. Adi approve avvadaniki more than 6 months pattindi . but still flights were not open and situation was still not normal. I applied for second extension. second extension vache munde she left ( 4 months) december lo vellaru. vallaka they sent denial notice, paper trial undi mottam, but still tricky situation untadi to call her anduke we decided if we are calling her, i need to be along with her total stay was more than 1 year in my case Similar story here... Mine was between 9 months to 1 year... Mom is coming again this march.. so will see how it goes.. 1 Quote
LungiLingaraju Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 5 minutes ago, Undiporade said: uko Anna reality chepithe neeku kopam vastundi, baby mom is young and parents are old. Atla kaadu bro.kopam kaadu kani... Young unna raising kid I a hard thing… young couple need as much as help they can get.. saying that there should moral sense on both ends … let’s help our kids ani parent ki .. mana parents mana kosam vastunru we should treat them well ani mana vallaki undali.. but don’t naively judge if some one says their parent to come and help ani naa bhavamu.. ma vollu vasthe tension ee ekkuva.. how to keep them entertained and happy ani.. Quote
aratipandu Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 12 minutes ago, Anta Assamey said: Similar story here... Mine was between 9 months to 1 year... Mom is coming again this march.. so will see how it goes.. Quote
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Spartan Posted February 14 Report Posted February 14 1 hour ago, Anta Assamey said: Similar story here... Mine was between 9 months to 1 year... Mom is coming again this march.. so will see how it goes.. @Anta Assamey may be better to accompany her , just in case. Quote
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