yslokesh Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 16 hours ago, Yuvasamudram said: Pellanni control lo pettaleni vaadu oka magaadena? Pellam control lo unte In laws automatically in control. I was thinking the same since the time I know I have the d!ck and its the same tool you can conquer a female. After marriage, sooner or later, entire world changes. Quote
saravamnene Posted February 24 Author Report Posted February 24 6 hours ago, riashli said: Mari mee parents em bitching cheyara kodalu meda? Oka vela cheste, u will give same reaction? Nation wants to know I think this is ladies mentality..chesina tappu oppukoru..oka vela ala aite em chestaru ila aite em chestaru and try to escape inka dorikipoyam anna time they have the most valuable weapon ever..CRY...edchukuntu room loki povadame to gain sympathy Quote
jaathiratnalu2 Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 11 hours ago, riashli said: Mari mee parents em bitching cheyara kodalu meda? Oka vela cheste, u will give same reaction? Nation wants to know Evaru cheyatam ledu .. kodalu mida Asalu e generation ammayelu parents to vubtunnara ? Including you ? Ani @coffee Akka adugutundi Quote
saravamnene Posted February 24 Author Report Posted February 24 I am still waiting for the answer from uchit advice icchina husbands The same situation happens to you , do you just brush off as if nothing happened or confront in front of wife/inlaws and make a scene out of it? Quote
allbakara Posted February 24 Report Posted February 24 1 hour ago, saravamnene said: I am still waiting for the answer from uchit advice icchina husbands The same situation happens to you , do you just brush off as if nothing happened or confront in front of wife/inlaws and make a scene out of it? Back bitching is common kani maree nuv cheppinatlu vulgar or cheap language lo cheyaru in most cases so vadhilestharu Quote
Barney_Stinson Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 samething for me i over heard mil biatching while coming from work, so nenu vallani booted from house, but toxic ppl always are venomous and will vent it or try to torture continuously by polluting/ poisoning their daughters, comedy enti ante ee burra leni kootullu gadida la tala oopi talaka leni valla ammalu edi chepte adi cjestaru, toxic MIL s are divorce granting experts ante mana cheta divorce ippiche daka odalaru, vellaki enta mandi kootullu unna anta mandini vidagottestaru but aa musali batch matram kalise untaru,, deenni emantaro naku kooda telledu 2 Quote
fasak_vachadu Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 Idi mostly arranged marriages issues ayithadi kada love marriage chesukunna vallavi akkuva chudaledu stories untai mari wild ga una du ani naa feel as far I saw in my community and around Quote
Gaali_Gottam_Govinda Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 Our generation Girl parents are the worst....... Daughter marriage life ni half cheda tengedi Girl's Mom ye. Kooturu pelli chesi pampinchi G mooskuni valla life vaalu chooskoka....... every single day for hours they talk to their daughters and they brainwash by teaching them how to control their husband and their family....... Newly wed husband tho kante everyday veela mother and father thone ekkuva time spend chestaru talking on phone. Instead of leaving their daughter to start a new chapter in her life...... they still call them everyday and control their daughters remotely every single day and start bitching about husbands families and friends. Quote
Ample1 Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 6 hours ago, saravamnene said: I am still waiting for the answer from uchit advice icchina husbands The same situation happens to you , do you just brush off as if nothing happened or confront in front of wife/inlaws and make a scene out of it? Never argue with any relative of wife. You can never patch up later. Your wife will remember this life long now and bring this up for every time she has a mood swing. Take wife out and explain her that you don't like these discussion,as I overheard. I treat your parents with respect and you do the same. Quote
saravamnene Posted February 25 Author Report Posted February 25 13 hours ago, Ample1 said: Never argue with any relative of wife. You can never patch up later. Your wife will remember this life long now and bring this up for every time she has a mood swing. Take wife out and explain her that you don't like these discussion,as I overheard. I treat your parents with respect and you do the same. pilli pittina...they have mood swings At times I doubt to they really have mood swings or just say they have so guy remains silent munjalni assallu nammakoodadu..esi 2 kids ayyaka oka moolna kurcho pettali ante.. Quote
Ample1 Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 3 hours ago, saravamnene said: pilli pittina...they have mood swings At times I doubt to they really have mood swings or just say they have so guy remains silent munjalni assallu nammakoodadu..esi 2 kids ayyaka oka moolna kurcho pettali ante.. Kids are weapons for her. She will control you as kids will be on her side 100% of the time. No revenge or fight method works only affection and confidence in you. It all depends on your skills and how you can talk and convince whether is a truth or lie. Fight goes no where, either learn her mind and convince or part ways. No middle ground boss Quote
Pandubabu Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 On 2/23/2025 at 12:14 PM, saravamnene said: Basical ga both are bitching experts. Day anta pani pata lekunda bitching cheyyamante first..Which I dont mind as mom and daughter usually talk a lot They even started going personal on my parents which I overheard when they were talking at night First lo pattinchukole..day by day they started going more cheap language Morning matram em telvakunda naa deggara vinayam chupistaru After a week mava gadini pakkana kurcho petti wife and MIL ni oka ganta eskunna.. okka maata reply ledu as they know even they bitched.. Meeru enduku vinnaru anta..meeru enduku ala matladaru about my parents ante malla reply ledu muggurini oka round eskunesariki..mamul satisfaction raledu edupu okati takkuva FIL and MIL. One thing I understood is.GOLDEN RULE OF LIFE DONT GIVE UNNECESSARY FREEDOM TO WIFE AND IN LAWS. ONE DAY THEY WILL SHOW COLORS.VALLANI CONTROL LONE PETTALI FROM DAY ONE you did the right thing Quote
Ample1 Posted February 25 Report Posted February 25 1 hour ago, Pandubabu said: you did the right thing Agree to disagree. No way you will win with that mentalities. Talk to friends and seniors in the similar situation and gain some knowledge. Quote
Pandubabu Posted February 26 Report Posted February 26 2 hours ago, Ample1 said: Agree to disagree. No way you will win with that mentalities. Talk to friends and seniors in the similar situation and gain some knowledge. atleast you are establishing that you won't be taken granted Quote
Ample1 Posted February 26 Report Posted February 26 2 hours ago, Pandubabu said: atleast you are establishing that you won't be taken granted The approach OP took is concerning as it has long lasting impact on future. Should have talked in depth to wife first privately. If you offend her mom/dad/bro/sis, you are gone case. Women are difficult to understand. The more you understand the inner meaning and act smart, the better the life will be. As the marriage progresses, women only become stronger and tougher as they get kids and financial security. At the end of the day, it's not about who wins. You can establish your priorities, but wife needs to feel that she is most important to you. Learn from others experience. Be careful, act like chanakya. Quote
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