I'm 30, earning 45 LPA,

[kevinUsa]

I'm 30, earning 45 LPA, and recently got engaged to my fiancée, who's 27 and earns 30 LPA. We posted our engagement photos on Instagram, and an old friend of mine happened to see them. He recognized my fiancée and later told me something about her past that caught me off guard.
Apparently, back when she was in her final year of engineering, she had an internship at a reputed MNC where he also worked. It was a male-dominated office, and her manager-a middle-aged divorcee-offered her a permanent job in exchange for a sexual relationship. According to my friend, she agreed, and their affair was known throughout the office.

[kevinUsa]

At first, I thought it was just a rumor. But I still felt the need to ask her directly, even though I had no proof beyond my friend's words. When I brought it up, she admitted it was true. She said she was young, naive, and her family was going through a tough financial phase, so the offer felt like a way to help them and secure her future. She told me the relationship with her manager lasted around two years, and during that time, she also faced harassment from other male colleagues who assumed she was "easy." Ironically, my friend who told me all this was also one of those who tried to get close to her

[kevinUsa]

Eventually, she quit the company when she got a better opportunity-this time, without any compromises. Since then, she said, she's worked hard to grow her career on her own terms and hasn't done anything unethical again. What bothered me, though, was that she didn't show much regret. She believes it's all in the past and doesn't affect her present or future. She assured me that she's completely loyal now, and if we get married, she would never cross that line again

[kevinUsa]

Now I'm stuck in a really difficult place. I love her, and I know people make mistakes, especially when they're young and under pressure. But this situation has shaken me. I'm trying to decide whether I should trust her, take a leap of faith, and go ahead with the marriage or walk away and look for someone whose past isn't so complicated. I'm genuinely confused and not sure what the right path is.

[kevinUsa]

This depends totally depends on ur upbringing. If i were u in ur place i would call off the engagement. Bcz i grew up strict. Never drunk, never smoked and never had any relationships and i gre up in a luxury lifestyle. I had female friends alot but just limited to friendship. So i would do that. If u had a clean life all along then u have the right to break off. Ask ur self conscious if u had relationships r seriously approached someone only for physical pleasures r been in live in and etc kind of relationships then u should give her a chance but keep a close eye on her. But still not being regretted at that is kind of bothering and it bothers even more after marriage. Also do further enquiry if she had done the same mistake repeatedly like after changing a company whether she had any relationships for getting a help in job and so. If thats the case then any for any opportunity like abrod and for TL r Manager level as she is used to this kind of things in the past. It wouldnt feel a sin for her to do in the future even after marriage. Thts the reason u have to dig more for that kind possibility of angle which may occur in the future as it has a better chance.

[kevinUsa]

This depends totally depends on ur upbringing. If i were u in ur place i would call off the engagement. Bcz i grew up strict. Never drunk, never smoked and never had any relationships and i gre up in a luxury lifestyle. I had female friends alot but just limited to friendship. So i would do that. If u had a clean life all along then u have the right to break off. Ask ur self conscious if u had relationships r seriously approached someone only for physical pleasures r been in live in and etc kind of relationships then u should give her a chance but keep a close eye on her. But still not being regretted at that is kind of bothering and it bothers even more after marriage. Also do further enquiry if she had done the same mistake repeatedly like after changing a company whether she had any relationships for getting a help in job and so. If thats the case then any for any opportunity like abrod and for TL r Manager level as she is used to this kind of things in the past. It wouldnt feel a sin for her to do in the future even after marriage. Thts the reason u have to dig more for that kind possibility of angle which may occur in the future as it has a better chance.

[kevinUsa]

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[KathiRamdaas]

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[Assam_Bhayya]

I'm 30, earning 45 LPA,

45LPA reach ayithe ilaanti leki panchaytila time waste cheskovadam endi chandalanga. . .  its time to come to US on F1, do part- time for 3 years, then H1b tagilthe 1 year bench meda unna parvale , payrol run cheyinchi kanisam 1 year tharuvatha ayina at least 100k job kottali, alaanti targets pettukunte life thrilling ga untadi anna !!