ButtonMohanReddy Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 Arey pindy uncle ekkadiki 10gesav inni dinalu Quote
Flush Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, Sarvapindy said: especially below 5 years ..how managing vayya…deenamma jeevitham anipistundi..parents iddar working undi ipudu remote kuda 10gindi etla manage chesar vayya andaru..pellam tho fighting…poragallu chepthe vinar ..poddhunne lepi ready chesi school daycare malla night padukune daaka..nee yavva.. Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month Quote
reality1 Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, Sarvapindy said: especially below 5 years ..how managing vayya…deenamma jeevitham anipistundi..parents iddar working undi ipudu remote kuda 10gindi etla manage chesar vayya andaru..pellam tho fighting…poragallu chepthe vinar ..poddhunne lepi ready chesi school daycare malla night padukune daaka..nee yavva.. Pindiga ennalaki darshanam isthunavu….. Quote
Sarvapindy Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, ButtonMohanReddy said: Arey pindy uncle ekkadiki 10gesav inni dinalu cheppina kada 2 kids tho jeevitham Quote
Sarvapindy Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, reality1 said: Pindiga ennalaki darshanam isthunavu….. Life pindi pindi aippoindi uncle Quote
ButtonMohanReddy Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 6 minutes ago, Sarvapindy said: cheppina kada 2 kids tho jeevitham Still beating uncle? presidio lone unnava Quote
Tellugodu Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, Flush said: Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month Can you please let us know the process of getting someone from India on a hire basis ? We are planning for one. Thx Quote
Galactus Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 desis do not spend a lot of money for nannys, hire someone from your community to watch kids for 1-2 hrs atleast, aa 2 hrs break anna untundi for you and your wife take a walk with her or just chill during that time, totally worth the $ you spend also outsource some of the tasks you have no time for lawn (mowing/weeds) house cleaning (biweekly or monthly deep clean) or robo vaccums Groceries sometimes (Instacart etc) For Pickup/Drop offs, work it out with other parents in your community, this way you may be spending just 1/3rd time if you can work with 2 other set of parents curries/home made good if anyone is selling in your community - 1 or 2 days/week aina it will give some relieft although I would not recommend this we do not know what oil and ingredients they may use I know these will add up and will be costly but whats the point of just earning and suffering bro? spend some 10% for these and live life well! Quote
Galactus Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 1 hour ago, SantoorBoy said: Next 18 years life is frocked*.pillalu Putte mundu I didn’t realise life would be so hard. First 3 to 4 years jeevitam ante virakti vachedi ippudu alavatu aipoindi. By the time my kids are 18 and off to college, i will be in my 50s. Jeevitam mottam 10gindani ee madhye realization ki vachaa.. i hope at least by my kids generation they will be out of this pelli chesko, illu konu, pillalni kanu loop. This is just modern day slavery.. lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids, life antha ayipotundi also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back 2 Quote
Sarvapindy Posted March 31 Author Report Posted March 31 20 minutes ago, Galactus said: lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids, life antha ayipotundi also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back India lo kids ni penche pani ledu valle perugutaru e lolli lekunda…chuskodaniki evado okad untad pakkintlo vadilesi kuda povachu.. Quote
baabaa Posted March 31 Report Posted March 31 57 minutes ago, Galactus said: desis do not spend a lot of money for nannys, hire someone from your community to watch kids for 1-2 hrs atleast, aa 2 hrs break anna untundi for you and your wife take a walk with her or just chill during that time, totally worth the $ you spend also outsource some of the tasks you have no time for lawn (mowing/weeds) house cleaning (biweekly or monthly deep clean) or robo vaccums Groceries sometimes (Instacart etc) For Pickup/Drop offs, work it out with other parents in your community, this way you may be spending just 1/3rd time if you can work with 2 other set of parents curries/home made good if anyone is selling in your community - 1 or 2 days/week aina it will give some relieft although I would not recommend this we do not know what oil and ingredients they may use I know these will add up and will be costly but whats the point of just earning and suffering bro? spend some 10% for these and live life well! Anna, all desis i know do these Lawn- almost all my friends outsource lawn to makkus, TX heat lo not worth it. House Cleaning- all of us hire alternate week house cleaners. roborocks elagu andaro thnksgiving lo kontaru Groceries- this I have seen some ppl do everything on own or use instacart or store curbside pickups. Pickup/Dropoffs ki definitely if possible everyone sharing car rides. Curries- Homemade curries also lot of desis use but not everyone. More than cost I have friends who dont like taste ani annaru. Suffer avuta converting everything to Rs to buy lands/apts in india waste anna. Quote
Flush Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 2 hours ago, Tellugodu said: Can you please let us know the process of getting someone from India on a hire basis ? We are planning for one. Thx Ok, first plan then I will tell Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 5 hours ago, ButtonMohanReddy said: Arey pindy uncle ekkadiki 10gesav inni dinalu Pindi gadu @FrustratedVuncle ani doubt Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 5 hours ago, Flush said: Best get someone from India on monthly basis I pay $2300 live in per month Rich people ekkada anna California na Quote
Pahelwan4 Posted April 1 Report Posted April 1 3 hours ago, Galactus said: lol, we love our kids but I do feel your thoughts, your whole life here is just about being an IT coolie and then raising kids, life antha ayipotundi also agree that with out family support like in India life here is so so hard Imagine dropping off kids at your parents for the weekend and then chilling, just for this vellochu India ki back Anduke appudu appudu bachelor trips veyali full ga tagali enjoy cheyali. Quote
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