2 minutes ago, aratipandu said:

appatiki ayna mana PD current avuddhi antava annai??

Kashtame vayya

6 minutes ago, Pahelwan4 said:

Adi vere topic bro. children and parents understanding tho nadpistunaru. I have not seen anyone going back to take care of parents. 

could be because it has not been a problem 'yet' for most people, but I think it will be in the coming 5-10 years assuming most folks here came after 2010+ 

2 minutes ago, Galactus said:

could be because it has not been a problem 'yet' for most people, but I think it will be in the coming 5-10 years assuming most folks here came after 2010+ 

Imo be prepared for the worst anthe. Is there any guarantee for anyone to say 5-10 years they will be safe. If you are thinking to take care of parents then you have to pack bags and leave anthe Kani 5 years parents safe le em health issues Levu anukovaddu. 

34 minutes ago, Galactus said:

also, for folks who do not want to go back citing whatever reasons, how do you handle your aging parents? I mean the ones with out any siblings to take care of them back in India

Aging parents ni take care cheyali 

growing children ki manchi life ivvali 

ee rendu points meeda focus toh ❤️da mana life meeda eppudu concentrate cheyali annai. 

36 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said:

Aging parents ni take care cheyali 

growing children ki manchi life ivvali 

ee rendu points meeda focus toh ❤️da mana life meeda eppudu concentrate cheyali annai. 

reality of life bro, we are sandwich generation, future gens ki ee problem vundakoodadu ani main prarthana kartha hoon

54 minutes ago, Pahelwan4 said:

Imo be prepared for the worst anthe. Is there any guarantee for anyone to say 5-10 years they will be safe. If you are thinking to take care of parents then you have to pack bags and leave anthe Kani 5 years parents safe le em health issues Levu anukovaddu. 

fair point, no guarantee but what we usually see is parents having issues once they cross 65+ from what I observed, could be different for different folks

2 hours ago, Galactus said:

fair point, no guarantee but what we usually see is parents having issues once they cross 65+ from what I observed, could be different for different folks

My bro and i decided this—- okaru infia parents tho inkoru america

 

3 hours ago, lollilolli2020 said:

Aging parents ni take care cheyali 

growing children ki manchi life ivvali 

ee rendu points meeda focus toh ❤️da mana life meeda eppudu concentrate cheyali annai. 

Pelli cheskovaddhu anna..anni problems solve aypothay automatic ga...

 

Once kids gets to college India move aipovatam best .. ikada antha bekaar panchayitheelu

8 hours ago, Galactus said:

reality of life bro, we are sandwich generation, future gens ki ee problem vundakoodadu ani main prarthana kartha hoon

sandwich generation ledu em ledu. 
its all priorities bro, telvani future kosam ekkuva thinking cheyoddu anedi naa opinion. 
right now, visit parents as much you can, later when they need your physical presence you then decide their no wrong or right approach. 

mana parents anni odilesukoni grand parents ni chusukoledu kada, they did whatever they could do, anthe we just moved to a different country, our parents moved to a different state or city rest all same noo. 

23 minutes ago, perugu_vada said:

Once kids gets to college India move aipovatam best .. ikada antha bekaar panchayitheelu

nuvvu ante okay uncle nee kids already highschool maaku inka pellilu kaaley appude college daka think chese antha cinema ledu. 

5 hours ago, Mr Mirchi said:

My bro and i decided this—- okaru infia parents tho inkoru america

 

India lo vunnavadiki anipinchada nene chusukovala; vaadu US lo enjoying ani. 

6 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said:

India lo vunnavadiki anipinchada nene chusukovala; vaadu US lo enjoying ani. 

na bro edhyna naaku pettaalani chusthadu....memu separate avvaledhu..vummadey

 

thanu oka 4 yrs vundi vellipoyadu india ki to take care of my parents

 

naaku elder..alaa ani na freedo meedha conditions vundavu kalisi vunna family motham

 

nenu thanaki pettaalani chgustha..thanu naaku pettaalani ivvaalani chusthaadu anytime...so no godavalu ..nannnu BMW konukko mani thanu honda or swift konukkune type

11 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said:

nuvvu ante okay uncle nee kids already highschool maaku inka pellilu kaaley appude college daka think chese antha cinema ledu. 

Enni cheskundham ani enti ni plan .. aha em ledu @LadiesTailor & @megadheera uncles can share their school & after-school pickup dropoff excel sheet for u 

16 hours ago, kevinUsa said:

Go to India  u will save on day care plus no dishwashing u can get maid no cooking u can get maid no clean u ca get maid 

Life enjoy akka y doing all stuff here in USA

 

Btw how are u long time no seee

I am good how are you?