lollilolli2020 Posted April 23 Report Posted April 23 Serious questions. Been more than a decade of living in US, I am very very curious why upbringing of Telegus / hyderabad people is so different than others? They are always in big groups and mainly they uplift and help each other so so much. They talk like families and garu, akka ( i think that is brother , sister) etc . Promote each others businesses. I have seen so many women coming after marriage and other families take them under their wings. They are well guided and start businesses or get jobs ( legally ). Women also always lovingly talk. They promote each other. Same with men group. They simply dont need anyone else. Of course it is very hard to become friends with their group but this post is not related to that. I have unfortunately not seen such bond with other communities. Recently I put my snack stall at event. I see so many people were coming to one lady’s stall wishing luck and stopped by, taking photos. It was such a nice gesture. All my neighbours / friends stopped by and none bought a thing. Again that is okay. But withing a week they called me and asked how was the experience and next event they put the same stall with same items. Did not tell me that they are doing this. Why so much difference? Quote
megadheera Posted April 23 Report Posted April 23 24 minutes ago, lollilolli2020 said: Serious questions. Been more than a decade of living in US, I am very very curious why upbringing of Telegus / hyderabad people is so different than others? They are always in big groups and mainly they uplift and help each other so so much. They talk like families and garu, akka ( i think that is brother , sister) etc . Promote each others businesses. I have seen so many women coming after marriage and other families take them under their wings. They are well guided and start businesses or get jobs ( legally ). Women also always lovingly talk. They promote each other. Same with men group. They simply dont need anyone else. Of course it is very hard to become friends with their group but this post is not related to that. I have unfortunately not seen such bond with other communities. Recently I put my snack stall at event. I see so many people were coming to one lady’s stall wishing luck and stopped by, taking photos. It was such a nice gesture. All my neighbours / friends stopped by and none bought a thing. Again that is okay. But withing a week they called me and asked how was the experience and next event they put the same stall with same items. Did not tell me that they are doing this. Why so much difference? Last paragraph chadive varaku artham kaaledu 😀 1 Quote
Samajavaragamanaa Posted April 23 Report Posted April 23 1 hour ago, lollilolli2020 said: Serious questions. Been more than a decade of living in US, I am very very curious why upbringing of Telegus / hyderabad people is so different than others? They are always in big groups and mainly they uplift and help each other so so much. They talk like families and garu, akka ( i think that is brother , sister) etc . Promote each others businesses. I have seen so many women coming after marriage and other families take them under their wings. They are well guided and start businesses or get jobs ( legally ). Women also always lovingly talk. They promote each other. Same with men group. They simply dont need anyone else. Of course it is very hard to become friends with their group but this post is not related to that. I have unfortunately not seen such bond with other communities. Recently I put my snack stall at event. I see so many people were coming to one lady’s stall wishing luck and stopped by, taking photos. It was such a nice gesture. All my neighbours / friends stopped by and none bought a thing. Again that is okay. But withing a week they called me and asked how was the experience and next event they put the same stall with same items. Did not tell me that they are doing this. Why so much difference? Telegus suck each one’s madda Quote
BattalaSathi Posted April 23 Report Posted April 23 1 hour ago, lollilolli2020 said: Serious questions. Been more than a decade of living in US, I am very very curious why upbringing of Telegus / hyderabad people is so different than others? They are always in big groups and mainly they uplift and help each other so so much. They talk like families and garu, akka ( i think that is brother , sister) etc . Promote each others businesses. I have seen so many women coming after marriage and other families take them under their wings. They are well guided and start businesses or get jobs ( legally ). Women also always lovingly talk. They promote each other. Same with men group. They simply dont need anyone else. Of course it is very hard to become friends with their group but this post is not related to that. I have unfortunately not seen such bond with other communities. Recently I put my snack stall at event. I see so many people were coming to one lady’s stall wishing luck and stopped by, taking photos. It was such a nice gesture. All my neighbours / friends stopped by and none bought a thing. Again that is okay. But withing a week they called me and asked how was the experience and next event they put the same stall with same items. Did not tell me that they are doing this. Why so much difference? Telegus annavu choodu - touch chesavu bhayya Quote
hunkyfunky3 Posted April 23 Report Posted April 23 1 hour ago, lollilolli2020 said: Serious questions. Been more than a decade of living in US, I am very very curious why upbringing of Telegus / hyderabad people is so different than others? They are always in big groups and mainly they uplift and help each other so so much. They talk like families and garu, akka ( i think that is brother , sister) etc . Promote each others businesses. I have seen so many women coming after marriage and other families take them under their wings. They are well guided and start businesses or get jobs ( legally ). Women also always lovingly talk. They promote each other. Same with men group. They simply dont need anyone else. Of course it is very hard to become friends with their group but this post is not related to that. I have unfortunately not seen such bond with other communities. Recently I put my snack stall at event. I see so many people were coming to one lady’s stall wishing luck and stopped by, taking photos. It was such a nice gesture. All my neighbours / friends stopped by and none bought a thing. Again that is okay. But withing a week they called me and asked how was the experience and next event they put the same stall with same items. Did not tell me that they are doing this. Why so much difference? Are you Telugu? Other communities also do...gujju and Punjabi Muslim communities Vietnamese etc... You are not part... That's it Quote
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