kevinUsa Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 I was married a year ago and we are living happily. Back before my marriage I had a girl bestie which we used to share all the things and talk FaceTime more than a half day in a day. Our parents also know that we are just friends and talking during my office timings. We do not have any feelings for each other it's just pure friendship. She is elder than me and their parents looking for matches preferably US matches and nothing selected. During this process she is more interested in one profile and started chatting with him and kept me aside and I got some jealous about it and also happy at the same time that she got interested into one match. One day she called me said about this profile and I had a tears in my eyes infront of her. And really I don't have any feelings for her but there is a small insecurity that she will not be with me anymore and she will be someone's wife and I can't take that and confronted her that lam so possessive about you and she said it ok that are dependent emotionally on each other and gave a smile. Later the match got cancelled due to some reasons. And then we are back again as usual. Now it's my parents are looking for matches and shown an interest in one profile and got the marriage fix. Â 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 Now she got more possessiveness about me and she confronted me that why can't we marry. For that I said no because the marriage date also fixed and don't want to ruin my family name. As she is more dependent on me I can't give more time to talk with her and developed feelings on me. → During marriage activities I didn't gave much time to my friend and stopped talking with me and I thought she will be fine after few days as we are not in relationship. After few months I have called on her birthday and got to know that she suffered lot and lost intrest in marriage. 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 < > She asked me for some romance since she hadn't experienced it before, and I agreed. I went to her city when my wife went to her native place. We spent time together, had some fun, and she enjoyed the romance but refused intimacy. After that, I started developing feelings for her and stopped being romantic with my wife. Now I need her, âš« and she also wants to spend more romantic evenings together. But that's hard since we live in different cities I work permanently from home, and my wife goes to the office every day. One day, I decided to ask her if she could move to my city. There's a unit available right next to ours in the same apartment complex, and I told her I could pay the rent if she stayed there. 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 My best friend agreed to move into the apartment next door, which was a 2BHK. At first, she stayed alone, so I listed a private room with a private bathroom for rent. A decent, fit guy reached out, and I rented it to him. Everything seemed normal he'd see me visiting her place often when my wife wasn't around. One day, I told him the truth about âš« my relationship with her, and surprisingly, he offered to help by pretending to be her boyfriend to avoid suspicion. Later, I invited both of them for dinner, and my wife believed they were just a couple living next door, which made it easier for me and my best friend to keep things under wraps. 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 When my wife went to the office, I often called my best friend over, and we got close. Slowly, our friendship turned into something more, and we started having sex. It became a regular thing between us, and for a while, everything felt fine. But after that, I couldn't be romantic with my wife anymore. She started looking sad and angry, and I began to feel guilty for what I was doing. I wanted to end things with my best friend, but I couldn't find the right time to talk to her. We shared a strong connection, and the way we were together made it hard for me to stop. 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 After some time, my wife started looking happier and began going out more often with friends. One day, when she was in the restroom, I checked her phone and found messages between her and the guy next door. It broke me she was having an affair with him. I got so angry that I followed them and caught her at a coffee shop. When she saw me, she quickly walked away from him, but I stopped her outside. She started crying in the car, saying she was and didn't know what she was doing. She begged me not to divorce her and promised to change. She doesn't know about my affair with my best friend, and I don't think the guy next door told her either. In her mind, I'm still a good husband she said she only drifted away because we had lost our romance. 1 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 Right now, I feel completely stuck between two choices. One option is to ask the tenant to leave and continue my affair with my best friend while still living with my wife. The other option is to end everything with my best friend and focus fully on my marriage. My heart and mind are saying different things. My heart wants my best friend because I enjoy being with her more than my wife. But my mind keeps telling me that this is wrong and it won't end well. I feel scared that if I keep doing this, one day the truth will come out and I'll lose both of them. help me out what to do 1 Quote
Pavanonline Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 2 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: After some time, my wife started looking happier and began going out more often with friends. One day, when she was in the restroom, I checked her phone and found messages between her and the guy next door. It broke me she was having an affair with him. I got so angry that I followed them and caught her at a coffee shop. When she saw me, she quickly walked away from him, but I stopped her outside. She started crying in the car, saying she was and didn't know what she was doing. She begged me not to divorce her and promised to change. She doesn't know about my affair with my best friend, and I don't think the guy next door told her either. In her mind, I'm still a good husband she said she only drifted away because we had lost our romance. coffee shop lo dorukudendi mastaru, em chestunaru akkada 🤔 Quote
kevinUsa Posted October 9 Author Report Posted October 9 2 minutes ago, Pavanonline said: coffee shop lo dorukudendi mastaru, em chestunaru akkada 🤔 logical questions no only magics Quote
nag Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 40 minutes ago, kevinUsa said: Right now, I feel completely stuck between two choices. One option is to ask the tenant to leave and continue my affair with my best friend while still living with my wife. The other option is to end everything with my best friend and focus fully on my marriage. My heart and mind are saying different things. My heart wants my best friend because I enjoy being with her more than my wife. But my mind keeps telling me that this is wrong and it won't end well. I feel scared that if I keep doing this, one day the truth will come out and I'll lose both of them. help me out what to do script karan johar ivvu bro.. love genre ki omantic masala add cheyui Quote
Konebhar6 Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 Story Bagundi @kevinUsa. Aa pakkinti abbayi kompateesi wife bestie ani emanna twist pedthava? Take them to a park, explain and tell truth. Ask them what he should do. 😂😂😂 1 Quote
bulreddy Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 vaadu wife and bestie lani estunnatte, rent ki vunna vaadu kooda roomamte and vaani wife ni estunnademo.  mottaniki, andaru pativratale.. Quote
Thokkalee Posted October 9 Report Posted October 9 @Konebhar6 @kevinUsa Polyamorous relationship ki definitions Quote
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