suggestion plz..wt i have to do?

[air india]

Hi mamalu..nenu e DB lo regular userni, peru cheppatam istam leka kotta id tho rastunna.
problems andariki untai, evari problem variki peddaga anipistundi ani naaku telisi kuda face cheyaleka pothunna.

asalu vishayam emitante nenu(27yrs) average science(life science) studentni(masters completed)..nenu ela chadivanu ante 10 th pass ayyanani inter, inter pass ayyanani digree, alage master chesanu(istam lekapoyina)..ippudu europian country lo malli master chestunna Ph.D Cheddamani...ayithe ikkadiki vachaka naaku nenu telusukunna vishayam enti ante nenu chadavatam correct kadu ani, endukante subject lo involve kaleka pothunna edo india lo exam gurunchi(only exam paper ela untundi, daniki ela prepare kavalo alane prepare ayyevadini, no subject interest) okka night lo chadavi anni pass ayyevadini...ikkada nannu nenu cheat chesukoleka potunna, madi ela untundi ante research articles, books baga chadavali..no end eppudu chaduvutune undali...taruvata money kuda fund laga istaru..peddaga savings undavu. so that is one problem

inka maa family gurunchi cheppali ante, maadi oka mostaru business family(sanitary,steel nd cement, medical shops) nenu digree nd PG lo dadapu shop lone unnanu, naaku business ante konchem istame, but anni shops maa annalu(married) own..naaku sambandam ledu vatilo..ayithe nannu chadivistundi matram valle..maa family lo okkadu kuda chadavaledu, foriegn poledu ani prestage issue lo nannu bayataki pamparu...especially maa ammaku istam nenu chaduvukovali ani, aameku business ante chiraku...so ala irukkupoyina..ippudu inko vishayam enti ante maa vadinalaku naaku inka dabbu pettadam istam ledu..offcourse adi correct nannu 27 yrs nundi meputunna okka rupayi kuda sampadinchaledu annadi naa feeling..ee paristitilo velli maa nana ni business pettinchu ante siggu ledu antadu..endukante chinnappati nundi tega chaduvutunnattu build up icchi, malli saduvutanani foriegn velli inka emi mokam pettukoni adagalo ardam kavatledu...munde business kuda anthantha matramgane undi.

inko vishayam enti ante chintakayala ravi cinema lo laga maa amma vooranta cheptundi anta maa vadu foriegn lo chaduvutunnadu,,inka 6 months lo job vastadi..nelaku atleast 1 lakh sampadistadu(comparing with softwares)..manchi pillani unte chudandi ani..ayyo raama..chadivi entha tappu chesanu anipistundi..digree fail ayina, ippudu dora laga unde vadini naa business chesukuntuu..ippudu voorukelithe foriegn ku vellavantaga malli shop lo kurchunnavani dobbataniki manchi chance itchindi maa amma


ippudu age kuda 27 yrs, maa tammudu(chinnana koduku) pelli chestaranta..eppudu nenu sadavali, eppudu sampadinchali.inka anni question markule unnai naa life lo..ikkada part time jobs assalu levu, atleast karchulaku kuda..so konchem sattire veyakunda salaha ivvagalaru..munde dipression lo unna.

[Venky Fan]

sorry2 mama...em cheppaloo kooda theliyatam ledu....
kaani oka chinna suggestion mama....okasari mee dad ki nee paristhithi motham cheppi choodu mama.....thittina adi ayana hakku mama....inka pakka vallu emanukuntara ani eppuudu alochinchaku mama......daani valla nee life spoil avuthundi.....ninnu ee roju thittinavalle repu nuvvu andulo goppodivi ayinappudu maryada istharu mama.....so mee parents ki cheppataniki mohamata padaku mama.....cheppu mama mee parents ki idi naa paristhithi ani.....mama vallu entha thittina mana parents mama....nuvvu cheppina ventane aavesamlo and badhatho thittochu mama....kaani vallu tharvatha alochistharu mama.....i hope ur parents only can guide you in the next stage.....so never feel shy infront of ur parents....velli dhairyam ga cheppu mama....ATB for ur bright future..... sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing

[katharnak]

dude...middle class family nunchi vachina vallaki some part of time lo andarki anipistundi... ilantappude u have to b brave... mundu nee meedha nuv nammakam techuko... life lo anni easy ga vacheste thrill em undi... ilanti appude u will have to stand hard...

[ramu]

neeku business istam aithe...masters daniki related ga cheyyalsindi mama... i mean MBA in biotechnology (like related to life sciences) andulo job techokunte sari...antha solve ayipodhi.... .cheppadam easy ne.... ee salaha kodhiga ayina idea vachela use ayidhemo chudu....  sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing

[air india]

[quote author=Venky Fan link=topic=125716.msg1391389#msg1391389 date=1290781376]
sorry2 mama...em cheppaloo kooda theliyatam ledu....
kaani oka chinna suggestion mama....okasari mee dad ki nee paristhithi motham cheppi choodu mama.....thittina adi ayana hakku mama....inka pakka vallu emanukuntara ani eppuudu alochinchaku mama......daani valla nee life spoil avuthundi.....ninnu ee roju thittinavalle repu nuvvu andulo goppodivi ayinappudu maryada istharu mama.....so mee parents ki cheppataniki mohamata padaku mama.....cheppu mama mee parents ki idi naa paristhithi ani.....mama vallu entha thittina mana parents mama....nuvvu cheppina ventane aavesamlo and badhatho thittochu mama....kaani vallu tharvatha alochistharu mama.....i hope ur parents only can guide you in the next stage.....so never feel shy infront of ur parents....velli dhairyam ga cheppu mama....ATB for ur bright future..... sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing
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thank u mama...nuuvu okkadivina reply ichinanduku.matter peddaga unnanduku evaru chadavatledu anukunta..nuvvu cheppindi correcte anipistundi mama...but maa amma nu convince cheyalenemo anipistundi..

[air india]

[quote author=ramu link=topic=125716.msg1391395#msg1391395 date=1290781650]
neeku business istam aithe...masters daniki related ga cheyyalsindi mama... i mean MBA in biotechnology (like related to life sciences) andulo job techokunte sari...antha solve ayipodhi.... .cheppadam easy ne.... ee salaha kodhiga ayina idea vachela use ayidhemo chudu....  sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing
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ledu mama..adi ayipoyindi.. ippudu chadive oopika naaku ledu..i cheated myself..naaku ippudu pani cheyalani undi..adi entha kastamina cheyalani undi...nenu rasina prati exam pass avuta kani naaku enduko satisfaction undadu mama..saduvu ante...MBA ante ippudu unna paristitulo impossible mama...anyway thank u for ur suggestion

[teluguwala]

[quote author=Venky Fan link=topic=125716.msg1391389#msg1391389 date=1290781376]
sorry2 mama...em cheppaloo kooda theliyatam ledu....
kaani oka chinna suggestion mama....okasari mee dad ki nee paristhithi motham cheppi choodu mama.....thittina adi ayana hakku mama....inka pakka vallu emanukuntara ani eppuudu alochinchaku mama......daani valla nee life spoil avuthundi.....ninnu ee roju thittinavalle repu nuvvu andulo goppodivi ayinappudu maryada istharu mama.....so mee parents ki cheppataniki mohamata padaku mama.....cheppu mama mee parents ki idi naa paristhithi ani.....mama vallu entha thittina mana parents mama....nuvvu cheppina ventane aavesamlo and badhatho thittochu mama....kaani vallu tharvatha alochistharu mama.....i hope ur parents only can guide you in the next stage.....so never feel shy infront of ur parents....velli dhairyam ga cheppu mama....ATB for ur bright future..... sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing
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[Einwanderer]

Bayya ekkuva allochinchaku, anni sardukuntayi... Masters ayyindhi kada gattiga try cheyi job vastadhi, PHD avvi ante time pattuthadhi.. Ikkada kakunte UK lo kuda try cheyi, Job late ga vachina amma happy ga feel avvuthadhi kada mama. Amma korikaki first importance ivvu.. Ikkada Masters chesi nuvvu ila disappoint avvaku..

Prati okkalaki Bad time vuntadhji, we have to overcome that.. Try hard okka job vaste anta set avvuthadhi... Manaki emi rakunda pothe intlo valle manalni pilichi business pettistaru.. Daani gurunchi tension padaku.. First nuvvu neee prayatnam cheyi... Inka migilindhi devudiki vadileyyi

TRY AND FAIL BUT DONT FAIL TO TRY.. ATB MAMA  sHa_high5ing sHa_high5ing sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends

[htnamus]

Bhayya, first nuvvu " I have cheated myself" ane alochana odilesko .... andariki edo oka time la anipistadi .. but atla em undadu baa. manaki nachindi manam cheskuntu veltam ante .. manalni manam cheat em cheskomu baa .. anni andaru cheyaleru .. anni andaru dakkinchukoleru .

Aina nu em kastapadakundane Euro daka vachava cheppu .. nu edo okati chesi aa chaduvu complete cheyyi .. btech lage anuko .. just pass markulu kottatanki kastapadu ... aa taravata intlo nanna ni ammani kurchopeti cheppu. Nenu anta thope em kadu chaduvu lo but complete aite chesanu .. naku business chuskovalani undi ani! Pucca ardam cheskuntaru .. inka hapy ga feel autaru kuda , nu em bewarse ga kurchunta anatledu ... neku nachina dantlo kastapadta ani chepte evarain hapy ga untaru bhayya!!

[bevars__babu]

bayyaa i too study in europian country..
ikkada maa paristiti kanna needi chala better..
oka ms ipoindikada...
try for internships...
inni rojulu chadavaledu ani ippudu chadavadam manakkarledu...
nuvvu phd joiniyaav kabatti..try to study...
neeku abyantaram leka pote ee country no pm cheyy...
kastanga untundi mama but its the way life is..
problems are the essence of life..

nuvvu success iyintarvata ....ivanni oka sweet memories ga migili potayyy

[teluguwala]

Try to explain your parents about ur situation. Shop lo kurchoni unnapudu ...chuttu pakkala vallu vachi ..foregin  return anta kada...kotlo kurchunnav enti antaaru ani bhiya padaku ....vaalu edaina antaaru mama... nela rojulu pothe vaadu adhi marchi potaadu ...but ni bhadalu ikkada padataane untav kada...




Inkoti enti ante...eppudaithe money issue vastundho appudu manaki ..manam chese pani correct kaadu anipistundhi ....wht I mean is ...ippudu neeku money prob(inkolaani adagalsi vastundhi ani nuvvu bhada padutunnav )undi  kabatti ..niku chaduvu ante intrest ledu ani feelig ante...ide feeling repu nuvvu business petti nappudu koda ravachu like business sarigga nadavakapothe (incase chebutunna mava anthe )  appudu koda anukuntav cha nenu ah PhD edho inka 2 or 3 years lo poorthi ayyipoyedhi ...job vachedhi ..life happy ga undedhi ..ila roju podunna nunchi sayantram daka ila shop lo koorchune badulu ani ....


Business choodataniki chala easy ga untundhi ...but reality lo chala stress full
Chadvu ..chaduvutunte kastam ga untundhi ...but later on Job vachaa ni life konchem better free ga untundhi comparetively ....


ippudu niku chaduvu ante...kastam ga undhi kabatti niku business meda intrest vastundhi ...akkada koda chala kastaalu untayi mama ....


nuvvu cheppav ni exp undhi shop lo koorchovatam ani ...adhi kaadu impt ...ah taruvatha money matters deal chese tappudu ...chala ins and out untayi mama....


any way u might have ur own experience...but dentlo ayyina ..kastalu untayi mama ...oka dantlo ippudu ..inko dantlo konchem late ga ....


but nuvvu ayyithe ..intlo cheppu ..vallu edo anukuntaaru ani kakunda...endukante ..ni parents ninnu kakunda evardni arthm chesukuntaaru ...


All the Best mama ....

[air india]

[quote author=katharnak link=topic=125716.msg1391393#msg1391393 date=1290781596]
dude...middle class family nunchi vachina vallaki some part of time lo andarki anipistundi... ilantappude u have to b brave... mundu nee meedha nuv nammakam techuko... life lo anni easy ga vacheste thrill em undi... ilanti appude u will have to stand hard...
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hi baa..i like ur suggestion..genuine ga undi...but konchem kastam ga undi baa, but confidence improve chesukovatam ante intha kastam ani teliyatledu baa..thank u

[air india]

[quote author=teluguwala link=topic=125716.msg1391436#msg1391436 date=1290783436]
Try to explain your parents about ur situation. Shop lo kurchoni unnapudu ...chuttu pakkala vallu vachi ..foregin  return anta kada...kotlo kurchunnav enti antaaru ani bhiya padaku ....vaalu edaina antaaru mama... nela rojulu pothe vaadu adhi marchi potaadu ...but ni bhadalu ikkada padataane untav kada...




Inkoti enti ante...eppudaithe money issue vastundho appudu manaki ..manam chese pani correct kaadu anipistundhi ....wht I mean is ...ippudu neeku money prob(inkolaani adagalsi vastundhi ani nuvvu bhada padutunnav )undi  kabatti ..niku chaduvu ante intrest ledu ani feelig ante...ide feeling repu nuvvu business petti nappudu koda ravachu like business sarigga nadavakapothe (incase chebutunna mava anthe )  appudu koda anukuntav cha nenu ah PhD edho inka 2 or 3 years lo poorthi ayyipoyedhi ...job vachedhi ..life happy ga undedhi ..ila roju podunna nunchi sayantram daka ila shop lo koorchune badulu ani ....


Business choodataniki chala easy ga untundhi ...but reality lo chala stress full
Chadvu ..chaduvutunte kastam ga untundhi ...but later on Job vachaa ni life konchem better free ga untundhi comparetively ....


ippudu niku chaduvu ante...kastam ga undhi kabatti niku business meda intrest vastundhi ...akkada koda chala kastaalu untayi mama ....


nuvvu cheppav ni exp undhi shop lo koorchovatam ani ...adhi kaadu impt ...ah taruvatha money matters deal chese tappudu ...chala ins and out untayi mama....


any way u might have ur own experience...but dentlo ayyina ..kastalu untayi mama ...oka dantlo ippudu ..inko dantlo konchem late ga ....


but nuvvu ayyithe ..intlo cheppu ..vallu edo anukuntaaru ani kakunda...endukante ..ni parents ninnu kakunda evardni arthm chesukuntaaru ...


All the Best mama ....
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thank u mama..nenu india lo already master chesanu, but malli ikkada masters chestunna..inka Ph.D rale mama..inka ippudu start cheste 2 yrs ku pH.d vastundochu..but malli chadivithe chesina tappu malli chestunnanemo anipistundi baa..but nuvu rasindi naku baga nachindi baa..genuine ga rasavu..konchem relax ga undi

[pikki]

Hi Bro,
Ur situation is not completely different from many of people/ students out there, may the situation is different in those people's life but the very essence is the same.Infact I am an example of completly unsatisfied fellow in my life, I sketched my life very well before I came to USA for higher studies.I had problems, with no body around u that can direct in the proper way when ur somewhere unreachable by ur parents and dear ones. Let's not deviate the topic to my life here.

First of all to tell you yours is not a big problem as you are seeing it, i have seen people with much more worse than this. You are completely making yourself surrounded by ur this thoughts which will degrade you mentally and physically. So, think that its a problem and every problem have solution, i am not trying to be phiosophical here.

Please when you get up some fine morining see the sun , drink some coffee and have breakfast and make urself so free of this thoughts for a moment, take a piece of paper write your problem in a way as u did in ur school like an algorithm, write it on a piece of paper , and write if you do this what will be the outcome and if not what will be the outcome, you will reach a point where there is a solution, do this with some reasearch to ur educational problem. Talk to peolple who wont show sympathy to you but to the people who can make u feel better and give a a ray of hope and give some good suggestion of how to go about to face ur situation.

Dont worry dude, everything is a matter of time, so please do some research of how to make ur studies better and do it with confidence and  not let you thoughts overcome ur confidence or concentration,borrow some money from your parents and friends , its ok to bother ur parents for some money , coz you will eventually do good to them.So take time to do some reasearch about ur studies or job and do it with a committment and you will end up at a good place,

and when its over and when you watch ur past u will laugh yourself that you worried for this problem and perhaps you overcomed it..it will a memory for you , i bet you gonna feel this, when its all over.

So dont make urself depressed, relax take time to think what you wanted to do or what will make you feel better career wise and go for it, To tell you about me, I am in a quite similar situation like you, but I have been with the people who dont let me depressed and wont let me down, so i feel much better and laugh at time when i think of how i reacted ot my problem and those problem are solved with a good thought and proper plan, so give it a time , you will do good.

After all we need a shoulder to cry when we are in troubles and especially when we are far way from our dear ones and if you dont have one, and if you overcomed it you will have a perfect grip on ur life of how to overcome the problem and stand alone and fight it.

Good luck friend, hope i am not too boring...take care,have a nice time, god bless you,,..

[ding]

apude thondaraga chethulu etheyaku dude, try cheyi kachitanga job thaguluthundi, inka US lo 3yrs nundi bench meeda undi jobs kotina frnds chaala mandhi unaru. present situation aite parents ki chepu, but never give up. naa suggestion maatram nuvu akkade undi ochentavaraku try cheyi mama elagu business kuda antha great ga nadusthaledanav, return veli kuda pedaga labam emi ledanipisthundi, unani rojulu mee vaalanu satisfy chey, but nuvu never give up. phd chesaav ante kachitanga ekada job thaguluthundi, avasaram anni nerpisthundi. ipati varaku chadavaledu antunav, ade ipati nundi ana chadavadam start chey. better late than never.