suggestion plz..wt i have to do?

[The QUEEN]

Presently you own a single problem @3$%..But thinking about a multiple future problems  LoL.1q...but its a good way to know your pros and cons and get a overall understanding about your skills/personality. sHa_clap4...Try to face your single problem, dont pass your problem syndrome on others(parents,brothers, and wellwishers) by telling them your problem. You can do it dude. All the best. sHa_high5ing

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Presently you own a single problem @3$%..But thinking about a multiple future problems  LoL.1q...but its a good way to know your pros and cons and get a overall understanding about your skills/personality. sHa_clap4...Try to face your single problem, dont pass your problem syndrome on others(parents,brothers, and wellwishers) by telling them your problem. You can do it dude. All the best. sHa_high5ing
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yeah manodu chinnaga unna problem ni complicated ga chesukuntunadu, main prob is job. adi kondariki thondaraga osthundi kondariki late ga. but kachithanga andariki osthundi. nee munduna target ipudu job n nee chaduvu, aa rendinti gurinche alochinchu

[katharnak]

[quote author=air india link=topic=125716.msg1391464#msg1391464 date=1290784144]
hi baa..i like ur suggestion..genuine ga undi...but konchem kastam ga undi baa, but confidence improve chesukovatam ante intha kastam ani teliyatledu baa..thank u
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thanks u like my view...

okati ba.. idhi nee life... nee chetullo undi.... believe me naaku kuda okasari ilaane anipinchedi... manam em chinna pillalam kaadhu.. intha dooram vachaam... will have to look more for opportunities... try n try...

if you are looking for a job or intern.. try posting abt that... resume pampu... AFDB lo evaro okallu help cheyagalaru...

idhi chala simple brother.. first nuvvu cheyagalvu... ane feel good factor techuko... try not sitting home.. bhaitiki vellu.. kotta vishyaalu kanipettu... even try gym it will boost ur self confidence

[air india]

[quote author=pikki link=topic=125716.msg1391560#msg1391560 date=1290787190]
Hi Bro,
Ur situation is not completely different from many of people/ students out there, may the situation is different in those people's life but the very essence is the same.Infact I am an example of completly unsatisfied fellow in my life, I sketched my life very well before I came to USA for higher studies.I had problems, with no body around u that can direct in the proper way when ur somewhere unreachable by ur parents and dear ones. Let's not deviate the topic to my life here.

First of all to tell you yours is not a big problem as you are seeing it, i have seen people with much more worse than this. You are completely making yourself surrounded by ur this thoughts which will degrade you mentally and physically. So, think that its a problem and every problem have solution, i am not trying to be phiosophical here.

Please when you get up some fine morining see the sun , drink some coffee and have breakfast and make urself so free of this thoughts for a moment, take a piece of paper write your problem in a way as u did in ur school like an algorithm, write it on a piece of paper , and write if you do this what will be the outcome and if not what will be the outcome, you will reach a point where there is a solution, do this with some reasearch to ur educational problem. Talk to peolple who wont show sympathy to you but to the people who can make u feel better and give a a ray of hope and give some good suggestion of how to go about to face ur situation.

Dont worry dude, everything is a matter of time, so please do some research of how to make ur studies better and do it with confidence and  not let you thoughts overcome ur confidence or concentration,borrow some money from your parents and friends , its ok to bother ur parents for some money , coz you will eventually do good to them.So take time to do some reasearch about ur studies or job and do it with a committment and you will end up at a good place,

and when its over and when you watch ur past u will laugh yourself that you worried for this problem and perhaps you overcomed it..it will a memory for you , i bet you gonna feel this, when its all over.

So dont make urself depressed, relax take time to think what you wanted to do or what will make you feel better career wise and go for it, To tell you about me, I am in a quite similar situation like you, but I have been with the people who dont let me depressed and wont let me down, so i feel much better and laugh at time when i think of how i reacted ot my problem and those problem are solved with a good thought and proper plan, so give it a time , you will do good.

After all we need a shoulder to cry when we are in troubles and especially when we are far way from our dear ones and if you dont have one, and if you overcomed it you will have a perfect grip on ur life of how to overcome the problem and stand alone and fight it.

Good luck friend, hope i am not too boring...take care,have a nice time, god bless you,,..
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Thank you brother...chala relax ga undi..nuvvu rasindi chadivithe intha chinna problem nenu face cheyaleka potunnana anipistundi...okkasari bayataki velli challati gaali pilvalani undi...chala rojula nundi alochistunna e problem gurunchi...inka emanna cheppalani unte plz sankochinchaku.

[katharnak]

[quote author=air india link=topic=125716.msg1391669#msg1391669 date=1290789296]
Thank you brother...chala relax ga undi..nuvvu rasindi chadivithe intha chinna problem nenu face cheyaleka potunnana anipistundi...okkasari bayataki velli challati gaali pilvalani undi...chala rojula nundi alochistunna e problem gurunchi...inka emanna cheppalani unte plz sankochinchaku.
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sHa_clap4 sHa_clap4 !Q !Q

[allbakara]

nice thread nice thread all guys who gave him your valuable suggestions  you rock you rock you rock

sorry bro, na dagara suggestions emi levu, except one orkut saying,

success is not final, failure is not fatal, it is the courage to continue that counts

[pikki]

[quote author=air india link=topic=125716.msg1391669#msg1391669 date=1290789296]
Thank you brother...chala relax ga undi..nuvvu rasindi chadivithe intha chinna problem nenu face cheyaleka potunnana anipistundi...okkasari bayataki velli challati gaali pilvalani undi...chala rojula nundi alochistunna e problem gurunchi...inka emanna cheppalani unte plz sankochinchaku.
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Thanks enduku le mama, If it make ur feel better that makes me feel better. Most of us dont know eachother here in this forum direclty, but we do share our problem directly or indirectly and have some sort of suggestion or help. This freaking world is still running becoz there is some humanity left in some form. So dont worry u will find a better place.

I studied Master in my dream subject and have govt certification from pennsylvania, but cant find a job and ended up in some other field , believe me till this moment i am not willing to do that job , but there is not choice for me as of now, coz time is something at times the most dangerous thing, it will make u feel better or let you down in some form. So i took the career and going on with it and i started liking it and i think i will end up in that field , may be its my destination and i have to live with it, So dont go for too complex issues take life as it comes and start from that.

You cannot reinvent yourself from the beginning , saying this means you might feel that if you have done somethings in ur past you would have been in a different or much better situation, but you cannot go back in time and start doing things ....right
BUT REMEMBER YOU CAN RE DISCOVER YOURSELF TO GET YOUR POSITIVE THINGS DONE. So , think positive and pray your parents and i bet if you think for the betterment of your parents whom they did so much for you and you thinking of working hard to make them happy.will put you in a better place.

So relax , and do research of the way u want to end up getting a job don't be lazy and give up, i still dint give up searching for a full time job in my studied field, i get calls sometimes and it gives me a hope that one day i will get there. So don't give up hope..
YOU BELONG SOMEWHERE AND YOU WILL GET THERE .NO MATTER WHAT..WITH YOU HARD WORK AND DEDICATION AND COMMITTMENT...

[Nenuinthey]

Mama....intha mandhi cheppaka.....neelo change vasthundachhu...nenu koda chinna mata sayam....

Problems andhariki vuntayi.... !q# !q#........

Ma father ki koda business vundhi baa....adhi antey naku interest ey..kani andhulo chala UPs and downs vunnayi....andhuvalla ma father edhina cheyi kani ee business matram cheyaddu baga chadhuvu vudhyogam thechhuko ani cheppadu...nenu konchem intelligent ney other than studies....Nenu appudu ma father ki edhuru cheppi nenu kanuka chadhavaka poinattlithey definite ga aa business ey chusukomani cheppeyvadu....adhi na chethiki vachinatlithey katchimaga paristhithi bayanakamga mari vundedhi

Elago [b]KASHTAPADI[/b] ...pass avvaleka pass ayyanu....Nenu ippudu job chesthunnanu...chadhavaleka chadhavaleka chadhivi....chivaraku sudi thirigi job vachhindhi mama.......ippudu life smooth ganey saguthundhi.....adhey business chesinattlithey definite ga ma father chesinantha baga chesi vundey vadni kadhu baa......evo mistakes chesey vadni.....first lo naku [b]vachhina interest chadhavaleka business meedha vachhina interest ey kani nijamga vachhina interest kadhu[/b].....naku ippudu thelusthundhi....

Nuvvu koda anthey anukuntunnanu.....elago nee sakthi samardhyalu..nee meydha sampathhi(thelivi thetalu) vupayoginchi oka job pattu.....andhulo inka edhagadaniki kashtapadu....oka range ki vachavantey inka pedda kashtapadakkarledhu as much as we did in initial days....alochinchu...[b]business kantey job thechhukodanikey preference ivvu[/b]............

Job kanuka vasthey inka neeku ee kashtalu emi vundavu....but do it at your best....

[golmaal govindam]

[quote author=pikki link=topic=125716.msg1391560#msg1391560 date=1290787190]
Hi Bro,
Ur situation is not completely different from many of people/ students out there, may the situation is different in those people's life but the very essence is the same.Infact I am an example of completly unsatisfied fellow in my life, I sketched my life very well before I came to USA for higher studies.I had problems, with no body around u that can direct in the proper way when ur somewhere unreachable by ur parents and dear ones. Let's not deviate the topic to my life here.

First of all to tell you yours is not a big problem as you are seeing it, i have seen people with much more worse than this. You are completely making yourself surrounded by ur this thoughts which will degrade you mentally and physically. So, think that its a problem and every problem have solution, i am not trying to be phiosophical here.

Please when you get up some fine morining see the sun , drink some coffee and have breakfast and make urself so free of this thoughts for a moment, take a piece of paper write your problem in a way as u did in ur school like an algorithm, write it on a piece of paper , and write if you do this what will be the outcome and if not what will be the outcome, you will reach a point where there is a solution, do this with some reasearch to ur educational problem. Talk to peolple who wont show sympathy to you but to the people who can make u feel better and give a a ray of hope and give some good suggestion of how to go about to face ur situation.

Dont worry dude, everything is a matter of time, so please do some research of how to make ur studies better and do it with confidence and  not let you thoughts overcome ur confidence or concentration,borrow some money from your parents and friends , its ok to bother ur parents for some money , coz you will eventually do good to them.So take time to do some reasearch about ur studies or job and do it with a committment and you will end up at a good place,

and when its over and when you watch ur past u will laugh yourself that you worried for this problem and perhaps you overcomed it..it will a memory for you , i bet you gonna feel this, when its all over.

So dont make urself depressed, relax take time to think what you wanted to do or what will make you feel better career wise and go for it, To tell you about me, I am in a quite similar situation like you, but I have been with the people who dont let me depressed and wont let me down, so i feel much better and laugh at time when i think of how i reacted ot my problem and those problem are solved with a good thought and proper plan, so give it a time , you will do good.

After all we need a shoulder to cry when we are in troubles and especially when we are far way from our dear ones and if you dont have one, and if you overcomed it you will have a perfect grip on ur life of how to overcome the problem and stand alone and fight it.

Good luck friend, hope i am not too boring...take care,have a nice time, god bless you,,..
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[The QUEEN]

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