MY Serious Problem

[Indian1211]

[quote author=mogsat link=topic=164221.msg1971519#msg1971519 date=1299480701]
maa amma natho cheppukoni edusthunaaru choodaleka pothunna
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nuv sariga info pass cheyu mama nuv unadi India lo na US lo naa    !q#

India lo aithe easy ga amma tho nuv sep ga edo job chesthu posinchochu... but US/Other place ante koncham kastamemo kada fst job kottuu  sHa_high5ing

[PMREDDY19]

[quote author=mogsat link=topic=164221.msg1971502#msg1971502 date=1299480498]
ok  maa father ni nenu chastaanu ani bayapedithe ???
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Don;t go so far with parents ba..

nuvvey intha complicate gaa unavu ani mee dad inka complicated decisions teesukovachu,

never drag the topic to death baa.. try to find a job if you are in India , try to speak to your Dad..

If you are in US and ur parents in India, you badly need some help from some of your mom's parents or brothers atleast..

and make sure you never get deep into the issue of Anumanam ,alays make the discussion as if why both of them had fights ani..

We can't discuss with parents such issues..  they can turn more sensitive if things are not going good, so we need to show up as if we are unable to bare their fight , and never try to mention the reason as anumanam of your father,.

always keep that as secret only project as if why you mom was so unhappy

as you said your parents worked hard for your future atleast he will/may consider his wrong opinions can be your problem

[dkchinnari]

mama niku dandam pedutha..matter clear gha seffu..nu half half post sesthe chala badha gha undhi..plz ardham chesuko..memu emana cheppataniki nu asalu ekada untav em chadivav oo teluali gha  sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends

[mogsat]

naa chinnapatinundi choostunna ilaage chesevaadu kaani naaku appudu ardham kaaledu nenu inter nundi hostel lo unna anukani naaku maa mother emi cheppaledu anukuntunna 1 year mudu kudaa ilaage chesaadu appudu cheppanu assalu vinaledu naa maata malli every 2 months ki okasari ilaa chesthunnadata anumaninchatam
nenu anukovadam konchem psychic mental ayyindanukuntunna

[Bhargav2010]

[quote author=mogsat link=topic=164221.msg1971550#msg1971550 date=1299481268]
naa chinnapatinundi choostunna ilaage chesevaadu kaani naaku appudu ardham kaaledu nenu inter nundi hostel lo unna anukani naaku maa mother emi cheppaledu anukuntunna 1 year mudu kudaa ilaage chesaadu appudu cheppanu assalu vinaledu naa maata malli every 2 months ki okasari ilaa chesthunnadata anumaninchatam
nenu anukovadam konchem psychic mental ayyindanukuntunna
[/quote]  !q# !q#  first nuvvu ekkada untavo cheppu mama? em chadivavo/chaduvutunnavo cheppu??  daani batti edanna helping seyyadaniki plan cheddam...

[mogsat]

Nenu b tech chadivaa india lo ikkada job vethukuthunna nenu

[PMREDDY19]

[quote author=mogsat link=topic=164221.msg1971550#msg1971550 date=1299481268]
naa chinnapatinundi choostunna ilaage chesevaadu kaani naaku appudu ardham kaaledu nenu inter nundi hostel lo unna anukani naaku maa mother emi cheppaledu anukuntunna 1 year mudu kudaa ilaage chesaadu appudu cheppanu assalu vinaledu naa maata malli every 2 months ki okasari ilaa chesthunnadata anumaninchatam
nenu anukovadam konchem psychic mental ayyindanukuntunna


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It can be a Reason  but u cant make your father talk to a Doctor as you are saying he is away  from  your relatives..

Also if you are looking for a job in India, keep concentrating in getting a job and always try to stay with your mom at home most of the time other than while looking for a job..


mee Dad concentration nee meeda untey I don;t think he will be more psychic rather than thinking of your future.... instead of scolding your mom while you are at home he will keep thinking of his future...


once you are in a job try to take your mom with you to the place wherever you get a job saying you need her for Cooking and all atleast for sometime so that he may realise the importance of you and her when you are away from him..

[graham]

[quote author=PMREDDY19 link=topic=164221.msg1971574#msg1971574 date=1299481609]
It can be a Reason  but u cant make your father talk to a Doctor as you are saying he is away  from  your relatives..

Also if you are looking for a job in India, keep concentrating in getting a job and always try to stay with your mom at home most of the time other than while looking for a job..


mee Dad concentration nee meeda untey I don;t think he will be more psychic rather than thinking of your future.... instead of scolding your mom while you are at home he will keep thinking of his future...


once you are in a job try to take your mom with you to the place wherever you get a job saying you need her for Cooking and all atleast for sometime so that he may realise the importance of you and her when you are away from him..
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*=: mama nuvvu chaala matured ga matladutunnav

[mogsat]

first i will try to get a job then i will deal this matter

till then nenu mother baadha nu choodalaa ??

[graham]

[quote author=mogsat link=topic=164221.msg1971596#msg1971596 date=1299481920]
first i will try to get a job then i will deal this matter

till then nenu mother baadha nu choodalaa ??
[/quote]
mama asalu chuttalu, family friends ee lera neeku help cheyataniki? mee intiki evaraina vachi unte...vallu unnarane mohamatam lo aina me father sarigga behave cheyyachu emo ani adugutunna..

job try cheyi mama... hyd lo freshers ki bane vastunnai jobs

[dkchinnari]

[quote author=mickey link=topic=164221.msg1971607#msg1971607 date=1299482022]
mama asalu chuttalu, family friends ee lera neeku help cheyataniki? mee intiki evaraina vachi unte...vallu unnarane mohamatam lo aina me father sarigga behave cheyyachu emo ani adugutunna..

job try cheyi mama... hyd lo freshers ki bane vastunnai jobs
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us lo anta baa ipdu undedhi  sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends

[graham]

[quote author=vishwamithra link=topic=164221.msg1971619#msg1971619 date=1299482122]
us lo anta baa ipdu undedhi  sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends
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sorry2 missed that post... maree antha serious prb aithe india ki velli ravatam better emo mama

[mogsat]

India lo unna

no relatives father andarini dooram chesaaru thats the main reason

[dkchinnari]

[quote author=mickey link=topic=164221.msg1971624#msg1971624 date=1299482238]
sorry2 missed that post... maree antha serious prb aithe india ki velli ravatam better emo mama
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asalu emana chepthe kada baa...half half info undhi mana daggara...eppdu vachadu..ms ayipoindha..athani presnt situtaion telvadhu kada baa manam cheppataniki  sHa_fr1ends sHa_fr1ends

[PMREDDY19]

[quote author=mickey link=topic=164221.msg1971590#msg1971590 date=1299481857]
*=: mama nuvvu chaala matured ga matladutunnav
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Ituvanti  chala cases lo inka asalu parents bayata padaru baa.

atleast his mother told to him the problem, so I guess he was at an age enough to handle this situation..

NOw he needs to go forward very carefully in each and every step including the way he talks to his father  as he got little support available from relatives and also he need to maintain hos mental balance in such conditions ..

Also he need to take care of his mom at the same time as she might take a some extreme decisions while under pressure..

Also he need to hide this issue from most of his friends as this is some thing you can;t really share even with a close friend
as it refers to his own parents..

So conditions here are making him look towards the option rather than many other options  we can thinkk of from outsider prospective.


I saw such cases as I see a lot of people coming to my Dad to find some solution to a lot of complex issues within the family and he used to stay so cool and make a lot of talking on both sides and let them know the loss of loosing the relationship within the family

SO i think there will some solution if someone can sit and keep discussing the issues...

instead of thinking f the extreme options..

as his Dad was a Hard-working person , he might have some other tensions from his job prospective or there can be some headache in his own job from his higher authorities... which he may not show up his frustration on

or there can be some other factors influencing him from his Dad's end which his son might have not known about..


so hejust can;t run away from his father even after getting a job, he just need to make his father realise the importance of trust on his family memebers.. with which She married him...