What is true love??

[dreamgirl]

Love. It’s a commonly thrown around four-letter word. “I love macaroni and cheese.” “I love Vanilla Ice.” (Remember that?) Sometimes, even an “I love him” or “I love her.”

What is real love? And is there a difference between that and the heart-pounding adrenaline rush I feel when I see…? You know the person I’m talking about. That hot guy playing basketball at the gym… the cute girl who makes eye contact as she passes by… the friend of a friend of a friend… maybe a best friend. It’s that person we keep track of when he or she is in the same room, whose comments and actions we analyze to no end.

There are a few things love isn’t. Love isn’t a feeling. Although real love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love does not equate with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike the type of love that movies, television, and songs portray, people in love don’t always feel ooey gooey around each other.

A relationship wouldn’t last long on emotions. In fact, knowledge is the basis of a healthy relationship.

Knowing about the other person is key. I used to and sometimes still do “fall in love” with guys that I have never had a conversation with, whether it be a movie star in the latest romantic drama or the guy sitting behind me in a calculus class. I would know his name and his face, and that was the extent of my knowledge of him. If I were to start a relationship with him, who knows where that would lead us!

Knowing about the person’s personality and character are so important. One good test is to list the qualities that attract us to that guy or girl. If the list is long, we know a lot about them and like those things. If the list is short, we either don’t know a lot about them or we know a lot but aren’t attracted to his or her personality.

Another important factor in a relationship is common life goals. If the relationship is going to be long term, we need to be going in the same general direction as the other person. If his dream is to travel as an international businessman and she wants to be a realtor in a single location, conflict could arise. If she wants to live in the countryside with nature and he likes the hustle and bustle of a big city, there are potentially serious problems with the direction of the couple’s lives.

Love isn’t sex. That statement alone goes against a lot of what the entertainment industry feeds us. Whenever two people hook up in pop culture, they have sex. Without showing some of the unpleasant realities of premarital and extramarital sex, it is drawn up to be a wonderful, fun recreational activity.

Sex is created for marriage–a long-lasting commitment between a couple. Outside of marriage, sex can have harsh consequences. Pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, guilt, insecurity, and shame can follow. A relationship based on lust can only last as long as the two are physically close and find each other sexually attractive.

Love is a choice. It’s a commitment. Although feelings will accompany love, and although sex will be a part of marriage, a lasting, healthy relationship cannot be based on these things.

dg..

[chowdary10]

naa deggaraki ra chupistha  J@#D J@#D

[kingmakers]

***** vesavu akkada emi peukuni chadavalii  sCo_^Y sCo_^Y sCo_^Y sCo_^Y

[Murari]

sCo_^Y sCo_^Y sCo_^Y

[kingbondraochittihangufan]

Trash

[Virat Kohli]

thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou

[Jambhalheart]

I love S-EX

here the 'love' is true love

[The QUEEN]

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[dreamgirl]

[quote author=KINGMAKERS link=topic=219472.msg2703834#msg2703834 date=1312309555]
***** vesavu akkada emi peukuni chadavalii  sCo_^Y sCo_^Y sCo_^Y sCo_^Y
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It's the se-x word ( seems its not allowed to use here)

dg..

[prakum007]

Love b/w a boy and girl who are not related in any way can not happen without physical attraction.. Unless their age is above 50 years  s%H# s%H#..

P.S: Physical attraction ultimately leads to S-E-X.  So sex is also love.  #~` #~` #~` #~`

[riddle]

*=: *=: *=: *=: ekkadi nunchi ee article.. link pls....

[charygaru]

World was a good place to live in untill love and lust was considered one and the same , the moment they started calling it two different things everything went chaos-- charygaru.

[prakum007]

[quote author=charygaru link=topic=219472.msg2704003#msg2704003 date=1312310790]
World was a good place to live in untill love and lust was considered one and the same , the moment they started calling it two different things everything went chaos-- charygaru.
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@gr33d @gr33d @3$% @3$%

[robo]

no not
it is what i feel for you

[dkchinnari]

[quote author=ROBO link=topic=219472.msg2704434#msg2704434 date=1312315509]
no not
it is what i feel for you
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