I Hate Feminism.. Read This Article.

[kakatiya]

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I really hate feminism.. feminism is what that comes out when women loose her feminism that came by birth and get stuffed with ego and attitude.

Feminism is what a women is to sacrifice.. and for men to give.

Also read the comments amde by folks below this article... hate u msn she.

[charygaru]

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I really hate feminism.. feminism is what that comes out when women loose her feminism that came by birth and get stuffed with ego and attitude.

Feminism is what a women is to sacrifice.. and for men to give.

Also read the comments amde by folks below this article... hate u msn she.
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Calling DG

[charygaru]

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[kakatiya]

Brides all over the world take their husband’s name after marriage. It has been a custom for ages and even till date many don’t question it. Although post the feminist explosion of the 1970s many women decided to add their husband’s surname to their name instead of removing their maiden surname, legal documents show that even today most women continue to change names after getting married. A smaller percentage defer to hyphenation.

Historically, there are three reasons governing this custom - Protection of family and wealth, designation of a new life direction and acknowledgement of God’s presence in and endorsement of the marriage.

But why is this practice continued even today, in an era when most countries claim they respect their female citizenry and also claim to be party to women upliftment? Is it not enough that women have to leave their lives (which is another objectionable practice) to start a new life with many strangers. Live with them, adopt their habits and lifestyle. Why should she also change her identity – something that many women have worked after all through their life? Before marriage she is known by her name, but post that she finds the title of Mrs. added to her name.

People take it for granted that after marriage a woman’s identity is associated with that of her husband. People who follow this practice advocate that this practice helps bring uniformity in a marriage. If the husband and the wife have the same name then it becomes easier. Be it the continuance of family name, in the patriarchal society or the superiority of the husband over the wife, there are many reasons behind the practice. But not one that has ever asked the woman about her opinion. Barring few matriarchal societies in small clusters and tribes of the world, women have had to change their identity.

Although, modern day does see many women taking the decision of not changing their name, it gets limited to official purpose only. In practice, people in the society address her by her husband’s surname only. It doesn’t occur to us to ask the woman concerned if she has changed her name or not. It is taken for granted.

This is the 21st century – a time when our lifestyle has changed drastically from the early centuries when such practices were prevalent. Women then lived in different circumstances and had to depend on men. Today women have an opinion and many claim that they respect it. If you let her study, develop a thinking process and understand what is right and wrong, it becomes imperative that you take her decision on such matters as well. After all it’s her identity!

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[k2s]

[quote name='kakatiya' timestamp='1323887880' post='1301145115']
[url="http://she.msn.astroyogi.com/editors-picks/giving-up-her-identity.html"]http://she.msn.astro...r-identity.html[/url]

I really hate feminism.. feminism is what that comes out when women loose her feminism that came by birth and get stuffed with ego and attitude.

Feminism is what a women is to sacrifice.. and for men to give.

Also read the comments amde by folks below this article... hate u msn she.
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[kakatiya]

girl comment:

[url="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1239477897"]Richa Chandola[/url]

rahandharesh although you seem to be capable of sentence formation and comprehension the point of essence has eluded you. the concept of the wife being 'welcomed' into and 'integrated' with the husband's family is outdated. if familial engagement is desired beyond the frames of marriage which is a bond between 2 people, then both sides( husband and wife) ought to be accepted equally.
how can one in today's world justify the demand to change one's name to one's husbands in order to get married? albeit it is also a matter of choice, but by giving into this choice women are further undermining their position in society, as are they by playing into the hands of patriarchal capitalists and trading themselves off as sex objects.
in any case since u arnt even to able to comprehend how this is a sexist practice, I think u have been corrupted and disillusioned by our stupid sexist society to a large extent. maybe instead of being so cynical of women you should open up your mind to other possible ideas. if u cannot maybe you ought to shut up.

[kakatiya]

Boy comment:

rohandharesh (signed in using Yahoo)

Richa, I think you must keep your mouth shut if you cannot and do not want to understand what I am saying. STOP poisoning the minds of people with bullshit feminism that has no sense in it. You have said that the practice of changing name is outdated. But strangely, you follow many other outdated practices. You expect a man to be well-settled and well-employed for you to marry. You do not want to marry unemployed men. You expect men to pay you alimony and maintenance after divorce. Let alone you paying maintenance to your husband. You sleep with the same "outdated practices" when it suits you and kick it when it does not. You say that women are oppressed but refuse to recognise the fact that men are far more oppressed by the society and its norms. You expect women to be provided first seats in a rescue boat. You expect special privileges because of your womanhood. You expect lesser punishment for crimes committed because you are a woman. I have seen plenty of feminists and women libbers who do exactly that. Its time to expose your double standards. The real sexists are the feminists who want special privileges for women under the guise and garb of gender equality. All I can say to the feminists is to shut up and not spoil and poison people's mind with their rubbish!!!!

[k2s]

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Calling DG
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[Sastrygaru]

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Boy comment:

rohandharesh (signed in using Yahoo)

Richa, I think you must keep your mouth shut if you cannot and do not want to understand what I am saying. STOP poisoning the minds of people with bullshit feminism that has no sense in it. You have said that the practice of changing name is outdated. But strangely, you follow many other outdated practices. You expect a man to be well-settled and well-employed for you to marry. You do not want to marry unemployed men. You expect men to pay you alimony and maintenance after divorce. Let alone you paying maintenance to your husband. You sleep with the same "outdated practices" when it suits you and kick it when it does not. You say that women are oppressed but refuse to recognise the fact that men are far more oppressed by the society and its norms. You expect women to be provided first seats in a rescue boat. You expect special privileges because of your womanhood. You expect lesser punishment for crimes committed because you are a woman. I have seen plenty of feminists and women libbers who do exactly that. Its time to expose your double standards. The real sexists are the feminists who want special privileges for women under the guise and garb of gender equality. All I can say to the feminists is to shut up and not spoil and poison people's mind with their rubbish!!!!
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[POOLA RANGADU]

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[dreamgirl]

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Calling DG
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enty ??

dg..

[dreamgirl]

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ha ha..idee issue lo SERIOUS bhoom...bhoom lu ayyayi... ...ee concept ki oppukokapothe...JUMP antunnaru ladies...ee kaalam lo...

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endhadhi ??

dg..

[k2s]

[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1323888849' post='1301145244']
ha ha..idee issue lo SERIOUS bhoom...bhoom lu ayyayi... ...ee concept ki oppukokapothe...JUMP antunnaru ladies...ee kaalam lo...

cheppaagaa..JAMBA LAKADI PAMBA ee idi...DG vachi support cheste..nenu malli ..JLP antaa...i hurt antundi...
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