Asal Denni G Balupu Ni Emanali.....

[pandemkodi]

g balupu okko daaniki baaga perigipoindi ..deeni kallu evadu dengaadu pelliki mundu

[vijrmc]

Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....

[Spartan]

[quote name='kakinada' timestamp='1328138446' post='1301368544']
Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....
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u lucky uncle.....Congrats....

[Sastrygaru]

[quote name='kakinada' timestamp='1328138446' post='1301368544']
Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....
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Lucky pellow.. ATB for future..

[k2s]

[quote name='kakinada' timestamp='1328138446' post='1301368544']
Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....
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ur lucky to have such a good wife

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1328134456' post='1301368284']
indulo ammayyi tappu takkuva...poor girl ..she just didnt have the EXPERIENCE to envision the FUTURE.. She imagined marriage with that person is ok..as he is a good guy and they are compatible.

But yeah...if family backdrops do not match..IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST. I can empathize with the girls feelings here. Hmmm..Tood bad she got struck. She should have listened to her parents advice....That is where EXPERIENCE comes to play.

I have nothing to say...it is upto the girl to take a decision..whether to adjust...( IMPOSSIBLE ) ...or just...live with her parents...and ask her husband to leave behind the baggage ..and come live with her family...(..BOY might not agree). Divorce? ( kids...) ..huh,,,,,too painful...this is ONE HECK OF A COMPLICATED COBWEB. hang in there gal!
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[Spartan]

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[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='kakinada' timestamp='1328138446' post='1301368544']
Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....
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lucky fella....but andaru mee wife la matured ga undaleru kada.....and pelli tondaraga jaragatam valla aame ivanni telsukolekapoyindi

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

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[bujjulu]

yodhudu nuvvu kuda indus laides???

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote name='bujjulu' timestamp='1328143822' post='1301368833']
yodhudu nuvvu kuda indus laides???
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Kadu....Desi aunties [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

[psycopk]

[quote name='POOLA RANGADU' timestamp='1328134456' post='1301368284']
indulo ammayyi tappu takkuva...poor girl ..she just didnt have the EXPERIENCE to envision the FUTURE.. She imagined marriage with that person is ok..as he is a good guy and they are compatible.

But yeah...if family backdrops do not match..IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO ADJUST. I can empathize with the girls feelings here. Hmmm..Tood bad she got struck. She should have listened to her parents advice....That is where EXPERIENCE comes to play.

I have nothing to say...it is upto the girl to take a decision..whether to adjust...( IMPOSSIBLE ) ...or just...live with her parents...and ask her husband to leave behind the baggage ..and come live with her family...(..BOY might not agree). Divorce? ( kids...) ..huh,,,,,too painful...this is ONE HECK OF A COMPLICATED COBWEB. hang in there gal!
[/quote] I didn't expect this answer from you... aa abbai place lo nuvvu unte ide answer cheptava??

[rapchik]

[quote name='kakinada' timestamp='1328138446' post='1301368544']
Same thing happened in my situation but I am lucky to have an understanding person. My background is completely from a very remote place in Andhra and the accent, dressing and culture is entirely different from the regular. My wife is a Brahmin and her family is typical K.Viswanath movie types and from a city. We both met in college, liked each other and got married with the acceptance of parents. She was surprised after seeing the situation at my home and in my village. She had never been to such kind of village in her life time. But she managed the situation very well. During the past two years of my marital life, we never had such kind of problem (above mentioned). Now my parents are very happy with my choice. She calls them daily from US and very concerned.

As you all said, it's definitely BALUPU tappa inkem kaadu.....
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[POOLA RANGADU]

[quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1328144729' post='1301368887']
I didn't expect this answer from you... aa abbai place lo nuvvu unte ide answer cheptava??
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aa abbayi place lo nenu untee...ane supposition ki nenu jsutification ivvalekapovachu..cos...maadi marii alaanti ..killi..pan paraag backdrop kaadu kaabatti.

ee case lo andaru aa ammayi ni tittina tittu tittakunda tittaaru. But i want to point out a few things :

1) aa ammayi...abbayi dabbu ni choosi oo..aasthi ni choosi oo...chesukoledu. MANISHI ni MANISHI gaa choosi..aa ammayi sthaayi kakapoinaa...PELLI ki siddha padi...PARENTS vaddu ani cheppinaa..vinakunda..tana manasu cheppina maata vindi.

2) Even after getting a RUDE CULTURAL shock , she didnt disrespect them nor did she openly convey her hatred towards their habits like pan,gutka etc which are an INCONVENIENCE to any HIGENIC person. She has lived with MNERAL WATER DRINKING and if she goes there..she might be scared of DIARRHOEA or CHOLERA for that matter. the food, comforts, house, privacy, ambience, EVERYTHING is a TOTAL RUDE SHOCK to her.

YET..she was just wondering ..how to SURVIVE rather than thinking of letting the guy go. The poor girl, didnt even tell her parents her suffering inspite of the mental agony.She is SILENTLY suffering the pain.

She has clearly stated, she doesnt want her kids to get the foolish thoughts/knaive thoughts of her in-laws , their language and their unhygenic habits.

I SUPPORT THE GIRL 100% .

If i had a sister, i wouldn't want to send her to such a backdrop and if i did, i would feel bad for her .

That's why i think in this case, the guy covered up his backdrop and silently got married without exposing his family an saying that the girl doesn't need to worry about his family or stay with them after marriage.


MATTER OF FACT....I AM RATHER SHOCKED THE WAY THE GUYS HAVE REACTED TO HER FEELINGS. Except for NPR, no one was thinking on the same lines i quoted. Am not asking for agreement, but shouldn't there be a common ground?

[Silver_mani]

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