kidmakers Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kiran karthik' timestamp='1329849021' post='1301436759'] nenu anedi pelli ayyaka manchi stage lo unte parents ok antaru ani kaadu maama, manam ippudu professional ga manchi stage lo unte mana parents manaku ishtamaina vallatho pelliki oppukuntaru ani, [/quote] baa.. entha manchi stage lo unna kudaa.. 50 years vallaku unna beliefs ni vallu cheripesukoleru kadha.. nenu chusina and vinna experiences nunchi cheptunna.. i know parents who accepted whatever their kids did.. and i know parents who were against these kind of things.. there are two sides of the coin.. but the more weight falls on the later category.
kiran karthik Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1329849093' post='1301436764'] baa.. entha manchi stage lo unna kudaa.. 50 years vallaku unna beliefs ni vallu cheripesukoleru kadha.. nenu chusina and vinna experiences nunchi cheptunna.. i know parents who accepted whatever their kids did.. and i know parents who were against these kind of things.. there are two sides of the coin.. but the more weight falls on the later category. [/quote] nuvvu cheppedi correcte baa kaani andaru alaage untaaru ani anukolemu kadaa
Sastrygaru Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1329848723' post='1301436740'] adhi mana brama.. manam anukuntaam. oka 2 or 3 years ayyaka.. pillalu puttaka annee sardukuntai.. they will cool down ani.. but atleast aa 2 or 3 years aina vallu baadha padtaaru.. narakam chusthaaru rojuu baadha tho.. evarikee cheppukoleru.. baita vallu veleththi chuputhu untaaru.. 25 years hopes pettukunna pillalu ila chesaarey ani untaaru.. old age lo emi cheyaleka oka 3 or 4 yrs ki comprimise aipothaaru.. aa 2 or 3 years kuda vallani baadha pette hakku manaku ledhu ani naa feeling. [/quote] Malla Agreed Kiddu... parents ni taruvatha taruvatha.. anvasaramgaa tittukuntaaru.. mundhu venakaal.. at least pelli cheskunna vallu bane settle ayyipootaaru vere places lo.. kaani kanna vallu konni roojula taruvatha saddukupootharu annadi anni saarlu right kaadu.. society vallaki pani ***** undadu.. so they just keep dragging the same issue even for years.. kaani both the sides family lo ok ayyi and if they can support the couple then its fine to an extent..
kidmakers Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kiran karthik' timestamp='1329849208' post='1301436773'] nuvvu cheppedi correcte baa kaani andaru alaage untaaru ani anukolemu kadaa [/quote] thats what i said.. there are two sides of this coin.. but many instances, u will find parents who oppose and get hurt if u go against them.. there are a countable few who agree with what u say.. may be when our kids do such things, we will accept it, becoz we are growing with that perception - there is nothing wrong in doing like that.. but our parents are not grown like that..
golmaal govindam Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 My suggestion is to tell everything right in the beginning clearly. Abhadam meeda ye relation nilabadadu. Inka aa tarvatha everyone ok aithey, everyone means, you, girl, your family and girl family... andaru ok aithey proceed. Otherwise drop. Life is long, short term happyness kosam long term problems techchukovadam senseless.
Bondu_Babu Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 nve ayite nijam cheppe, aa ammaiki nvu nijam nachite ne caste gurinchi pattinchukodu.
kiran karthik Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1329849289' post='1301436783'] thats what i said.. there are two sides of this coin.. but many instances, u will find parents who oppose and get hurt if u go against them.. there are a countable few who agree with what u say.. may be when our kids do such things, we will accept it, becoz we are growing with that perception - there is nothing wrong in doing like that.. but our parents are not grown like that.. [/quote] parents ishtaniki against marriage chesukovadam chaala thappe, vallanu oppinchi love marriage chesukovachu ane nenu first nunchi cheppalankunnadi
kidmakers Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kiran karthik' timestamp='1329849704' post='1301436818'] parents ishtaniki against marriage chesukovadam chaala thappe, vallanu oppinchi love marriage chesukovachu ane nenu first nunchi cheppalankunnadi [/quote] yah.. thats what even i meant.. do not go against their wishes ani.
Bondu_Babu Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='Sastrygaru' timestamp='1329849208' post='1301436774'] Malla Agreed Kiddu... parents ni taruvatha taruvatha.. kuuda tittukuntaaru.. mundhu venakaal.. at least pelli cheskunna vallu bane settle ayyipootaaru vere places lo.. kaani kanna vallu konni roojula taruvatha saddukupootharu annadi anni saarlu right kaadu.. society vallaki pani ***** undadu.. so they just keep dragging the same issue even for years.. kaani both the sides family lo ok ayyi and if they can support the couple then its fine to an extent.. [/quote] agreed ma akka ki okka sambandham vachindhi abbaiki ma akka nachindhi, ma akkaki abbai nachadu. valla parents meko nijam cheppali may be broker cheppado ledho ani, ma ammai love marriage chesukoni vellipoyindhi maku aa pelli istham ledhu malli ippati varaku thirigi raaledhu memu inka pilavamu ani chepparu. ventane ma parents mokhalu maadipoyayy eppudu vellipothara ani anattu pettaru. vallu vellipoyaka broker ki call chesi full kotting icharu. manam edo anukuntam kaani parents chala serious react avutharu. appudu anukunna vammo intha serious teesukuntara ani.
Sastrygaru Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='Bondu_Babu' timestamp='1329849815' post='1301436826'] agreed ma akka ki okka sambandham vachindhi abbaiki ma akka nachindhi, ma akkaki abbai nachadu. valla parents meko nijam cheppali may be broker cheppado ledho ani, ma ammai love marriage chesukoni vellipoyindhi maku aa pelli istham ledhu malli ippati varaku thirigi raaledhu memu inka pilavamu ani chepparu. ventane ma parents mokhalu maadipoyayy eppudu vellipothara ani anattu pettaru. vallu vellipoyaka broker ki call chesi full kotting icharu. manam edo anukuntam kaani parents chala serious react avutharu. appudu anukunna vammo intha serious teesukuntara ani. [/quote] Adhe anutunna.. at least chala mandi previous generation ki ivi nachhavu.. paata padhhatullo alloochistaaru.. they are right most of the times.. and also.. bramhins aithe chala ekkuva rules follow avutaaru..even today.. thedaa vasthe mataashh.. neenu close gaa chala incidents suusanu.. peli cheskunna vallu bane unna, undakapooyindaa pedda teeda raadu parents ki maatalu paataayi.. kaani ippudu konchem change vachindi.. monna oka case lo oka abbai mari tella ammai ni pelli cheskunnadu.. mari daaniki em chepthamm? valla mother baaga eedichindi.. bhada padindi.. but she agrred after some time.. em chestaaru.. at least tellolaki mana values entha varaku telustaayi.. Donno.. relation entha varaku veltundi.. inturn i have a desi person whom i know who's got married to an American and living happily.. chala muchhateestundi valla pair ni chusthe.. malla idi oka never ending tofic.. deeniki eppudu two answers untaayi..
taadu.....bongaram Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 okallani okallu istapadatam lo tappu ledu kaani mee istam kosam parents ni maatram badha pettoddu. oppinchi chesukondi...... All is well.
Spartan Posted February 21, 2012 Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='psycopk' timestamp='1329847891' post='1301436686'] ammai istapadlsindi ninu nee caste ni kadu… nee caste valla no chepte li8 teeskoni intlo chusina pilla ni chesko [/quote] ..ade sepdam ani vachhha...
karnudu Posted February 21, 2012 Author Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='Yuva Nataratna' timestamp='1329847881' post='1301436685'] nuvvu vishwa brahmin aina kooda brahmin kindane lekka kada mari??? [/quote] vishwa brahmin ante brahmin kaadu bhayya. monnati varuku neenu kooda ade anukuna. Brahmi is a viswa brahmin!!
karnudu Posted February 21, 2012 Author Report Posted February 21, 2012 [quote name='kidmakers' timestamp='1329848112' post='1301436702'] ammai caste enti.. ?? ammai kaanee bramhin aithe.. valla family tho it may be a problem.. bramhin ammayilani vere caste ki ichi antha easy ga cheyaru.. alaanti paristhithi vaste i suggest u to drop off.. dont go against parents' wish.. we wont understand the pain they go through.. if we do like that. [/quote] ammai 'C' bhayya. ade koddiga problem. maamulga vallaki koddiga caste feeling ekkuva untadi kada. i am pretty sure i will definately not go againts my parents kiddu. at this point i am worried about whether i can really convince them. my parents are fine kaani akkade ela untado telitam ledu. ammai ki ela chappali adi telitam ledu
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