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Hi
Ours was a pure luv marriage ,we are married for the past 2 years.I dont have a kid.We both are hindus I am from a brahmin family whereas he is from non-brahmin.I am 3rd last daughter was pampered by my father.my elder sis had arranged marriage my family is totally against luv maraige somehow they agreed for me.1year I stayed with my in laws downstairs(me and my guy),in laws were staying upstairs.At that time of love no one will think about money future parents later only they feel.
My husband doesnt have a proper job in sense his salary was low.I also work to meet family needs.I have a different style of living very lavish stylish but his family is well off but they are ready to help only when I stay along with my in laws in between my in laws wanted us to vacate the house and wanted to live with themThey told they will start some business for my guy bcoz he was into his business before marriage .This way mu guy didnt go for any job,for 1 month which was very shocking for me but not for them.they stay in some interior ,travelling was bis problem for me.Then I told my parents about this.
-> when ever I talk about his salary we both fight and one day his parents came in between and scolded me they never had feeling that their son was earning less?
-> my next step I planned for divorce since he never realised and my relations never spoke to me as nobody liked what I did.
-> Then slowly I shifted all my things lieing to them or els they will create problem but my guy had doubt
-> then later my family astrologer even told that we cant get along,I have option for 2nd marriage
->then I stayed with my parents for 1 month mean while my guy came back saying sorry that he wanted to do business but he never thought I would give divorce to him.
->then He told me that he will go back to go his previous job.He always wanted to keep me happy.
->but my parennts didnt like me joining back I was actually in a confusion but I dont have any idea of 2nd marriage.Then I thought that since I know him well he wants to be with me I am back with him now.
We have shifted to new location,I told him cant stay with his parents .
I don hav any problem other than his earning or else he told everything frankly to me,
about his salary from the begining,he has the habit of drinking but now he doesnt .but now he says his salary will rise but my parents are very worried bcoz they feel if I don go for job things cant be managed.I dont have any plans for baby now as I don want to go for job once I have a baby,my husband should support me.I told him frankly about this,when I told about this to my MIL we will both end up fighting she has the attitude that I have to go for work after having baby and there is nothing wrong in that but if its for her daughter then the rules are diff.
Now situations have changed but still now when I think about my future I get worried ,I feel sad tht whether my husband will be able to support me or should I take any other decision before having a baby.As after having baby I dont want to suffer..Now I understand that I have cheated my parents I should have listend to them.

Pls suggest your ideas to me...

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vaammo manake confusing gaa undi.. [img]http://www.bewarsetalk.net/discus/movieanimated5/hp.gif[/img]

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daani bhada endo mukka artham aithe Vottu.. nannu seppetti kottu.. [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

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Deeniki suggestions em ishtaaru naa findaakudu.. [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

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ohhhh..naake anukunnaa..chaala mandhiki confusing ga vundhannamaata :)

dg..

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[quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1329860345' post='1301437689']
On a funny note: Pure love marriage ante enty sSc_hidingsofa

dg..
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[quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1329860345' post='1301437689']
On a funny note: Pure love marriage ante enty sSc_hidingsofa

dg..
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parents invovlment lekunda chesukunna pelli emo

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[img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img] inkodini set chesko mani seppu....

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[quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1329860345' post='1301437689']
On a funny note: Pure love marriage ante enty sSc_hidingsofa

dg..
[/quote] love lo leka poina love lo unatu feel aaite appudu adi pure love marriage. sSc_hidingsofa sSc_hidingsofa

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[quote name='dreamgirl' timestamp='1329860345' post='1301437689']
On a funny note: Pure love marriage ante enty sSc_hidingsofa

dg..
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Pelli ki mundu vallu Bumchik Bumchik ye kaadu..kaneesam Tiffins kuda cheskoledanta...anduke Pure Love..... [img]http://lh3.ggpht.com/_KVkPY2XIbRQ/TWAgXprYLuI/AAAAAAAABCo/VzL0ae41lc4/brahmilaugh.gif[/img]

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